Inde, poyamba, zonse zimadalira momwe mudasweka. Ngati kupatukana kudatha ndi chisokonezo ndi mkwiyo, ndiye kuyamikira kuyenera kumasiyidwa ndi inu. Dziweruzireni nokha, ngati mutasiya munthu, kumukhumudwitsa ndi ichi, ndiye chiyamiko chidzawoneka bwanji? Pali njira zingapo. Woyamba - adzalitenga ngati kunyansidwa, maganizo ake adzasokonekera, adzakulembani kalankhuni yamoto ndi yamtundu wapatali ndipo holide yake yonse idzawonongedwa.
Njira ziwiri - mnyamata angaganize kuti izi zikutanthawuza chinachake ndipo malingaliro anu sanadutse. Pankhaniyi, adzayambanso kufunafuna mwayi wokomana ndi kukhazikitsa maubwenzi, ndipo izi simukufunikira kwenikweni.
Taganizirani zosiyana - mnyamatayu anakugwetsani ndikukunyozani. Pachifukwa ichi, kuyamikira koteroko kudzatengedwa ngati manyazi. Adzawonetsa izi kwa abwenzi ake onse, osayiwala mwachidzinso ndi kunena kuti iwe, wopusa wopanda chikondi, amene sungathe kukhala wopanda ulemerero wake.
Ndicho chinthu china pamene inu munalekana, mwachangu, mwamtendere. Pakati pa inu panalibe mikangano ndi zoopsa. Mwachidule, panafika nthawi yomwe inu nonse munazindikira kuti malingaliro anathetsedwa ndipo kuti panalibe chifukwa choti mupitirize chiyanjano. Zikatero, mutha kuyamika mnyamatayo pa holide ya kubadwa kwake. Koma ayesetseni kuyamika moona mtima, koma osalowerera ndale. Sikofunika kugwiritsira ntchito mitundu yosiyanasiyana komanso kuchepetsa chithandizo, chifukwa mnyamata akhoza kutanthauzira molakwika izi ndikuganiza kuti mwatsanso malingaliro kwa iye.
Ngati mukudziwa kuti mwamuna wakale ali ndi nsanje kwambiri yomwe imamukumbutsa nthawi zonse, ndiye kuyamikira kukuyenera kuiwalika. Ndiwe ndipo amamvetsetsa kuti zakale zapitazo, ndipo moni wotero ndi msonkho kwa munthu amene mumamukumbukira. Chibwenzi chake sichifuna kumvetsa ndikuzindikira izi. Chifukwa chake, bwenzi lanu lakale limatsimikiziridwa: tsiku lobadwa losasokonezeka, lopweteketsa, amatsenga komanso mbale zosweka. Ndipo musakhale osayenerera kuganiza kuti sadzazindikira SMS kapena uthenga waumwini. Amayi awa amayang'ana chirichonse ndi kulikonse. Ndicho chifukwa chake mumangomukumbukira tsiku lake lobadwa ndipo mumamufunira zabwino. Anthu amamva mphamvu zabwino, ngakhale sangathe kuziwona kapena kuzimva.
Chabwino, ngati mumakhalabe paubwenzi ndi mnyamata wina, mwachibadwa, palibe funso lililonse. Ndikuganiza kuti akukuitanani ku chikondwererocho, ndipo simungomuthokoza yekha, komanso mupatseni mphatso yosangalatsa. Inde, njirayi ndi yosavomerezeka kwambiri, koma, mwatsoka, palinso maanja omwe angazindikire kuti ubwenzi wawo ndi wapamwamba kusiyana ndi kukwiyira, kukhumba ndi kusamvetsetsa.
Koma pali zochitika zina. Ndipo imodzi mwa iwo ndi yomwe, atachoka, mtsikanayo amadziwa kuti amamukonda kale mnyamata wake. Kodi mungatani kuti muthane ndi vutoli? Choyamba, muyenera kudziwa nthawi zonse ngati ali ndi dona watsopano komanso momwe amachitira. Kaya muli ndi mphamvu zotani, simuyenera kudzidzimvera nokha ndikudzipusitsa nokha. Inde, tsiku lobadwa ndilo tchuthi labwino komanso lokongola, lomwe lingakhale chifukwa choyanjanitsa. Koma, m'pofunika kudziwa bwinobwino ngati chiyanjanitsochi chiridi chenicheni. Choncho musanagwiritse ntchito moni monga chifukwa, funsani mwa anzanu mmene zinthu zilili. Ngati sakukukondani ndipo sanapeze mkazi yemwe akukondwera naye - mutha kutenga mwayi.
Zikatero, kuyamikira kwanu kuyenera kukhala kokwanira, koma osati kwambiri. Simudziwa ngati adakali ndi malingaliro. Ngati iwo sali, ndiye kuti mungangowoneka wopanda pake pamaso pa chibwenzi chanu chakale. Popeza mumamudziwa bwino, gwiritsani ntchito mawu ndi ziganizo zomwe zingamugwire, kukukumbutsani za kale, nthawi zina zabwino. Mu kuyamikira kwanu khalani owona mtima, koma musamumane naye, dzichepetseni ndikuwonetsa kuti ndiyo wabwino kwambiri padziko lapansi ndipo ndinu wokonzeka kuchita zonse. Mundikhulupirire ine, ngakhale m'mawu ena othokoza, mungathe kupeza mosavuta mawu ngati mutayika pamenepo. Choncho yesetsani kukhala ndi maganizo anu, ngakhale kuti n'zovuta kuti muchite. Mnyamatayo ayenera kumvetsa kuti mukufuna kuti muyankhule naye, koma simukuchita zonse zomwe zingatheke komanso zosatheka. Ngati simunayanjane naye, adzalandira kuyamikira kwanu ndipo ayamba kukambirana, ndipo pamenepo zonse zimadalira inu. Ngati pangakhale makala, akhoza kutembenuzidwanso kukhala lamoto.
Nanga bwanji ngati mwamuponyera munthuyu, ndipo tsopano mukuzindikira kuti mwalakwa? Pachikhalidwe ichi, masiku okumbukira kubadwa angathedi kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati chifukwa choyanjanitsa. Koma ngati zili choncho, ndibwino kuti musalembe, koma kuitanitsa. Izi, ndithudi, zimawopseza, chifukwa nthawizonse nthawizonse ndizotheka kuti sangatenge foni. Koma komabe muyesetse kuyesa. Ngati mnyamatayo akulankhulabe, muthokozeni, muike maganizo anu m'mawu awa, ndikupempha chikhululukiro, fotokozani kuti mukulakwitsa ndipo mumamukonda. Musamufunse za msonkhano, pezani, mungopereka chakudya choganiza. Muloleni iye amvetse chomwe chiri chokondeka kwenikweni kwa inu, ndipo mwazindikira zolakwa zanu zonse.
Ngati azindikira kuti mumadandauladi zonse ndipo adakali ndi malingaliro, mwinamwake mudzatha kupanga. Pa tsiku la kubadwa, tonsefe timakhala okoma pang'ono. Choncho, muli ndi mwayi wofikira kwa iye, chifukwa cha kulapa kwanu moona mtima.
Koma, ngati munthuyo sanatenge foni, iwe, ndithudi, ukhoza kulembera kwa iye, ngakhale, mwinamwake, zotsatira zake zidzakhala chimodzimodzi. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kungovomereza kuti mwatayika ndipo muyenera kupitiriza kukhala ndi moyo, mukuganiza zolakwa zanu. Ndipo ngati nkofunikira kuyesa mobwerezabwereza kuyamikila chibwenzi chakale ndi tsiku lobadwa, Chaka chatsopano ndi maholide ena, ngati sakufuna kukuwonani inu m'moyo wake? Ndikuganiza kuti sizothandiza. Musasokoneze nthawi yamtengo wapatali kwa munthu amene safuna kugawana nanu nthawiyi.