Muyenera kuganizira zofuna za theka lanu lachiwiri. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri pakati pa okondana ndi kupeza kuyanjana. Pambuyo pake, kuyanjana ndi chitsimikiziro cha ubale wamphamvu ndi wachimwemwe. Pafupi ndi chinthu chachikulu chomwe chingathandize kusunga chikondi pakati pa okondedwa. Anthu ambiri amamatira pa intaneti ya mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku. Iwo sangathe ngakhale kupeza maminiti ochepa a nthawi yaulere, kuti atenge dzanja la wokondedwa, kuti apewe, kuti akambirane momwe tsiku lirilonse linayendera.
Tangoganizirani kwa mphindi, kodi mumalipira nthawi yokwanira kwa mnzanuyo? Musachite mantha kukondana wina ndi mzake osati ndi mawu okha, koma ndi zochita. Onjezani chikondi mu ubale wa tsiku ndi tsiku kungakhale kudzera mwa anthu wamba kuyenda pamodzi. Mabanja ena omwe akhala pamodzi kwa nthawi yayitali amaiwala za chinthu chophweka. Pambuyo pake, kuyenda wamba kumathera ndi kupsompsonana ndi modzichepetsa mvula. Mukhoza kungokhala paki ndikuyang'ana nyenyezi.
Kodi chibwenzi chingakhale chotani? Mukhoza kupita ku cafesi yokondweretsa kapena filimu yokhala ndi theka lanu, ndipo pitirizani madzulo ku hotelo yaing'ono ndi yamtendere, kumene palibe amene angakuvutitseni. Monga tafotokozera kale, payenera kukhala kusamvana mu chiyanjano. Anthu ambiri, makamaka akazi, amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi zofanana zofanana ndi wokondedwa wawo. Koma ngati mumvetsetsa, ndiye kuti pali kusiyana. Ngati mukufuna kupita ku mafilimu, koma mpira wanu womwe mumawakonda lerolino, kufalitsa kumene sangaphonye, mupatseni. Koma kambiranani kokha kuti ndiye kupita ku mafilimu mawa kapena tsiku lina. Ndipotu, pali njira zambiri zomwe mungapangire chikondi pachibwenzi chanu ndi wokondedwa wanu. Khalani ndi chikondi komanso chisamaliro nthawi yayitali.
Ngati izi sizichitika, ndiye kuti ubale umatha ndipo izi zimabweretsa chisudzulo. Musalole zotsatira zotero za zochitika. Mu chikhalidwe chokwiya cha moyo wathu wamakono, sitimayang'anitsitsa chinthu chofunika kwambiri - chikondi cha ubale.
Kuti muzisamalidwa nthawi zonse komanso zochitika zosafunikira, maanja okondana amakhala osasangalala komanso okoma mtima omwe adakumana nawo pachiyambi cha chibwenzi tsiku ndi tsiku. Zonse zitangoyamba, panali maulendo apansi pa mwezi, ndipo tsopano adalowetsedwa ndi ulendo wa tsiku ndi tsiku ku sitolo kuti akagulitse ntchito pambuyo pa ntchito. Kotero siziyenera kukhala! Onjezani chikondi kuchokera pa moyo wanu! Chikondi chimatha kuchita chozizwitsa! Idzatha kuyambitsanso mgwirizano wokondana womwe unakhalapo pakati panu. Imodzi mwa njira zophweka ndi kulemba makalata achikondi m'mawa kwa wina ndi mzake. Ndipo mulole munthu wokondedwayo aziwapeza iwo nthawi iliyonse mu malo osiyana.
Mmodzi sayenera kuiwala kupereka mphatso monga choncho, osati chifukwa cha kalendala yofiira. Mukhoza kukonzekera kukondana kumalo osungira panyumba, zomwe zingakhale zosangalatsa kwambiri pambuyo pa tsiku lovuta kwa wokondedwa wanu ndikukulepheretsani kuzingaliro zosafunikira. Kuwonjezera chikondi kwa ubale wa tsiku ndi tsiku, mudzakhala pafupi ndi mnzanuyo! Chikondi chimakumbutsa, pa nthawi yoyenera, kuti wina ndi mzake mukhale wofunikira kwambiri ndipo ayenera kumanjenjemera wina ndi mnzake. Chikondi! Chifukwa chikondi ndi chokongola kwambiri!