Mikangano imachitika nthawi ndi nthawi m'banja lililonse. Mmene mungapewe kapena kuwongolera molondola, nkhaniyi idzafotokoza.
M'banja lililonse, nthawi ndi nthawi, pali mikangano, kusagwirizana, kusamvana ndi kusamvetsetsana. Mwamwayi, anthu ochepa okha amatha kuwapewa, chifukwa anthu awiri sangathe kukhala ndi malingaliro amodzi nthawi zonse, ndikuchita zonse molondola ndikukwaniritsa zofuna zawo. Koma mikangano iliyonse imakhala yosavuta kukhazikitsa pachigawo choyambirira, m'malo mobweretsa ku malo otentha. Choncho, ndikofunika kuteteza kusamvana kapena kuthetsa vutoli molondola. Zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuthetsa mkangano ndi mwamuna wake.
Zikondwerero zabwino
Mmawa ... dzuŵa limadzutsa kuwala kwake koyamba, iwe mosakayika umadzuka, kutambasula mokoma, kutembenukira mbali ndi mbali ... ndipo upeze mmanja mwa mwamuna wako wokondedwa. Ndi zabwino, sichoncho?
Mosakayikira mkazi aliyense ali ndi malingaliro ake okondweretsa, okhudzana ndi moyo waukwati, mpumulo wothandizira, maholide ena, zochitika kapena zosavuta moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Nayi njira yoyamba yothetsera kusamvana kapena kutsutsana. Nthawi zonse mukakhumudwa, ndipo mukufuna kusonyeza kusakhutira kwanu ndi mwamuna wanu, imani, kumbukirani nthawi zosangalatsa zomwe mumakhala pamodzi, ndipo mkwiyo wanu udzatha. Ndiyeno, mukulankhula kodekha, mwa kulingalira ndi kukonzekera, mungathe kukambirana mavuto onse. Ndipo nthawi zambiri mavuto onsewa amatha. Nkhondoyo yathetsedwa.
Sinthani malo
Ngati malingaliro anu akulepheretsani inu, ndipo simungakumbukire nthawi zosangalatsa m'moyo, ndiye kuti pali njira yachiwiri - yesetsani kudziyika nokha pamalo a mnzanuyo. Inde, inde-iyi ndi njira yowopsya kwambiri komanso yowopsya kwambiri yomwe tauzidwa kuyambira tili mwana. Koma taganizirani, ndi nthawi zingati zomwe timagwiritsira ntchito ntchitoyi, osati kungooneka kuti tithetse chikumbumtima chathu? Ndipotu, munthu aliyense akufuna kumvedwa, ndikufuna "kukhala m'malo mwake", "khungu lake". Khwerero lotsatira, ndikutsutsana kumeneku ndi mwamuna wake, ganizirani za zomwe zinapangitsa wokwatirana kuti azilankhula ndi zochita zake. Ndipo kodi malingaliro ake ndi olakwika? Kapena kodi uli ndi malo oti ukhale? Mwinamwake "kusinthana kwa matupi" kumeneku kudzakuuzani momwe mungagwirizanane pa nthawi yovuta.
Tenga pang'ono
Ndi njira imodzi yofunika kwambiri yosungira mkhalidwe wamtendere m'banja. Pamene mukukambirana kwanu muli mawu otukwana okhudzana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu, pamene mfundo zowonjezereka zimatsatiridwa ndi malingaliro anu, pokhapokha mutatseka mbale ndikuwombera zitseko, nkoyenera kuimitsa ndikuganiza pazochitika zonsezi. Winawake akusowa mphindi 10, wina amakhala wochepa kwa maola ochuluka, ndipo ena ali okonzeka kuyambiranso zokambirana mmawa wotsatira. Mulimonsemo, ndondomeko yothetsera vutoli ku "mutu wakuzizira" idzakhala mofulumira komanso mogwira mtima kwambiri.
Timamanga ubale wathu tokha. Ndipo nthawi zonse ndibwino kukumbukira kuti kuleza mtima ndi kumvetsetsa ndizo zigawo zazikulu za ubale wodalirika, wokhalitsa ndi wamuyaya.
Chikondi ndi kukondedwa!