Kumvetsera nkhani ya mayi wina wapadera, mukhoza kumvetsera ku adilesi yake - "mkazi wakupha." Akaziwa ali ndi chithumwa chapadera, kugonana komanso zambiri. Komabe, si aliyense amene angathe kufotokozera momveka bwino kusiyana pakati pa amayi opha amayi ndi amayi wamba.
Mkazi wakupha sizitunda
Azimayi ena amaganiza kuti ntchentche imeneyi imalingaliridwa. Ndipotu, iwo akulakwitsa kwambiri. Mkazi akhoza kukhala chinyengo, chimene amuna samachimvetsa nkomwe. Komanso, omwe amakhulupirira kuti amayi ophatikizidwa amasungunuka amakhalanso olakwika. Inde, iwo ali achigololo, ndizosatsutsika, koma sangathe kutchedwa kusungunuka. Mkazi woteroyo, poyamba amatsutsana ndi mbiri ya amayi osavuta pozindikira kuti iye ndi woyenera yekha ndipo sadzachita manyazi pamaso pa mwamuna amene amamukonda. Atsikana ameneĊµa amasiyana ndi zosavuta kuti amalephera kufika kwa amuna, koma nthawi yomweyo amawalola kuti aziyembekezera kubwereza.
Choncho, ngati mukuganiza za momwe mkazi wofera amasiyana ndi zosavuta, chinthu choyambirira chokambirana si chokongola ndi zovala zodula. Izi ndi kudzidalira. Azimayi amafa mosiyana chifukwa amadzikonda okha. Akazi otere sadzalola kuti aziwoneka zoipa chifukwa akufuna kukopa amuna. Choyamba, amanyazi kukhala opanda tsankho komanso osasamala pamaso pawo. Amayi omwe amafa amadziwa nthawi zonse kusankha chovala ndi maonekedwe abwino. Ngakhale alibe ndalama zambiri, zovala zawo zimasiyana nthawi zonse, chifukwa ma divas samapezerapo nthawi kuti adzipezere okha chinthu chomwe chidzagogomezera zonse zakunja komanso chida chamkati.
Maonekedwe ndi khalidwe
Mwachidziwikire, kukongoletsa koopsa kumawasamalira osati zovala zokha, komanso maonekedwe awo. Amatsatira chiwerengerocho, pitani ku masewera, mutenge bwino, phunzirani momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito bwino. Kawirikawiri amawoneka ngati atangobwera kuchokera ku malo ogwira ntchito, ngakhale kuti, zotsatira zake zinkapezeka ndi manja awo. Koma kwa atsikana wamba, kawirikawiri zimawoneka zovuta kwambiri komanso chifukwa chosowa ndalama, amangodzipangitsa okha kutsimikizira kuti zotsatirazi zingatheke pokhapokha atapita kukachita katswiri.
Kuwonjezera pa maonekedwe, mu moyo wa mkazi wotere, malingaliro ake, khalidwe lake ndi khalidwe lake pa moyo zimakhala ndi ntchito yofunikira. Kawirikawiri, amayi opweteka amaonedwa kuti ndi achinyengo, aluntha komanso amatanthauza. Koma kwenikweni, izi siziri choncho. Iwo amangowona dziko osati mwa "magalasi obiriwira", monga madona ambiri aang'ono olota. Akazi opha amayi amazindikira zinthu zambiri zopanda pake, zopanda pake ndi ziphuphu zonyansa. Ndichifukwa chake amachita mosamalitsa, kuyang'anitsitsa ndipo osatsegulira aliyense pomwepo.
Kutembenukira kwa Mkazi Wowonongeka
Ndicho chifukwa chake simuyenera kuchitira nsanje amai opha ndi kuwona kuti ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi ena. Ndipotu, mtsikana aliyense akhoza kupha, ndizofunikira kuti ayesetse kuchita izi. Choyamba, muyenera kudziyang'anira. Ngati muwona zolakwitsa mu chiwerengero ndi maonekedwe - ziwathetseni. Tsopano sizikukhudza kupaleshoni. Kungoyenera kukhazikitsa cholinga ndikuyesera kukwaniritsa. Zilibe zovuta kwa inu, koma ngati mukufunadi kukhala mkazi wapadera - mudzakhala bwino. Yesetsani kwambiri masewera, muzidzikonzekeretsa bwino, sankhani chisamaliro cha tsitsi chimene chidzakupangitsani kutsekemera kwanu kukhala kofewa komanso kosavuta.
Komanso, phunzirani momwe mungagwirire ndi maofesi ndikusiya kuganiza kuti simuli woyenera mwamuna, chifukwa ndicho chomwe chidzachitike ngati mumaganizira nthawi zonse. Tsiku lirilonse, khalani chachikazi, khalani okongola. Ngati ndi kotheka, yesani pafupi ndi kalilole ndi kuwona. Kusuntha kwanu kuyenera kukhala kosalala, kofewa, pang'ono. Dziyang'anitseni nokha, dziwitsani kuti nkhope yanji ndi yoyenera kutsenga. Koma, chofunikira kwambiri - musayambe kuchitapo kanthu. Kusunthika kwa mawu anu ndi maimidwe anu ayenera kukhala okhaokha. Phunzirani ukazi, kuchenjeza ndi kukongola, ndiye kuti ndithudi ukhoza kukhala mkazi wofooka, ku mapazi omwe dziko lonse likugwa.