Kulankhulana, kupsompsona, chabwino, ndi zina zotero.
Kalekale sitinathe kulankhulana ndi foni. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, amatha kulankhulana payekha. Koma zonse zasintha. Pang'onopang'ono, mafoni a m'manja anayamba kuwonekera, mothandizidwa ndi zomwe zinali zotheka kulankhula popanda malire, ndiyeno, mafoni a m'manja. Zikuwoneka, kusiyana kotani pakati pawo? Yankho liri losavuta - mu dzina ndi kuyenda. Inde, inde, tsopano tonse tingathe kulankhulana pafoni, mosasamala kanthu za mkhalidwe wathu padziko lapansi. Ndizovuta, koma chifukwa cha ichi dziko lapansi lasintha. Akazi akhoza kuyitana munthu kuchokera pamalo alionse ndi nthawi iliyonse, monga amuna, ngakhale. Koma pali kusiyana kokha. Akazi, mwachilengedwe, amakonda kukambirana. Kulankhulana kwa iwo, monga mankhwala, sangathe kukhala popanda izo kwa tsiku. Ndipo tsopano, pali foni, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti pali kulankhulana popanda malire. Chinthu chachikulu ndi kusaiwala kubwezeretsa akauntiyo, chifukwa chirichonse chimadula ndalama.
Inu tsopano mukuganiza kuti: "Kodi ntchito yogwiritsa ntchito mafoni ndi iti?" ". Ndi zophweka kwambiri, chifukwa nkhani yaikulu ya zokambiranazi ndi funso: "Ndi kangati komwe mungamuitane munthu kuti asatope? ", Kenako tidzakambirana mafoni, chirichonse chomwe chikukhudzana ndi iwo, ndi momwe angagwiritsire ntchito, ziribe kanthu zomwe zimakhumudwitsa munthu wokondedwa.
Kotero, nkhani yonseyi kumayambiriro kwa nkhaniyi idzatithandiza m'tsogolomu.
Choyamba muyenera kudziwa momwe mumakonda kukambirana? Ndipo si za munthu wokondedwa wanu, zokhudzana ndi kukambirana mafoni. Ngati sikokwanira, ndipo makamaka kumakonda kutchula zokondedwa, yesetsani kusokoneza, kuyankhulana ndi abwenzi. Imaikirani nthawi yake. Pamene mphindi inayake ikubwera, ndipo inu, kapena iye, muli ndi chifukwa chachikulu, ndiye kuti mudzaitanitsa. Iyi ndi njira imodzi yosavutikira, ndiko kuti, osati kutchula munthu. Koma, monga momwe mukuonera, apa sitimakana maitanidwe kwa iye, timangotenga nthawi yonseyi ndikuyankhula ndi anzathu. Winawake amagwiritsa ntchito njira iyi, koma wina samatero. Zonse zimadalira mtundu wa munthuyo.
Panthawiyi tidzasiya njira zochepa. Muyenera kudziwa chomwe mukuvutitsa mwamuna wanu. Ngati izi siziri chomwecho, ndipo mwadzidzidzi padzakhala kusintha kwina, iye adzazindikira, chabwino, ndiye kuti mukhoza kutenga nawo mbali, zomwe simukuzifuna. Kodi izi zidzachitika bwanji? Chabwino, tangoganizani, wokondedwa wanu anakuitanani usiku uliwonse ndi mmawa, chabwino, ine ndikukhumba iwe usiku wabwino, kapena, molondola, mmawa wabwino. Ndipo iye anachita izo mwamtheradi nthawizonse. Ndipo tsopano taganizirani kuti mudzakhala ndi mutu wanu ngati akuyamba kuphonya mafoni, osakuitanirani? Ndipo ngati mumamulemba, sangatenge wolandirayo. Pali china chomwecho pano, kotero musadumphire mwamphamvu. Ndi bwino kulankhula naye, funsani ngati simukumuvutitsa. Ndi liti pamene ali womasuka kulankhula pa foni? Muyenera kupeza zonse kuchokera kwa iye. Ndipo ngati atayankhula, nenani kuti ali wotanganidwa pakalipano, ndiye mumamuuza momasuka kuti zikhala bwino kwa inu nonse. Iye akuyenera kuti akuzimvetseni inu.
Kawirikawiri, kukhumudwa kwakukulu kwa mayitanidwe amuna kumatchulidwa kwambiri. Chifukwa cha izi, akhoza kutenga mbali ndi mtsikana. Inde, pali zochitika zoterezi. Koma ndi bwino kuti musabweretse ndi kuthetsa mavuto onse omwe amabwera panthawi yaukwati, nthawi yomweyo. Ndiyeno izo zikhoza kufika kwa inu osati mbali imeneyo.
Ndipo tsopano tiyeni tibwerere ku njira. Kotero, tsopano inu mukudziwa kuti mukhoza kutenga nthawi yanu yaufulu ndi zinthu zina, kupatula momwe mungalankhulire ndi wokondedwa wanu. Ndi chiyani chinanso chimene mungachite kuti nthawi zambiri musamuitane munthu? Pali njira imodzi. Kwa ena angawoneke ngati wopusa, komabe. Kumbukirani chiyambi cha nkhaniyi, pomwe tinkakambirana za zomwe tinkakonda kulankhula pokhapokha. Kotero ndizo. Yesani kuchoka foni yam'nyumba kunyumba, kapena kuchotsani nambala yake kuchokera mndandanda wothandizira. Izi zimangogwira ntchito ngati simukudziwa nambala yake ya foni kuti ikumbukire, yomwe ingakhale yabwino. Pankhaniyi, mudzakhala ndi mwayi woitana pokhapokha mukakhala pakhomo. Mutha kumuuza mwamuna wanu kuti muli ndi foni yosweka, chabwino, kapena chinachake chonga icho. Pangani ubale ndi mwamuna wanu, chifukwa izi zikhalitsa ukwati wanu, kapena chiyanjano chanu.
Palinso nsonga imodzi, koma sizovomerezeka kuzigwiritsa ntchito. Mukhoza kungosiya kulira, ambiri. Pitani pa mfundoyi. Muloleni iye akuyitane iwe bwino kuposa momwe iwe umamuchitira iye. Musamuyitane, chifukwa cha chifukwa china chofunika kwambiri, pankhani ya moyo ndi imfa. Koma kumbukirani, mu nkhaniyi, mwamuna wanu ayenera kudziwa bwino, ndiyeno akhoza kupita ku mfundo, ndiyeno ubale wanu ndi mapeto.
Ndipotu, mwamuna sangakhale ndi inu pachisoni chachikulu, ngati mwadzidzidzi mumamuuza kuti sakufuna kukuvutitsani. Mungapeze mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya misonkhano yachizolowezi. Mukhoza kupita kulikonse tsiku ndi tsiku. Pachifukwa ichi, kuyitana kudzangokhalapo, ndipo mudzatha kuyankhulana ndi mitu ina ndiyekha. Kotero izo zidzakhala zabwino kwambiri, zonse kwa inu ndi kwa iye.
Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kupeza nthawi yabwino kwa inu nonse. Sankhani malo abwino omwe mungakambirane nkhani zonse, kungolankhula ndi zina zomwe mungachite palimodzi.
Muyenera kudzipangitsa nokha kuti mumvetsetse kuti mukufunikira kuyankhulana mwa munthu yekha, osati pamene mukufuna. Mwamunthu, mutayang'ana maso, mukhoza kuthandizana. Zambiri zopanda malire. Ndipo kodi foni ndi chiyani? Chabwino analankhula, ndizo zonse. Dziyesetse nokha phindu la msonkhano waumwini, ndiyeno simudzasiya kutchula wokondedwa wanu nthawi zambiri.
Tikukhulupirira kuti nkhani yathu yakutsimikizirani kuti ndi zophweka kuti musavutike ndi mwamuna. Monga mukuonera, pali njira zingapo zofunika. Pofuna kunena momveka bwino, zogwira mtima kwambiri ndizozimenezo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mungathe kuyitanitsa kukonzekera msonkhano, kapena chifukwa china chofunikira, ndi-zokambirana zonse pamtima.