Banja
Mchemwali wanga amandiganizira tsiku lililonse chifukwa cha zoopsa ...
Ndi mchemwali wanga wamkulu sitinali pafupi, koma atakula, anasiya kulankhulana nane. Ndinayesera kuti ndilankhulane, koma ndinayamba kuthamanga. Tsopano ndine wosiyana ndi mwamuna wanga, ndipo tikukhala limodzi: bambo, ndili ndi mwana wanga wamkazi ndi mlongo wanga. Amanyoza tsiku lililonse. Ketulo siili yoyenera, chotchinga sichikulendewera ... Sichifuna kusintha nyumba, ndilibe mwayi wokhala chipinda mosiyana. Momwe mungakhalire?
Ndemanga ya maganizo
Chinthu choyamba kuchita ndi kukafunsa ngati mlongoyo ndiye chinthu chokha. Moyo umasonyeza kuti pambali yotsutsana, mbali zonsezi zimakhala zolakwa nthawi zonse. Kunena zoona ndi zolakwa sizichitika. N'zotheka kuti m'makhalidwe anu muli chinthu chotsutsa. Kuyesera kudziyang'ana nokha kupyolera mwa mchemwaliyo kumathandiza kumvetsa bwino magwero a iye wokhumudwa ndi wogonjetsa. Zimathandizanso kusiyanitsa pakati pa akuluakulu ndi apamwamba. Mwachisangalalo atapachika machira ndi kuima pamalo olakwika tetipotu ndi yovuta kunena kuti zinthu ndizofunikira. Pano palinso mwayi wotsutsana. Ndipo chifukwa cha "kunyozedwa" kwa mlongo, mwachiwonekere, akugonjetsa chiopsezo chake ndi chisokonezo.
Mukamayendera katswiri wa zamaganizo pa nkhani za m'banja, nkofunika kumvetsa kuti dokotala akufunadi kukuthandizani, ndipo samakuletsani ndalama iliyonse yothandiza.
Sindingathe kukondana naye mnzanga wapamtima
Mmodzi wogwira ntchito kwa ine nthawizonse "amathira". Kulankhula, kuyesetsa kukhudza, kumalola nthabwala zosasangalatsa, ndimadzuka pamene ndimamwa khofi mu khitchini. Modzichepetsa komanso mwaulemu, sikugwira ntchito, koma sindikudziwa momwe ndingakhalire wovuta komanso wamwano ...
Wamuyankha kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo
Pakati pa zofewa ndi zovuta, ulemu ndi zamwano zilipo zambiri pakati. Sikoyenera kuwonetsera mopitirira malire. Ndizomveka kuti tisiyanitse khalidwe lanu. Mwachitsanzo, penyani mwakachetechete pamsonkhanowu, ngati mukumva mawu otchuka kwambiri a joke. Palibe zokometsera, palibe ndemanga - ingoyang'ana m'maso. Nthaŵi zambiri, joker amatayika, ndiyeno sichiopseza kuchita wit. Mawu akuti "Sindimakonda kukhudzidwa ndi alendo" amalepheretsa anzake kuti asamange manja ake kumene sakuyenera. Chinthu chokha chomwe chingalepheretse vutoli ndi kusakhutira kwanu kuti "musamadziwe" chibwenzicho.
Maphunziro
Mwana wanga wamwamuna wazaka 8 amaphunzira bwino, amalowa masewera, ndi wochezeka ... Koma kwa iye, zonsezi (kulamulira, mpikisano, mpikisano) ndizovuta. Iye ali wamanjenje, wodandaula, akuyesera kuti athamangitsidwe. Musalole masewera a masewera, musadziwe momwe mungathere - mwakhumudwa kwambiri. Ndingamuthandize bwanji?
Ndemanga ya maganizo
Mwa iwo okha, ntchito zoyesera, mpikisano kapena mikangano sizomwe zimayambitsa vuto la maganizo. Ana asanakhazikitse mapepala ovomerezeka omwe ali ndi zolinga zabwino kwambiri. Saganizira za tsogolo ndikukhala kokha pakali pano. Ana okhumudwa si mayesero, koma amaopa kuti asakumane ndi ziyembekezo za makolo. Ndipo mfundo apa siyiopseza chilango cha thupi, koma poopa kuchotsedwa, sichivomerezedwa ndi anthu omwe amadalira ndi omwe akusowa. Kuti muchepetse kumverera, mutenge mwanayo, mosasamala kanthu za kupambana kwake kusukulu, musati muwonetsere chisoni pa zolephera ndipo musamangoganizira mozama zowonjezera.
Kodi ndiyenera kuwathandiza mayi anga ku nyumba, ndiuzeni, katswiri wa zamaganizo?
Timakhala ndi mwamuna aliyense ndi makolo ake. Ndimapita kumapeto kwa mlungu ndi iye. Amayi ake "amatumikira" kwathunthu. Ndipo akunena kwa ine: "Sambani mbale," "pukutani fumbi m'chipinda cha Lesya." Kodi amakwaniritsa zofunikirazi? Sindifuna kuphunzitsa mnyamata kuti aganizire kuti ntchito yonse yopanga homuweki imachitidwa ndi mkazi ...
Simuyenera kusamalira Lesha. Lamulo lovomerezeka m'banja la mnzako silokha lokha lokha, koma njira imodzi yokha ya moyo. Tengani izi ngati maziko kapena kukhala atsopano - mukufunikira kusankha. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, kufalitsa ntchito kwa amayi ndi abambo sikumasinthasintha. Padakali pano, ndi chikumbumtima chabwino, mungathe kunyalanyaza ntchito yolemekezeka kuti muwononge fumbi m'chipinda cha mnyamata kapena kusamba zovala zake. Kusamba mbale ndi zovuta kwambiri. Ngati makolo akudyetsani inu, imwani mlungu uliwonse, ndiye kuti mumangoyambitsa zomwe zimayambitsa. Kotero, inu mukhoza kusamba mbale, koma pamodzi ndi Khalala Lesha.
Kuti mukambirane zapamwamba za katswiri wa zamaganizo pa nkhani za m'banja, malo abwino a psychology ayenera kupezeka.