Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa mtsikana amene amadziwika ndi amuna omwe sali opambana? Kodi kupambana kwa chikazi ndi chiyani?
Ndipotu, chirichonse chiri chosavuta kwambiri, chifukwa chinsinsi cha kupambana kwa abambo ndizovuta. Ndizowoneka, osati kukongola, kudzipangira, kudzipaka ndi china chirichonse. Amuna ngati atsikana omwe amalankhula malipiro, amakhala okondwa, otseguka, abwino, oyamba omwe angalankhule ndi mnyamata, osati amanyazi ndi khalidwe lawo. Atsikana omwe amasangalala ndi zosangalatsa, amawonetsa zabwino, okoma mtima komanso maonekedwe abwino amakopeka amuna, amuna amakopeka ndi amayi oterewa. Sizobisika kuti anthu amalota atsikana ndi mawonekedwe abwino, koma amacheza ndi atsikana osavuta, okoma ndi okondeka.
Momwe mungakhalire okondedwa ndi otchuka? Kodi mungapeze bwanji kutchuka ndi amuna?
- Chisokero chimagwira bwino kwambiri pa mwamuna. Kodi kumwetulira kumati chiyani? Mfundo yakuti mkazi ndi wokondwa, kuti ali wotseguka, amasangalala ndi moyo ndipo ali wokonzeka kufotokozera ena maganizo ake. Sichikusowa kumwetulira koyenera, ziyenera kukhala ndi moyo. Kumwetulira kosavuta ndi kotseguka kudzagonjetsa anyamata onse.
- Musachite mantha ndi oyamba kuyamba kukambirana, mungathe kunena kuti "Moni" ndi kumwetulira. Izi, monga lamulo, ndizokwanira kuyambitsa kukambirana ndi munthu. Kupambana kwa kutchuka kwa amayi pakati pa amuna ndi luso loyamba kukambirana. Mwa njira, kuphunzira kukhala waubwenzi, mutha kusunthira kuchitapo kanthu. Ndipotu, mwaphunzira kuti musadzipangire nokha.
- Anyamata amapenga za akazi achiwerewere omwe amachititsa chisangalalo, amatsimikiza kuti kudziwana ndi amayi oterewa kudzakhala kofulumira, kosavuta komanso okondwa kwambiri. Akazi obisika amachita cholakwika chachikulu pamene akumana ndi mnyamata, amatsekera mwaokha, akudandaula. Ndipo muyenera kusangalala ndi phwando kapena kampani yokondana, musadandaule za maonekedwe anu ndi zomwe anthu ena amaganiza.
- Amuna, ngakhale atagonana kwambiri, koma akuwopa kuti mtsikanayo akana. Mnyamata sakuyenerera kuti adziwe ngati akuwona mavuto alionse panjira yake. Choncho, ngati pali chilakolako chodziwana bwino, nkofunika kuti mupange kuti munthuyo athe kuchitapo kanthu mosavuta. Ngati mnzanuyo akupezeka mu disco kapena usiku, mukhoza kupeza malo amtendere kumene mungathe kuyankhula, kuyankhula. Musayandikana ndi anzanu ambiri ndi anzanu. Ndibwino kuyamba kuyambitsa kugwirizana ndi mnyamata, amatha kuwerenga izi ngati chitsogozo chochita. Mwamsanga pamene malingaliro anu akukomana - zikutanthauza kuti kuyanjana kumakhazikitsidwa, ndiyeno ngati mnyamata akufuna kudziwana, ndiye adzachita. Mwa njira, muyenera kukhala ndi makadi angapo ogulitsa malonda ndi inu basi. Ngati mnyamatayo akufunsani foni, simukufunikira kufufuza pepala, pepala, simukusowa kuti muyankhe, ndipo sachita zolakwa. Komanso, kuti khadi likhale ndi chidwi pa mnyamatayo ndipo sangathe kutaya.
Kutsiliza:
Muyenera kusangalala, kukhala ophweka, osadandaula ndi zopanda pake, nthawi zonse kumwetulira, kukhala achikondi ndi osasamala, moyo wachikondi, kudzikonda nokha ndi kusangalala tsiku lililonse. Ndiyeno, ndiye kuti anyamatawo adzatambasula, ayambe chibwenzi, funsani nambala ya foni, iitaneni ku cafe, ndipo mwinamwake mudzaitanidwe muukwati. Kotero, sitepe ya moyo wapabanja wabwino, kwa kutchuka kwa akazi, kwachisangalalo cha akazi ndi ubwino ndi kumwetulira pamaso.