Amzanga ali gawo lalikulu la moyo wa aliyense monga banja komanso chikondi. Koma ngati wokondedwayo akudana ndi abwenzi anu onse, momwe mungachitire muzochitika zoterozo ndipo kodi chikanakhala chifukwa chotani chiyanjano choterocho?
Mdani ndi mdani
Choyamba, ndi bwino kuganizira zochitikazo, pamene khalidwe la mwamuna wanu ndilo chifukwa chotsatira mfundo ndi kusanthula zochitika. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, ngati akunena mwachidule, amadziwa ndikumvetsa kuti kampani yanu ndi yoipa kwambiri kwa inu kapena ayi. Mwachitsanzo, mwinamwake abwenzi anu samanyansirana ndi abambo ambiri, ndipo abwenzi nthawi zambiri amamwa mowa, ndipo kenaka chinachake chimakhala choipa kwambiri. Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye kuti khalidwe lanu la chibwenzi ndi lodziwika bwino komanso lomveka bwino. Akufuna kukutetezani ku chikoka cha anthu oipa. Mwinamwake inu nokha mulibe kudziwa izi, koma kampani yanu ikukoka inu pansi. Ngati ndi choncho, musakhumudwitsidwe ndi mnyamatayo ndipo yesetsani kumukaniza. Ndi bwino kudzifufuza mosiyana ndi khalidwe la anzanu, komanso ubale wawo ndi anthu ena. Musayesere kulingalira kampani yanu. Yang'anani zoona pamaso panu. Mukatero mudzatha kumvetsetsa kuti ndinu ndani komanso chifukwa chake chibwenzi chanu chimatsutsa ubale umenewu. Mwinamwake, inu nokha mudzakhala kumbali yake ndipo pang'onopang'ono mukuchoka ku kampani yoipa.
Nsanje
Komabe, si nthawi zonse amuna amachitanso chimodzimodzi mwa zolinga zokha. Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zimakangana ndi atsikana awo ndi abwenzi ndikuziika pa kampani chifukwa cha zofuna zawo. Chifukwa chodziwika kwambiri cha khalidwe ili ndi nsanje. Mwamuna samangofuna kugawana naye wokondedwa wake ndi anthu ena. Mu vparnih amaona anzake omwe angakhale anzake pachibwenzi, ndipo abwenzi ake nthawi zonse amatcha nkhuku zopusa zomwe sizingamuphunzitse kanthu kabwino. Pa nthawi yomweyo onnikak sangatsutsane malingaliro ake, komabe akupitiriza kunena kuti msungwana sayenera kulankhula ndi anthu oterewa. Ndipotu, anyamata monga awa ndi eni. Iwo amaopa kulola kupita ndi kulola anthu kuganiza ndi ubongo wawo, kulankhulana ndi ena ndi kufotokoza malingaliro awo. Amuna oterewa ndi ovuta kwambiri, koma sakuzindikira. Iwo ali ndi nsanje pa nsanamira iliyonse, chifukwa mu kuya, amadziona kuti ndi osayenera kwa mtsikana uyu ndipo akuwopa kuti achoka. Munthu wotereyo amakhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse kuti abwenzi ake anganene zinthu zovuta zokhudza iyeyo, afotokoze zofooka zake, kuwopa kuti anyamata ena ozungulira mtsikanayu adzakhala bwino. Poyang'aniridwa ndi nsanje, achinyamata nthawi zonse amalankhula za abwenzi a mtsikanayo, ngakhale kuti akuganiza kuti ali anzeru, okongola, aluso ndi zina zotero.
Kuopa kuwonongeka
Kusakondana kwakukulu kwa abwenzi kumawonekera pakati pa otsutsa achipongwe. Gulu la anthu likufuna kuyang'anitsitsa zonse. Kwa iwo, mkazi ndi chuma chake, chomwe sichiyenera kulongosola malingaliro ake ndikuchita momwe iye akufunira. Mnyamata wodalirika nthawi zonse amakhala wotsimikiza kuti akuchita zabwino ndipo mtsikanayo adzachita zinthu zoyenera pansi pake. Koma ngati alankhulana ndi abwenzi ake, ndiye kuti anthuwa adzamuyendetsa panjira yowona, kapena ayi. Mwa njira, malingaliro ake ali olondola, monga kampaniyo, powona momwe bwenzi lawo akuvutikira m'manja mwa aphunzitsi, adzayesera mwanjira inayake kumudziwitsa iye ndi kupulumutsa ku moyo wotero. Koma skoreevsego kuchokera kwa abwenzi sangagwire ntchito, chifukwa otsutsa amadziwa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito "brainwash" mwangwiro. Adzapeza kuti mzake ali ndi zovuta zinazake ndipo amatha kupatsidwa, kuti mtsikanayo ayambe kuoneka ngati kuti akulankhula ndi anthu oopsa. Mabwinja samalola kuti ozunzidwawo akhale nawo pafupi. Ngati simungasinthe maganizo a abwenzi, amangoyamba kuopseza ndi kumenyana ndi mtsikanayo, ngati sakuyankhula ndi kampani yake. Kwa otsutsa, palibe chachilendo kapena choopsa pa zomwe amachita. Anthu oterewa nthawi zonse amakhala otsimikiza kuti akufunikira kulamulira, omwe amapitiliza kutsogolera wozunzidwa. Mnyamata angathe kupeza mwachindunji anzake omwe ali ndi theka la mbali zolakwika ndikumuuza tsiku liri lonse za izo. Wochenjera komanso wochenjera wopondereza, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuona kuti akukonzekera womenyana ndi anzake.
Belayavarona mu kampani
Chifukwa china chimene chibwenzi chanu sichimakonda abwenzi ndizoletsedwa - sanangobvomerezeka kudziko lake. Iye amamva ngati akulakalaka anzanu osasamala, amadziona kuti ndi "khwangwala woyera" ndipo izi zimamukhumudwitsa. Choncho, mnyamata amayamba kutsutsa chilichonse mwa anzanu. Sakonda ma nthabwala awo, kavalidwe kawo, khalidwe lawo. Zonse zomwe mumauza abwenzi anu, mwamunayo amakhumudwitsa kuti ndi zopusa, zopusa, zosasangalatsa ndi zolakwika. Ndipotu, ali wokwiya, ndipo mwinamwake ngakhalenso nsanje ndi inu, chifukwa inu munavomerezedwa, koma iye sali. Makamaka zoterezi zikuwoneka pazochitikazo pamene chibwenzi chanu ali ndi abwenzi ochepa, ndipo muli ndi ambiri, amuna ambiri. Mnyamata samakanidwa kwambiri ndi amai, chifukwa ali ndi chibwenzi. Kuwonjezera apo, amai nthawi zambiri amayesetsa kukhala okhulupilika komanso osasonyeza ubale wawo weniweni, kuti asakhumudwitse mtsikanayo. Ndipo apa anyamatawo akhoza kunyoza ndi kusewera mwatsatanetsatane, ndipo afotokoze maganizo awo pa khalidwe la mnyamata wanu yemwe angamukhumudwitse .
Mukawona kuti zinthu zikuchitika bwino, ndiye kuti mumangoyankhula ndi chibwenzi ndi anzanu. Fotokozani kuti akukukhumudwitsani ndi khalidweli. Chifukwa chake, wina ayenera kupeza chiyanjanitso ndi zofanana, chifukwa simukufuna kupereka nsembe imodzi kapena ina. Palibe yemwe amakukakamizani kuti muyanjanitse ndi kulumbirira ndi ubwenzi wosatha. Koma sikungapweteke kusonyeza ngakhale kumvetsetsa pang'ono ndi kulekerera mnzanu. Ndipotu, ngakhale kuti abwenzi anu kapena chibwenzi chanu ndi zoipa, ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi inu, monga munthu amene amadziwa bwino bwino aliyense, muyenera kuyesera kuti muthandizepo anyamata kuti athetse vutoli.