Mukukhazikitsa cholinga chopanga mgwirizano ndi mwamuna? Ndiye muyenera kudziwa chomwe chidzakhale, chifukwa zimadalira - kaya zidzakutsatirani kapena ayi. Ndikulangiza kuti mudziwe bwino chikhalidwe cha maganizo cha maganizo pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Ndikuganiza kuti izi zidzakuthandizani malingaliro anu ndi chidziwitso chokhudza ubale wanu ... Njira yothetsera mgwirizano wanu ndi yosavuta, sizikufunikanso kuphunzirira zovuta ndipo yapangidwa kuti zidziwike bwino za mphamvu za chiyanjano.
Mapangano a paranoid
Maubwenzi a Paranoid amadziwika ndi chikhalidwe chowongolera ndi kuyang'anitsitsa, zomwe zimapangitsa kusakhulupirira ndi mantha a mwayi wozunzidwa.
Mphamvu, kawirikawiri, imayikidwa pamaganizo okhudzidwa kwambiri mu mgwirizanowu, komanso, safunikira kukhala munthu. Onse awiriwa ndi onse omwe ali pafupi nawo amatha kusonkhanitsa ndi kukonzekera zokhudzana ndi zoopsa za mkati ndi kunja. Mu mgwirizano woterewu, chiwonongeko chimalamulira, chilengedwe chikuwopa kuti chiwoneka ngati chodabwitsa komanso chopanda pake. Life credo: "Tiyeni tituluke mwinamwake!".
Kuchepetsa chiopsezo chomwe chilipo mu mgwirizano wotere kumathandiza kusiyanitsa pakati pa zochitika zonse ndi njira zomwe zingatheke. Mlengalenga ndi ozizira, osamveka komanso opanda chikondi.
Mapangano a khunyu
Chilakolako chochita bwino muzochitika zoterechi sichidziŵa malire. Zolakwa ndi zosatsimikizika ziyenera kupewa ndi choonadi chonse ndi zopanda pake. Pano pali pulogalamu yokonzekera ndi malamulo, chifukwa pali mantha kuti zinthu zosayembekezereka zimathetsa ntchito yofunikira ya mgwirizanowu. Pano pa chirichonse pali mfundo, malingaliro ndi machitidwe omwe adasonkhanitsidwa zaka zambiri. Palibe chimene chimachitika mwadzidzidzi, sipangakhale zinthu zing'onozing'ono. Kugonana koteroko kumakhala kosasamala, sangathe kuchitapo kanthu mwamsanga kusintha komwe kukuchitika kumalo akunja. Amayi akugwirizana kwambiri ndi kuyesedwa kwa nthawi, komanso bwino, mibadwo ya malingaliro, choonadi ndi njira zothandizira.
Cholinga chachikulu cha mgwirizano wa khunyu ndi kukana kudalira munthu kapena chirichonse. Otsatira akufuna kufotokozera zonse m'moyo wawo. Zosankha zimatengedwa molimbika kwambiri ndipo, ngati funsolo silinaphunzire bwino, likhoza kusinthidwa mpaka nthawi yabwino.
Vuto lomwe anthu ambiri amagwirizana nalo ndiloti abwenzi sakuwona kumbuyo kwa mitengo mitengo yomwe ili ndi nyama zoopsa.
Mapangano a Hysteroidal
Kuyanjana kwachiyanjano m'magwirizano a hysteroid kumasanduka maseŵero owonetsera ndi masewero. Ntchitoyi ndi yofunika kwambiri kuposa zotsatira. Muzochitika zoterezi, pali kukhudzika, malonda, kukhudzidwa komanso kumasuka. Ngozi, kulimba mtima ndi kudziimira pa kupanga kupanga ndizo maziko a khalidwe la mtsogoleri. Poyamba, amafunikira wokondedwa kuti amuthandize kudzikonda. Kwa iye, malo alionse (kukhala nyumba kapena malo abwino a anthu) ndi malo omwe mungadziwonetse nokha ndikuwonetseratu njira zanu zoyamba.
Palibe malo oyankhulana bwino muzogwirizana. Zonse mwadzidzidzi. Palibe njira. N'kosatheka kupanga zolinga, ngakhale zochepa. Chotsalira ndi njira zogwiritsira ntchito sizigwira ntchito.
Philosophy ya wowonetsa: "Ndikufuna kukhala wopindulitsa, ndikufuna kupanga chidwi."
Mgwirizano wodetsa nkhaŵa
Zolumikizo zoterozo ndizosafuna. Othandizira ali osatsimikizika kuti ali ndi luso lawo, sakuwona tanthauzo ndi cholinga cha kukhalapo kwao. Miyoyo yawo yodzazidwa ndi chizoloŵezi cha zikondwerero zosautsa ndi njira, palibe chikhumbo chosintha chirichonse mu moyo wawo. Ubale woterewu ulibe, koma alipo.
Mitu - chotsuka. Kuopa kupanga zolakwitsa ndizabwino kwambiri kuti zibwenzi zimayesetse kukhalabe moyo uno pokhapokha pothandizidwa ndi luso ndi luso la dzulo. Kusatetezeka ndi kukhumudwa kwa mtsogoleri kumasonyezedwa ndi zodandaula ndikufufuza zifukwa zapadera zolephera zawo.
Chilichonse chimadzala ndi mantha. Zonse zimawonongedwa ndipo zimasokonezeka. Chidziwitso chawo ndi: "Inu mukupita mwakachetechete - mupitiliza" kapena "Nyumba yanga kuchokera pamphepete".
Makampani a Schizoid
Malo oyandikana nawo amawona ozizira, kutsekedwa, kuchotsedwa, ndipo nthawizina ngakhale owopsa.
Mtsogoleri mu chiyanjano nthawi zambiri amalowetsedwera, osathandizidwa pazinthu zowona, osayanjanitsidwa ndi abwenzi ndi osayanjana, samayesa kufotokoza momveka bwino malo ake ndi malingaliro ake. Umodzi wa ndondomeko yaumwini ndi bizinesi ikuphwanyidwa, zomwe zimapangitsa kuchepa kwa ntchito yogwirizanitsa.
Kaŵirikaŵiri mapepala oterewa ali muchithunzi chodziwika. Chidwi chachikulu cha mtsogoleri ndi, monga lamulo, muzinthu zina, zomwe zimakhudzana ndi nsanje kapena luso la wina wa amodzi. Kukhazikitsa mtunda wamkati ndi kunja ndiko chitetezo cha kudzidalira kale.
Mgwirizanowu umene ndalongosola ndiwo, odwala. Koma ngati mumayang'ana mwatcheru pazinthu zomwe mumagwirizanitsa, mudzatha kuona zochitika zomwe zingakuthandizeni kupeza mavuto omwe alipo kale kapena obadwa kale.
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