Choonadi choopsya
Tikudziwa kuti si abwino. Mmodzi ndi waulesi, wachiwiri ndi wosamala, wonyalanyaza, wosalondola, wotentha, talente yachitatu imaphatikizapo makhalidwe onsewa. Koma pansi, aliyense wa ife ali otsimikiza kuti iye ndi wabwino kwambiri. Ulesi kapena kuiwala - zolakwika zokongola, mwachitsanzo, zoumba zosasunthika biscuit mlengalenga. Timavomereza mosavuta kuti zimakhala zovuta kuti tiganizire ntchito, "koma ndi bwino kuti bwana adziwe kuti sitingakwanitse, tisafune kudya, kugona komanso kufuna kubwera ku ofesi pa 10 koloko. "Tikamakambirana za ministi yathu mofuula, timapitirizabe kukhulupirira kuti ndizochepa, ndipo poyerekeza ndi anzako ndife akatswiri odziwa bwino ntchito. Choncho, pamene ena akunena za kuperewera kwake, timadabwa kwambiri ndikukhumudwa, "akulongosola katswiri wa zamaganizo Irina Romanova. Ndipo kodi timapeza mfundo zotani? Ife tikuzunzidwa molakwika! Makamaka chifukwa chochita mwanzeru kunena mawu omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito. Zirizonse zomwe akutsutsa - zoyenerera kapena ayi, zikuwoneka kuti zanyoza, zopanda nzeru, zovuta. Kawirikawiri timaganiza kuti kuwona mwachilungamo kumangochititsa kuti munthu asakonde, kumapanga sandwich wotchedwa: kuchokera pamwamba ndi pansipa - amatanthauza mawu okha, ndi mkati mwake - kagawo kamene kakhoza kukhala poizoni. Ndicho chifukwa chake munthu amapewa kudya ndi kudya mwamsanga.
Kuchokera kumbali
Choyamba choyankhira poyankha ndemanga yolakwika ndi chilakolako chachikulu chokhumudwitsa ndikuchoka. Kapena nenani chinachake chosasangalatsa pobwezera. Koma palibe ngakhale imodzi kapena njira ina yabwino. Ndiye simukudandaula kokha chifukwa cha kutsutsidwa, komanso chifukwa cha mawu ndi zochita zanu. Kuti azindikire kupezeka popanda maganizo osafunikira, akatswiri a maganizo amalangiza kuti aphunzire kuwona zochitikazo kuchokera kumbali. Pamene tiyang'ana zomwe zikuchitika ndi maso athu, sitimapenya kalikonse kupatula munthu amene akunena mawu okhumudwitsa. Koma ngati mutayesa kulowa muyang'anowu, mukhoza kuzindikira zambiri. Choyamba, muyenera kutengeka kwambiri ndikudzifunsa funso ili: "Kodi ndikuwoneka bwanji tsopano?" Izi zidzathandiza kuti munthu asamveke maganizo komanso asaphonye ndemanga zomwe mungavomereze.
Makamaka
Nthawi zambiri, tikamatsutsidwa, sitimva zinthu zenizeni, koma zowonongeka. Timauzidwa kuti "mwalakwitsa," timamva kuti "mulibe luso," mumati "mukhoza kuchita bwino", timamva kuti "ndiwe wopanga zida." Ndizachilendo kwa munthu kuti awonjezere kukula kwa mavuto. Ngati tikutsutsa ntchito yathu, makamaka yomwe, zikuwoneka ngati ife, taika moyo wathu, zimakhala tsoka lenileni. Koma kwenikweni, nthawi zambiri timatsutsa osati momwe timaonera dziko lonse lapansi, koma chinthu china, cholakwika chomwe chingathetsedwe kwathunthu. "Ndikofunikira kuti tisiyanitse kutsutsidwa kwa zochita ndikutsutsa munthu. Ngati atanena kuti: chitumbuwa sichoncho, chimatanthauza kuti ndi papa yomwe imatsutsidwa, yomwe nthawiyi inalephera. Osati maluso athu opatsa komanso makamaka osati ife. Mtsogoleriyo akusonyeza kusakhutira ndi kudziwa kwanu Chingerezi? Iye sakutanthauza kuti iwe "unaphunzira pachabe pa yunivesite ndi onse - wogwira ntchito yapakati". Amangonena kuti muyenera kutchula mawu anu ndi kutchula mawu anu. Ndipo palibe china.
Kuchokera pa khoma
Ndipo zimachitika kuti kutsutsa ndi kolakwika komanso kosautsa. Mwachitsanzo, mumakhala pulogalamu yatsopano usiku ndipo mwakhala mukuiwala kuti sabata lathunthu. Koma wogula, chifukwa cha khalidwe loipa kapena loipa, adanyoza ntchito yanu m'fumbi, popanda kufotokoza momveka bwino zomwe sakonda. Kapena zotsutsana zimakhala zovuta kwambiri moti zimakhala zozizwitsa. Inu nokha pa nthawi ino simukuseka - mukukhumudwa ndi misonzi. Ndikoyenera kumuuza wolakwira - chilichonse chomwe akufuna kukufotokozerani, mwamva ndi kuphunzira. Inde, iwo amati, Ivan Ivanovich, ndikukumva, ndikuganizira, ndikudzikonza ndekha. Kotero njira yosavuta yothetsera kukambirana ndi kudzitetezera kuzinyalala zina. Malingaliro opanda chilungamo nthawi zambiri amanena kuti wotsutsa sali mu mzimu ndipo amayesera kusintha maganizo mwa kuwononga maganizo ena. Musamupatse mwayi! Ndipo ngati chilolezo chako sichithandiza, ndipo milanduyo siimatha, taganizirani: mawu okhumudwitsa amachotsera iwe - monga mipira kuchokera khoma. Mu psychology, pali njira yotetezera yotere: muyenera kuganiza kuti khoma losawoneka likuonekera pozungulira inu, kukutetezani ku chiwawa chakunja. Ndipo aloleni iwo akunene zomwe akufuna, - sizikukhudzani inu ndipo sizikusamala. Kuwongolera: Nthawi zambiri, popanda kupeza chiyembekezero choyembekezeredwa, wodwalayo amachira ndipo pakapita kanthawi amadzapempha kupepesa. "Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri sichiyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito pakudzipenda nokha kuchuluka kwa chidziwitso chatsopano cha iwe mwini. Kudzifufuza nokha ndi bizinesi yanu, gawo limene khomo la ena likuletsedwa. Kumbukirani: ziribe kanthu momwe zimakhalira zokhumudwitsa - ndizo lingaliro la munthu amene ali patsogolo panu, ngakhale ngati ali bwana.
Choyamba Chothandizira
Zina mwa zomwe zimachitidwa ndi kutsutsidwa mwankhanza ndi chifundo. Gwirizanani, ngati munthu sakhala ndi maganizo tsopano, ndiye pali zifukwa zake. Mwinamwake maola angapo apitawo, iye anazunzidwa mwankhanza ndi boma lapamwamba. Kapena, chomwe chiri chothekanso, iye ali ndi nsanje chabe za maluso anu. Mvula yoipa, kusinkhasinkha kosaoneka pagalasi - simukudziwa. "Chifukwa chobisika chodzudzula mobwerezabwereza nthawi zambiri chimanyoza dziko lonse lapansi kapena gawo lina lake. Koma inu mulibe kanthu kochita ndi izo, ndipo kotero inu mulibenso chifukwa chodandaula za zodzinenerazo. Ganizirani kuti wolakwira tsopano ali wovuta kuposa iwe, amumvera chisoni ndikumulola apite mwamtendere, "- akulangiza Irina Romanova. Malingana ndi momwe zinthu ziliri, munthu amatha kumva chisoni poyera kapena mokweza. Mwachitsanzo, ngati kugonjera kumaloleza, pempherani ndi wotsutsa: "Zikuwoneka kuti ndinu wokhumudwa. Kodi mumamva bwino? "Izi zidzamuthandiza kuti asokonezedwe ndikuganiza za mavuto ake.
Mawu m'malo
"Nthawi zonse mumachedwa!" - akutero mnzake, "nthawizonse mumaiwala chilichonse," mkulu woweruzayo akuti, "mwasokoneza chirichonse kachiwiri," wothandizira akuti. Pambuyo pa mawuwa, mukhoza kudula mutu wako ndi phulusa ndikuvomereza kuti ndiwe wosasamala. Koma ndibwino kumasulira mawu omva mumsewu wothandiza. "Musalole kuti otsutsawo azikhala okhwima ndi owonjezera. Inu kwenikweni musataye zikalata tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo ndi konkire dzulo lumbiro la mkangano penapake lapita. Kapena, mwachitsanzo, "simungaiŵale" nthawi zonse, koma lero munapeza ndalama ndipo simunayamikire tsiku la kubadwa kwa mnzanuyo tsiku la kubadwa kwanu. Kuwonjezera apo, katswiri wa zamaganizo akukumbukira kuti mu liwu lililonse mungapeze tanthauzo lachiwiri. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mungathe kuyang'ana mosamala mawu otamandika mu adilesi yanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati akunena kuti: "Mumalankhula momveka bwino", izi zikhoza kumasuliridwa kuti "inde, ndimagwirizana, ndikucheza, ndili ndi luso labwino." Zimanenedwa kuti "kugwira ntchito mofulumira kwa kamba" - taganizirani: "Ndine wothamanga wothamanga marathon wothamanga, ndikuchita zonse pa chikumbumtima".
Mawu Otsogolera
Ndipo nthawi zina kutsutsidwa kumakhala ngati ntchentche yosafunika. Mwachitsanzo, muli ndi chizoloŵezi chowongolera tsitsi lanu pa chala chanu pamene mukuganizira za izo. Kapena mumakonda ngati muli ndi khofi ndi vase ndi biscuit pafupi ndi kompyuta. Zinaletsedwa, kapena malamulo a kampani, kapena malamulo oyenera. Koma makamaka mu gulu pali wina yemwe amasangalala nthawi zonse ndi mokweza kuti akufotokozereni. "Njira yosavuta yolankhulirana ndiyi: mumamvetsetsa, koma muli ndi malo anu enieni, ndipo simudzakana, chifukwa simukuvulaza aliyense. Ngati kutsutsa kuli kovuta kapena kosasangalatsa, khalani omasuka kunena izi moona mtima ndikupempha kuti musamapereke ndemanga, "akulangiza Irina Romanova.
Mwa nthabwala
Ndikofunika kwambiri kuphunzira kuvomereza kutsutsidwa ndi kuseketsa. "Simungapeze chinenero chofanana ndi makasitomala," adatero atatha zaka zisanu, ndipo lachisanu ndi chimodzi, tsoka, silinachitike. Lonjezerani kuti mutenge chitsanzo kuchokera kwa wotsutsa, chifukwa ndi "katswiri weniweni". Ngati bwana akunena, ndipo nthabwala yabwino ikhonza kulakwitsa chifukwa cha chipongwe. Koma inu mukhoza ndi kudziseka nokha. Sungani ndi kuvomereza: Ndinalakwitsa mu lipoti, chifukwa, "monga blonde weniweni, ndikuvutika ndi zopusa kamodzi pachaka." Kudzimvera sikudzalola abwana kukwiya. Kusangalala kumakuthandizani kuyang'ana zinthu mosavuta, kutsutsa mwakachetechete komanso kupeza chothandiza mmenemo.