Kodi mukuwopa chirichonse mu moyo? Anthu ambiri angayankhe kuti inde, koma wina sangadziwe chomwe mantha ali. Tiyeni tiwone mantha mmaso mwathu ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa kuti mawu oti "mantha" amatanthauza chiyani.
Kuwopa ndi kwathupi ndikumaganizo. Koma ndibwino kuti mupite patsogolo ndipo dzifunseni chomwe chiri mantha. Kodi mukuganiza kuti mantha alipo ngakhale zili choncho kapena nthawi zonse zimagwirizana ndi chinachake? Chonde, tcherani khutu, ichi si kuphunzitsa kapena kulalikira, kungoyankhula chabe, kuyesa kulingalira mawu awa palokha. Inunso mukhoza kuyang'ana, ndipo izi sizikusintha. Kotero, samalani ndi kuyang'ana: kodi mumamva kuopa chinachake kapena mantha konse? Inde, nthawi zambiri timaopa chinachake: kutayika chinachake, osakhala ndi chinachake, kuopa zam'mbuyo, tsogolo, ndi zina, ndipo izi ... Chonde pitani patsogolo ndipo muwone: tikuwopa kukhala pandekha, kuopa kukhumudwa , tikuopa ukalamba, imfa, tikuopa wochita nawo zoipa, tikuopa kuti tidzakhala ndi manyazi kapena tikakumana ndi tsoka. Ngati tikuwonetsetsa - ifenso tikuopa matenda komanso ululu.
Kodi mukuzindikira mantha anu? Ndi chiyani? Nchiyani chowopsya kwambiri kuti ife, anthu, tikuwopa izi? Chifukwa cha ichi, kuti tonse timafuna kukhala otetezeka, thupi ndi maganizo, timafuna chitetezo chokwanira, chosatha? Pamene chinachake chimatiopseza, zomwe timachita zimakhala chitetezo. Kodi munadzifunsapo zomwe tikuziteteza? Pamene tiziteteza thupi lathu, tidzipulumutsa tokha, tikuopa kapena kulingalira ntchito?
Ngati kulingalira kumagwira ntchito, ndiye bwanji sitichita mwachibadwa pamayendedwe a mantha, mkati ndi m'maganizo?
Chifukwa chimagwira ntchito ... "mwachidule." Kotero, pamene pali mantha, muyenera kumvetsa kuti maganizo anu achotsedwa - ndipo khalani maso. Izi sizikutanthauza kumugonjetsa kapena kumulepheretsa, koma kuti azindikire momwe angakhalire ndi mantha, popanda kufunafuna kufotokozera ndi zifukwa zam'tsogolo kapena zakale.
Anthu ambiri amafuna kuchotsa mantha awo, koma alibe chidziwitso chokwanira cha chikhalidwe chake. Tiyeni tiwone kuopa imfa. Tiyeni tiyese kufufuza zomwe izi zikutanthauza kwa ife tokha:
Kodi uku ndi mantha a zosadziwika? Kuopa kutaya zomwe tili nazo ndi zomwe zidzatayika? Kuopa zosangalatsa zomwe sitingathe kuziona?
Mungapeze zifukwa zenizeni zofotokozera chifukwa chake timaopa kufa. Ndipo ndemanga imodzi yokha si zabwino - mantha a imfa yokha. Ndizosatheka kuopa zomwe simukuzidziwa ... Ndipo ndani amadziwa imfa? Komabe, tonsefe tikuwopa, njira imodzi.
Kotero, ngati munthu akuwopa zosadziwika, zikutanthauza kuti kale ali ndi lingaliro la izi zosadziwika. Kuti mumvetse zomwe mantha ali, muyenera kumvetsa zosangalatsa, ululu, chilakolako ndi momwe zimakhalira moyo - ndi momwe timayesera kutaya zonse. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, mantha monga momwe amadzikondera okha salipo - ndizochitika ku lingaliro lathu kuti tikhoza kutaya chinachake kapena kukhala ndi chinachake chimene sitimakonda. Munthu akamvetsetsa chifukwa cha mantha - amatha. Chonde mvetserani, yesetsani kumvetsa, yang'anani mu moyo wanu - mudzawona momwe mantha amagwirira ntchito, ndi kudzimasula nokha.
Malangizo athu kwa inu: Musawope mantha kapena opanda chifukwa. Kuti muleke kuopa, muyenera kupita kwa psychoanalyst. Adzatha kukukulangizani njira yabwino yothetsera mantha. Mudzatha kuopa mantha pambuyo pa maulendo angapo kwa katswiri wamaganizo. Kotero musati mukoka, koma pitani ku phwando kwa katswiri.