Chinthu chachikulu mwa izi sikumachedwetsa, ndikulimbikitsanso kuti muthe kudzuka, zimakhala zopweteka kwambiri kuti apulumuke. Ngati amakukondani, ndizotheka kuti amvetseni, musiyeni ndikukhululukireni. Chikondi - chinthu chokhumudwitsa ndipo chotero wokondedwa, monga lamulo, nthawi zonse amafuna chimwemwe chokha. Choncho, ngati amakukondani, adzakhululukira. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuchifotokozera molondola. Popanda kufuula ndi kusokoneza, yesetsani kulankhula naye, mutonthoze. Pezani chifukwa chotsimikizira kuti simukuyenera, kuti pali atsikana ambiri omwe ali abwino kuposa inu. Ngakhale ngati pali zotheka, podziwa zokonda zake, mutseni iye, ndi ena, abwenzi ake. Kapena muyang'ane naye mtsikana mwiniwake (mwachitsanzo, kudzera pa intaneti pa Intaneti kapena pa Intaneti), kambiranani naye ndipo ngati akukonda, yesetsani kukonza nawo msonkhano. Ndithudi si zoona, koma mwadzidzidzi chinachake chidzabwera. Monga mukudziwira, pankhondo njira zonse ndi zabwino. Chinthu chachikulu ndi iye ndi chowona mtima ndi chowona mtima, osadza ndi zifukwa zosiyanasiyana zolakwika ndi zifukwa. Muwuzeni iye zonse momwe ziriri. Kuli bwino choonadi chowawa kuposa bodza lokoma. Chirichonse chimene iwe uchita, usati ukhale nawo ndipo osatero, icho chidzapwetekabe. Koma adzadziŵa kuti simukunyenga komanso kumudzipereka. Chinthu chachikulu sichichita kudzera mwa SMS, foni kapena intaneti. Muyenera kuyang'anirana maso ndi kuthetsa vutoli, ndikulidziwa pamodzi. Pano ife tikusowa "kukambirana kwabwino" kamodzi. Musamayambe kumukakamiza. Onetsani kuti mumalemekeza malingaliro ake, zomwe amamva pambali yanu, koma, monga akunena, simungathe kulamulira mtima wanu. Kuzimitsa maganizo ake pa inu nokha mumadzithandiza nokha. Pemphani kuti akhalebe anzanu musamamulepheretse kuyankhulana ndi iye mwini, sangakuiwaleni inu mwakamodzi. Fotokozani kwa iye zomwe zimayambira pazofanana, ubwenzi. Lonjezerani kuti simudzaleka kulankhulana, kuti nthawi zonse adzakuwonani mwamsanga. Njirayi yafotokozedwa pamwambapa ikudziwika bwino poyankha funso la momwe mungagawire ndi mnyamata ngati andikonda?
Ngati simunayesetse kulankhula naye momveka bwino ndikufuna njira zina zothetsera vutoli, yesetsani kusokoneza chiyanjano chanu, koma dziwani kuti simungazichite bwanji, zingapweteke. Nazi njira zina kwa inu. Yesetsani kutsutsana naye pa chifukwa china chilichonse (ganizirani chifukwa chake chifukwa cha vutoli). Zatey akunyansidwa ndi zifukwa ndi zodandaula, ndiye khalani chitseko ndikuchoka. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusankha chifukwa chabwino chokangana, kotero kuti ngati mutayesa kupanga malingaliro anu, muli ndi mkangano wamphamvu. Ndipo komabe, ngati mutayambitsa kukangana - musataye chitetezero chanu mpaka kumapeto, kuzipempha zake kuti abwererenso kumalo awo, ayankhe ndi ozizira. Ingokumbukirani ubwenzi wanu mwa njira iyi yogawanitsa ndipo sizimawala, koma kuwopseza kuti, pakapita nthawi, idzadana nanu, ikufika pamtunda.
Njira inanso yogawana ndi mnyamata ndikumudandaulira kuti malingaliro anu atha. Pezani maulendo anu, musayankhe maitanidwe ake, pempho lake loti mumuwone, akunena kuti nthawi zonse amatanganidwa. Yesetsani kuyesera kusonyeza magazi anu ozizira kwa iye. Pali mabaibulo awiri oyambirira: kaya amvetsetse yekha komanso amayesetsa kuti asiye kukukondani (zomwe sizingatheke), kapena ayi.
Dzifunseni nokha munthu watsopano kapena funsani mnzanu kuti sakudziwa udindo wa chibwenzi chanu. Muuzeni kuti munayamba kukondana ndi wina ndipo mukufuna kukhala naye. Dziwonetseni nokha pamaso pa anthu omwe mumadziwana nawo ndi mnyamata wanu watsopano. Njirayo ndi yabwino, koma yonyenga kwambiri. Ndipo wopembedza wanu adzadwala kwambiri.
Choncho, yesetsani kusankha momwe mungachitire izo zimadalira inu nokha. Koma kumbukirani, njira yabwino kwambiri, idakali yoona. Kukambirana kwanu molunjika kungasinthe kwambiri. Yesetsani kufotokoza maganizo ake. Mundikhulupirire ine, iye sali wonyenga, simungatsutse chifuniro chanu. Ngati mukufuna kuchoka, - tembenukani ndikupita, imani-pitani. Wokondedwa kwambiri simudzatero. Ndipo choti tichite, izi ndi zoona zowopsya, sitinapange izo. Usawope chowonadi, usawope kulankhula. Ngati mwasankha kuchoka mwamphamvu ndi zosasinthika, ndiye kuti musayang'ane kumbuyo. Ndipo komabe, yesetsani kukhala ophweka: anthu amasinthasintha, amatsutsana, amayang'anani wina ndi mnzake. Yesani kufotokoza, kumvetsa - bwino; Ayi-kodi mungatani ngati simukulakwa? Ingondiuza momwe ndingadye ndikupita popanda kutembenuka. M'tsogolomu, samanyalanyaza pempho lake kuti mudzabwerera, ziribe kanthu momwe zingakhalire zovuta kwa inu.
Chinthu chachikulu sikumupatsa chiyembekezo china chakuti "mwinamwake ..., tsiku lina" mudzaukanso. Kumbukirani malingaliro ake, ndikumverera, monga lamulo, sangathe kusewera. Inu mukumvetsa kwenikweni, kuti palibe njira ina yotulukira. Mudzakokera, kuganiza za momwe mungapangire izo - zidzakhala zovuta nthawi zambiri. Musalankhulane ndi iye mutatha kusankha kwanu komaliza, ziribe kanthu momwe akuyesera kukuuzani za momwe iye aliri wovuta ndi opanda pake kwa inu popanda inu. Musamvetsere zonsezi. Pambuyo pake, chifukwa cha chikondi chake kwa inu, iye ndi wakhungu ngati mwana wamphongo, samamvetsetsa konse momwe zimakhalira zovuta kukhala ndi munthu wosakondedwa. Ndipo sangalole kuti apite (kapena m'malo mwake sakufuna), chifukwa ndi khalidwe la anthu: samakonda kutaya, kusiya zawo. Ndipo iwe umangopita ndipo mwinamwake musabwerere. Ndizomvetsa chisoni? Ndikumvetsa. Koma kumbukirani kuti simungathe kumanga chiyanjano konse chifukwa chachisoni. Ngakhale kuti mungathetse bwanji vutoli - dziwani izi, kukhumudwa kwa mtima sikungapewe. Mwa mawu - musamamuzunze. Anasankha kugawana - achite moona mtima, osabwera ndi zosavuta. Iye amakonda, mwinamwake iye amvetsa. Kumbukirani, nthawi imachiza chirichonse. Ndipo mwinamwake, inu, mu moyo uno, mudzakhala anthu apamtima kwambiri - kokha pansi pa gulu la anzanu abwino.