Pali lamulo losavomerezeka: lapamwamba pa chitukuko cha zamoyo, kukhala ndi nthawi yayitali ndi ubwana wawo ndipo zamoyozi zimakhala zosafunikira kwambiri atangobereka. Zofufuza za asayansi zimatsimikiziridwa nthawi zonse muzochita, kutsindika kuwona kwa mawu awa. Koma mbali yoyamba yokha. Ngati tikamba za kusowa ntchito, ndiye kuti ofufuza omwewo anatsimikizira mosiyana. Ubwana wa munthu ndi wokonda kwambiri komanso wolimba kwambiri moti amawoneka ngati ife, akuluakulu, nthawi zina sitingathe. Palibe mmodzi wa ife amene angapulumutsidwe mu zikhalidwe zomwe mwanayo ali ndipo amakula. Ayenera kuthana ndi kusintha kwa ulamuliro wa kutentha (kuchokera 37 ° C kugwa kwa 20-25 ° C), kuchokera kumadzi a m'nyanja kupita kumlengalenga, mumasekondi amatha kukhala ndi njira yopuma, akusowa chakudya chosasokonezeka. Ndipo zonsezo mu mphindi zingapo! Mukuganiza bwanji, ndizotheka kuti ofooka mwauzimu ndi thupi kwa munthu? ..
Kuyang'ana manja okonda
Mwamwayi, pakuberekera, vutoli limapweteka, limakhala ndi lingaliro la kugwa kosatha, mutu waukulu. Amachita mantha ndi kutetezeka panthawi yomweyo. Komabe, akatswiri a zamaganizo atsimikizira kuti choipa ichi sichikhoza kutaya chilichonse mwachinsinsi monga momwe amachitira atabereka bwino, ndipo pamene mwanayo agwira pachifuwa cha mayi wachimwemwe, womasuka ndi wachikondi! Choncho, pochita zovuta zadziko, kubadwa kwachilengedwe kumathandizidwa mwakhama. Azimayi 10 pa 100 alionse omwe akugwira ntchito amafunikira kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala opatsa mphamvu komanso opusa. Ena otsala 90% amatha kubereka bwinobwino kwa ana omwe alibe thandizo la mankhwala, kudalira mphamvu zawo. Pakati pa kubala, mkazi sangathe kufuula, koma kuimba, kumvetsera nyimbo, kupuma mimba ... chirichonse, kuti mupirire nthawi zosasangalatsa ndi mtima wabwino. Ndipotu, chisoni chake pa mwanayo panthaŵiyo chimatanthauza zambiri kuposa mavuto ake enieni. Zonsezi zimaphunzitsidwa ndi akatswiri odziwa bwino maphunziro a makolo amtsogolo.
Kawirikawiri, kuti ana, omwe amafunira pa nthawi yomwe ali ndi mimba komanso pamene ali ndi mimba, obadwa mmanja mwawo, amayamba moyo ndi mawu abwino, akhala atatsimikiziridwa kale. Iwo ali oyankhulana komanso okhumba mtima. Amadzimva otetezeka, ndipo ali ndi mgwirizano wamphamvu ndi makolo awo. Kodi zinatheka bwanji? Mothandizidwa ndi machitidwe a psychotherapeutic. Akatswiri ambiri akuwerenga zomwe zimatchedwa "kukumbukira kubadwa", povumbulutsa zizindikiro ndi zobisika za ubwana wawo. Pogwiritsa ntchito kugwedezeka, munthu amakumbukira ndikufotokozera zomwe zinamuchitikira panthawi yomwe anabadwa, ndipo nthawi zambiri pamfundo yochepa kwambiri, kuphatikizapo malingaliro ake. Iwo anali mwadzidzidzi okhwima, omveka, ndi akumverera - zakuya.
Ndimasankha mawu a amayi anga
Mwanayo amamva mawu a mayi nthawi yaitali asanabadwe, choncho pakatha kubadwa n'kosavuta kusiyanitsa ndi ena. Chimodzi mwa mayeserowo chinasonyeza momwe zimakhudzira mau a mayiyo. Ankachitidwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo wa ku France Anthony de Caspe. Ana akuyamwitsa bere la amayi awo pogwiritsa ntchito silicone yophimbidwa ndi pacifier yomwe imagwirizanitsidwa ndi chipangizo choyesa kuyamwa mofulumira, anaphatikizapo kujambulidwa kwa matepi omwe amawerengedwa ndi amayi awo ndi amayi ena. Mwanayo atangomva mawu ake enieni, anayamba kuyamwa mofulumira komanso molimbika kwambiri. Maphunziro a masiku awiri analola wasayansi kuganiza kuti: makanda amadziwa bwino mawu a amayi awo (mosasamala kanthu kaya amalankhula Chingerezi kapena German). Mosiyana ndi mawu a amayi ena. Izi zikutanthawuza kuti chombocho chimatha kugwira chiyankhulo cha kulankhula, kutchula, kusintha kwa mafoni, komanso, kukumbukira yekha, wokondedwa komanso wobadwira, mau omwe anamva asanabadwe. Talente yodabwitsa imeneyi iyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi kupangidwa. Mwanayo nthawi zonse amakonzeka kulankhula ndi Amayi. Inu nokha mwatsimikiza kuti mwana wa miyezi 2-3 akuyankha inu ndi chithandizo cha kuyenda ndi agukaniya. Ndipo sikuti amangozindikira zokhuza mau ake, komanso amachokera ku zokambiranazi ndi inu chisangalalo chosaganizirika.
Kudikira kukhudza
Kulankhulana kwa thupi kumakhala koyankhulana nthawi yaitali mwanayo asanakulire ndikuphunzira kuyendetsa kayendetsedwe kake. Kuika mwanayo m'manja mwa papa wamng'ono, ndiyeno kupyola muzowunikira pang'onopang'ono, asayansi anapeza zozizwitsa zogwirizana ndi makhalidwe a ubwana wawo: mwana akhoza kuyenda mu synchronism ndi wamkulu. Poyang'ana izo zinali zowoneka bwino, kuti phokosolo linabwereza abambo onse a kayendedwe. Abambo ake atangotamanda mutu wake, mwanayo adatambasula mutu wake kwa iye. Izi zinachitika nthawi zingapo. Pamene dzanja lamanja la abambo linasunthira kumbali yake, dzanja lamanzere lamanzere linatambasulidwa kuchokera kumbali yina. Akatswiri a zamaganizo sakanakhulupirira kuti synchronism yoteroyo ikhoza kukhalapo. Ndipo iwo analimbikitsanso makolo kuti adziwe luso la kugwirizana - kukhudzana ndi thupi, kugwirizana kosaoneka komwe kukuthandizani kumvetsa chinenero cha mwana kuyambira masiku oyambirira. Kulumikizana kungakhale maziko abwino owonetsera masewera, chikondi ndi kukondana kwamtima m'tsogolo. Mwanayo akukonzekera ubwenzi wapamtima ndipo amayembekeza chimodzimodzi kwa inu. Musamane iye!
Ndikufuna kudziwa chirichonse!
Mwana wakhanda alidi munthu. Iye amatha kudziwonetsera yekha. Zomwe asayansi amapeza masiku ano zatsimikizira kuti khanda ndilokhazikika. Amatha kulankhulana, kupanga mgwirizano wapamtima. Mwana yemwe wangoyamba kumene kuwonekera, ali wokonzeka kulandira chidziwitso chatsopano ndipo, pokhapokha, amadziwa zomwe angachite ndi izo. Kotero, ngati mukulankhulana ndi mwanayo poganizira makhalidwe a msinkhu wa ana, mumakhala ndi zotsatira za umunthu wotukuka, munthu waluso ndi wanzeru. Musamanyalanyaze umnyashek wanu wachinyamata - amakula kwambiri kuposa momwe mukuganizira!