Ali kuti?
Kotero, maulendo onse, amasunthira kumbuyo, sutiketi zowonongeka, hotelo ndi gawo lapafupi akuphunzira, mukhoza kuyamba "kusaka". Ngati muli a chiwerengero cha ogwira ntchito osati amanyazi azimayi, ndiye kuti mutha kuyamba kuchitapo kanthu. Ndipotu, mumakhala ndi nthawi yochepa kwambiri yokondana ndi tchuthi. Mukuwona, pa tebulo lotsatira pali munthu wodzichepetsa? Kapena mwinamwake iye adzakhala khalidwe lapamwamba pa tchuthi lanu?
Khulupirirani kuti manyazi ndi lamulo lakuti "munthu atenga njila yoyamba" angasiyidwe ndi iye, ndipo alowe mu "zoipa". Munthu amene ali pa tchuthi yekha adzasangalala ndi kampaniyo. Makamaka ndi msungwana wokongola ndi wanzeru ngati inu. Ngati iye, ndithudi, sali wolandira. Koma sitichitira zinthu mopitirira malire.
Ngati ndinu munthu wodzichepetsa, ndipo, pa chilichonse chimene simungachite choyamba, ndiye kuti mukhale ndi "zokopa" ndipo mudikire kuti munthu wa maloto anu akufikireni. Pankhaniyi, sikungakhale zosasangalatsa "kusewera ndi maso". Kuwona msungwana wosungulumwa, wokongola ndi wokhumudwa, kumapangitsa chidwi cha kugonana kolimba.
Kotero, mukhoza kumudziwa paliponse: ku hotelo, pamphepete mwa nyanja, paulendo, mu cafe, paki ndi ponseponse, kumene mungathe kulankhulana. Malo abwino oti mukumane nawo ndi gulu la usiku. Amuna achiwerewere ndi okondwa alipo kuti azidziwana ndi nthawi yosangalatsa. Ngati mubwera ndi azimayi achiwerewere, zidzakuthandizani kuti muyanjana ndi abambo.
Motani?
Kotero, chinthucho wasankhidwa (kapena iwe wasankhidwa), sitepe yoyamba yachitidwa. Chotsatira ndi chiyani? Ndiyeno, monga mu buku lozolowereka, koma mofulumizitsa mofulumira. Mwachitsanzo, madzulo oyambirira mumakhala, mumamwa ma cocktails angapo, mukuyankhula za chirichonse. Amakuperekeza ku chiwerengero, awkwardly (kapena, poyerekezera, deftly) akupsompsona pa tsaya. Tsiku lotsatira mumakhala pamodzi. Pitani pa ulendo, kungogona pagombe, mwachitsanzo, chochita chirichonse chomwe chingakuthandizeni kuti mudziwane wina ndi mnzake bwinoko pang'ono.
Madzulo, chakudya chamakono, kuvina kochedwa komanso kuyitanira kuchipinda chanu (anu kapena kuti, akuyang'ana kuti ndi ndani omwe ali otanganidwa ndi otsimikizika) yang'anani magetsi a usiku kapena nyanja ya usiku. Ndiyeno-inu nokha mumadziwa bwino lomwe zomwe zimachitika kenako.
Chinthu chachikulu mu buku la malo ochezera ndizovuta kukhala. Inu mumadziwa bwino, okongola (palibe kukambirana za mavuto aakulu, vuto ladziko, mavuto kuntchito), amakhala ndi nthawi yambiri komanso mosavuta.
Ngati mukulankhulana, mukumvetsa kuti munthu ndi wovuta, ndipo mukufuna "zosavuta," ndiye kuti simukutsatira njirayo. Mukangomaliza kulankhulana bwino, ndibwino, mwinamwake mungagwiritse ntchito tchuthi kwanu ku kampani yosangalatsa. Ndine wotsimikiza kuti pozungulira inu mumapita kale amuna okongola, omwe akuwongolera kuti ndikudziwani bwino.
Buku la malo osungirako maloli liri ndi ubwino wake: kusowa kudzipereka, mwayi wokhala aliyense, mwayi wa tchuthi kuti ukhale ndi mabuku angapo. Ngati, simukukonzekera kuti mupitirize chiyanjano ndi wokonda malo osungirako malo, mukhoza kuonekera pamaso pake ngati mphunzitsi wovuta kuchokera ku tawuni ya tawuni kapena ngati azimayi otopa.
Ndikofunika kusunga zomwe mumanena. Makamaka, ngati "mutha kuchita mbali ya wina." Musamuuze wokondedwa wanu nkhani yomwe idzakhala yosiyana ndi fano lanu. Ndipo mungapeze nokha muzosautsa. Lolani munthuyo akunena zambiri kuposa inu. Kotero inu mudzakhala nawo mwayi wodziwa bwino bwenzi lanu, kukhalabe chinsinsi kwa iye.
Musalonjeze chirichonse! Kuti mudzabwera kudzamuchezera, kuti muyankhulane, ndipo muli ndi "ubale weniweni". Nthawi idzaika zonse pamalo ake. Pambuyo pa kanthawi iwe, ndipo amatha kumvetsa, ngati kuli koyenera kuti uyankhulane bwino.
Mu bukhu lamalo operekera palipanso kuphatikiza kwakukulu: mwayi wozindikira malingaliro awo ogonana ndikumasulidwa. Kumbukirani zithunzi zolaula za mafilimu olaula, dziyeseni nokha kuti ndinu mkazi wofikirika, osakayikira komanso wokonda. Makamaka kuyambira momwe zinthu ziliri: usiku, nyanja, nyenyezi kapena mzinda wosadziwika, hotelo yochititsa chidwi. Ndi pa tchuthi timataya nkhawa zathu za tsiku ndi tsiku ndi nkhawa ndi kumwetulira, kusangalala tsiku ndi tsiku.
Zoonadi, chikondi cha malo osungiramo malo chimakhalanso ndi zinthu zoipa. Ngati wina wa iwo akuyamba kumverera kwenikweni, ndipo chachiwiri - kusewera, ndiye kugawanika kungakhale kovuta ndi zopweteka. Mulimonsemo, aliyense amadzipangira yekha, "Kodi chibwenzicho ndi chabwino kapena choipa?"