Pazifukwa zina zimawoneka kuti ife, amai, timakhala mosavuta komanso kosavuta kuposa iwo. Sitiyenera kupita "kupha mammoth", ndikukakankhira m "banja, sitiyenera kukhala amphamvu komanso okhwima, ndipo" amayi ambiri "safunikira kukhala" ... ". Koma ndithudi si onse. Amayi ambiri amakono amapindula ndi amuna, ambiri amakhala ndi ntchito, amawoneka, osati maudindo a amayi. Boma limapereka malamulo ake kwa amayi ndi abambo.
Pokhala akadali mtsikana kwa ambiri a ife, makolo adalimbikitsa chitsanzo cha khalidwe la mkazi momwe iwo adakula, koma nthawi siimaima, zonse zimayenda kutsogolo ndipo tsopano sikuti mkazi aliyense amavomereza kukhala mayi wamasiye komanso kuyembekezera mwamuna wake kuntchito kuti adyetse chokoma chakudya chamadzulo ndikumugoneka. Tsopano mkazi akufuna yekha ufulu wochuluka, mkazi akuyesera ufulu, kukhala mkazi mu dziko lamakono amatanthauza kukhala munthu wodziimira. Ndipo sizosadabwitsa: kuchokera m'magazini athu omwe tikuyang'ana pa nkhope zabwino, zokongola, pawonekedwe labuluu timayang'ananso momwe akazi okhawo apindulira bwino kwambiri mu bizinesi, adziwika bwino ndi olemekezeka. Ndipo kamodzi kokha m'moyo, koma aliyense wa ife anadzifunsa tokha funso lakuti: "Ndipo nchiyani chimandiipitsa? Ndine mkazi. Iwenso ndikhoza kuchita izo. "Ndipo timapita kukagwira ntchito ndi mitu yathu, timayesetsa kuti titsimikize, kuti tiwonetsere anthu omwe tikukhala nawo pafupi kuti ndife amayi komanso oyenerera, kuti antchito abwino komanso zomwe tikufuna zingakhale zothandiza. Kuntchito, timaiwala umunthu wathu. Nthawi zambiri timasanduka zachilengedwe zomwe zimangoyendetsera cholinga chawo. Koma inu mukufuna kuti mukhale mkazi ... Ine ndikufuna inu muyamikiridwe monga choncho. Kuonjezera apo, ntchito ya mkazi wopambana imatenga pafupifupi nthawi yonse yaulere. Ndipo, kunena zoona, kupeza wokondedwa wamphamvu ndi kovuta kwambiri. Ndipo ife, akazi, tikuyembekezera. Kawirikawiri timapanga zolinga, ndiyeno timatsutsa anthu onse chifukwa palibe "amakwaniritsa magawo." Timavutika, timakumana nazo. Nthawi zina timayamba kupanga zozizwitsa tokha, kapena timangozipeza mwa ife tokha chifukwa cha kusowa kumvetsetsa komanso kusowa kwazitsulo. Ndipo apa izo zikuyamba ... Kukumba mwa iweeni, kuti, nchiyani chomwe sichinali, bwanji, ndi zina zotero. ndi zina zotero.
Koma apa pakubwera chisangalalo mu nkhope Yake, ndipo timaiwala malingaliro onse oipa, zodandaula zathu kwa amuna onse ogonana ndikudzipereka tokha kumverera, timakhala mkazi weniweni. Chabwino, kapena tiyesera kudzipereka kwa iye monga zilolezo za ntchito. Ndiye ndikufuna kukhala bata mudziko lamakono - banja. Ndipo chiyanjano mu banja, monga inu mukudziwa, chimadalira kwathunthu pa mkaziyo. Chibadwa cha amayi? Ayi, izi ndizodabwitsa - umayi, koma ife amayi sitiopa kukhala amayi nthawi zambiri, pomwe abambo nthawi zina amawopsyeza kufunsa za mwana ... Koma ndi sitepe yamphamvu komanso yowopsya yopanga chisankho cha kubadwa kwa mwana. Ndipo osati anthu okha omwe amachita izo.
Ndizodabwitsa pamene chirichonse chikukula ndi pambuyo pa ntchito yabwino mkazi akhoza kulowa m'banja ndi mutu, kubereka ana, ndiye kubwerera kuntchito yake. Ndi wangwiro. Koma gulu lathu silingalekerere zolinga ... Ndipo nthawi zambiri mkazi (ndipo ngati ali wamng'ono komanso akadali ndi mwana) n'zovuta kupeza ntchito yabwino. Kusankhana? Inde. Ndipo amuna ambiri amadziwa ichi, koma palibe chilichonse cha kuvomereza uku sikusintha. Ndipo pambuyo pake, pakati pazinthu zina, palibe wina amene atha kuthetsa ntchito za mkazi yemwe "adatengeka" ndi makolo athu. Ndipo mkazi weniweni mu dziko lamakono ayenera kukhala "pambali ziwiri."
Kotero zimakhala kuti tikulimbana ndi malo pansi pa dzuŵa ndi mphamvu zathu zonse zomwe tikufuna kukhala osangalala ndi kupatsa achibale athu chimwemwe ndipo izi zimakhala zovuta ... Koma ndikufunseni ngati ndikufuna kuti ndibadwire, ndikuyankha "Ayi!" Mkazi - Ndizokongola!
Kukhala mkazi weniweni - ziribe kanthu momwe zinalili zovuta kapena zovuta - zimatanthauza kukhala maluwa okongola m'moyo uno. Ndipo ngati mwamuna weniweni amasamalira maluwa amenewa, ndiye kuti sizingakhale zovuta kuti mkazi akhale!