Akatswiri a maganizo a Chibulgaria ataphunzira kwa nthawi yaitali zowonongeka kwa mabanja adakhazikitsa malamulo awa kwa amayi omwe akufuna kukhala ndi banja labwino:
1. Musaganize kuti ntchito yanu, ntchito yanu komanso ulemu wanu zidzasintha banja lanu ndi ana anu . Movuta kwambiri, muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungasinthire. Ndipo musayiwale kuti mkazi ayenera kulimbikira kuonekera kwake, zovala ndi zina zonse zooneka ndi zosawoneka zazimayi.
2. Banja labwino siligwera kuchokera kumwamba, sichimasulidwa , silikuwonjezera pa lokha. Icho, monga cholengedwa chirichonse chaumunthu, chimafuna khama lalikulu, chidwi ndi luso. Komanso, zambiri kuchokera kwa mkazi kusiyana ndi mwamuna.
3. Ngati pali mkangano, mkangano, kusagwirizana, kuyang'ana cholakwacho poyamba mwa inu nokha, ndipo pokhapo mwa mwamuna . Zolephera za anthu ena nthawi zonse zimawonekera kwambiri kuposa zawo ... Ziribe kanthu kuti mumakwiyitsa kapena muli wokwiya bwanji ndi zochita za mwamuna wanu, musachedwe kuchitapo kanthu, phulani zodandaula zanu. Yembekezani, yesani kuthetsa. Ndipo pokhapokha chitani.
4. Yesetsani kupeza nthawi zonse makhalidwe abwino ndi maonekedwe a mwamuna ndipo, ngati n'kotheka, muuzeni za iwo. Kumva za ubwino wake, iye amayesetsa kukhala bwino. Musaphonye mwayi wokambirana momwe mulili ndi iye. Kutamandira kudzidalira kumalimbitsa ubwenzi wake ndi iwe. Pa nthawi yomweyi, kuvomereza kotere kumalimbikitsa, kulimbikitsa. Kumvetsetsani kuti ngakhale mu malo apamtima, ngakhale maloto achikondi a munthu wangwiro, zimadalira inu.
5. Musakhumudwe, kukhumudwa, musadandaule , ngakhale pali chifukwa cha ichi. Mkazi wokhumudwa posachedwa amamanga mwamuna wake . Khulupirirani kuti mwamuna wake ali ndi nkhawa zambiri komanso mavuto ake. Ndibwino kukumbukira momwe dzulo mukuyesera kuti muyanjane naye, mumusankha pakati pa ena onse mafanizi, komanso kuti ndinu okondana kwambiri.
6. Ngati inu (chilichonse chimachitika) mwadzidzidzi mutuluka ndi mnzanu kapena mwamuna wina akukangana , musamulole kuti akule kwambiri. Izi zidzapangitsa kuvutika kosafunikira ndikubweretsa mantha m'banjamo. Chinthu chatsopano sichikhoza kukhala chabwino komanso changwiro. Zingatheke kuti mumudziwe bwino, mwinamwake mungapeze mwa iye zolakwa zazikulu kuposa mwamuna wake, zomwe mumakonda kale ...
7. Yesetsani kulimbikitsa ana ndi chikondi ndi kulemekeza atate wawo. Musapikisane naye, kupambana chikondi chawo . Khalani wowolowa manja. Lemekeza makolo ake, mosasamala kanthu za makhalidwe awo kapena malingaliro awo. Iye amadziwa, ngakhale atasonyeza, kulekerera kwanu ndi ulemu.
8. Musati mutenge nokha zosankha zofunika zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri kwa banja. Kambiranani nawo ndi mwamuna wanu, ndipo ngakhale, pamapeto pake, malingaliro anu adzalandiridwa, adzalandira kuti agwira nawo pa chisankho chomwe mumayamikira maganizo ake. Ngakhale utsogoleri wa abambo mumtundu wonse, m'banja , nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kuposa mkazi ...
9. Musalole chifuniro cha nsanje , koma musapite ku zovuta zoposa, kusonyeza kusayanjanitsika.
10. Zonsezi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala kapolo wa banja lanu, pewani ulemu wanu ndikusiya maganizo olakwika. Ayi, osati mwa njira iliyonse. Awonetseni, afunseni zomwezo kuchokera kwa mwamuna wake, koma nthawi zonse ndi luntha, mozindikira, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, ndi chikondi chachikulu.