Ndipo pano ife timakhala tsiku ndi tsiku tikukhala macheza ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti pokhala ndi chiyembekezo chokumana ndi yemwe mungamuuze naye zakukhosi kwanu. Ndipo tsopano, zikuwoneka kuti munazipeza (mwina, mukuganiza choncho panthawiyi), tsiku ndi tsiku, mumayang'ana pamene akuwoneka pa intaneti ndi kuyembekezera, ndipo mwadzidzidzi chozizwitsa chidzachitika ndipo adzalembera nokha. Koma ndikukhulupirirani, zozizwitsa ndizochepa. Choncho, musadikire "nyanja ya nyengo" ndikuyamba kuchita nokha. Ingomulembera iye poyamba. Tiyeni tiganizire pamodzi momwe tingayambitsire kukambirana ndi mnyamata pa intaneti?
Choyamba, muyenera kuika patsogolo payekha mfundo yakuti mukufuna kuchokera ku chinthu chomwe mwasankha. Popanda izi, simungathe kuchita bwino, motsogoleredwa ndi mfundo yoti mumakonda. Chifundo ndi chosiyana. Mwachitsanzo, akhoza kukukondani ngati bwenzi lanu, panopa, njira zothetsera nkhondozi n'zosiyana kwambiri. Chinthu chachikulu sichikusokoneza kumverera kwachifundo ndi chidwi cha mnyamata, mwinamwake pangakhale kusamvetsetsana pakati pa inu komwe sikungathandize kuti muyankhulane bwino. Kotero, mungayambe bwanji kukambirana ndi mnyamata pa intaneti? Kumbukirani kuyankhulana koyambirira, kaya kulidi kapena mumoyo weniweni, kuyenera kukhazikitsidwa pa dongosolo limodzi lokonzedwa bwino: kukhazikitsa kukhudzana, kudziuza nokha, mwa kuyankhula kwina "zowonetsera zokhazokha," ndipo, mwachindunji, kulankhulana nokha mwa njira yokambirana ndi zokhudzana ndi tsogolo la ubale wanu (mwachitsanzo, kukomana mmoyo weniweni).
Gawo lachiwiri limene mukufunikira kuti muyambe kuyankhulana ndi kusonkhanitsa zokhudzana ndi munthu uyu. Prostudiruy kuchokera ku "A mpaka Z" za mafunso ake ndi zithunzi za zithunzi pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti (VKontakte, Classmates, FaceBook, mauthenga osiyanasiyana omwe iye amakhala), onani ngati muli ndi abwenzi omwe angakuthandizeni kumudziwa bwino momwe mungathere. Pazithunzi, samalani momwe amathera nthawi yake yaulere, ndi malo otani omwe amachezera, kaya akugwira ntchito. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuphunzira momwe mungathere ndi chidwi chake, zosangalatsa, nyimbo zomwe mumazikonda, mafilimu, ndi zina. Mwa njirayi, zikhoza kuchitika kuti muli ndi zokonda zina, ndipo izi zikuphatikizapo, ndikudziwa momwe mungathere Zidzakhala zophweka kwambiri kuti muyankhule naye. Ndipo mwa njira, yambani mafunso anu mosamala kwambiri, ameneyo angakhale mnyamata yemwe anali ndi lingaliro la yemwe amamulankhulana naye. Pendani zithunzi zanu zamagetsi zamakono, pezani zithunzi zanu zabwino kwambiri, makamaka m'magulu osiyanasiyana ndi malo omwe mwakhalapo, kuti awone kuti ndinu munthu wachinyamata. Zithunzi zanu ziyenera kukhala zomveka, kumene nkhope yanu ili momveka bwino komanso momveka bwino. Ngati muli ndi maso okongola, tsitsi, masiponji, tsindirani izi mu zithunzi zanu.
Kumayambiriro kwa kuyankhulana ndi muyezo: "Moni! Uli bwanji? ". Mwa njira, chimodzimodzi "kuphatikiza" ndizoti anyamata, monga lamulo, ali oyenera kulankhula ndi atsikana, kotero yambani kukambirana kwanu ndi mawu osagwirizana, mwamtheradi, osapindulitsa. Chabwino, ngati inu, ndithudi, mukufuna chirichonse mwakamodzi, ndiye lembani kwa iye chinachake monga "Moni! Kodi mumayang'ana bwanji kuti mudziwe bwino mtsikana wokoma koma wosungulumwa! "Kapena, mwachitsanzo," hello, ndipo simungathe kuwuza ... ", ndiyeno nthano yanu. Yankho lake lidzakuuzani mmene mungakhalire naye limodzi.
Ndipo apa pali kukhudzana kwanu koyamba kumene kunachitika. Musaphonye kuti kuyambira mutayambilana ndi munthu uyu, mwina, nokha kwinakwake pamtima mumakhumudwa, kuyembekezera kuti chinachake chikusiyana. Koma musaiwale kuti anthu abwino salipo, kotero musataye nthawi yomweyo. Mwinamwake mu moyo weniweni iye sali konse monga choncho. Koma ziribe kanthu momwe zinalili, mulimonsemo, musamangokakamiza mopanda malire, muzikhala nokha, musamunyengere, mwina, yankhani mafunso onse monga (musayambe kukambirana ndi chinyengo, chifukwa posachedwa izo zidzakhala zenizeni). Muwonetseni chidwi chanu, momwe mumakonda kulankhulana ndi iye, momwe zilili zosangalatsa. Fotokozani zinthu zosangalatsa za inu nokha, zosangalatsa zanu, abwenzi (nkhani yochokera kwa iwo kapena moyo wanu), pangani chithunzi chanu pamutu pake. Inde, sikuli koyenera kunena za inu nokha, zomwe akufuna kudziwa, adzifunse yekha. Yesani kuyankha mafunso ake onse popanda kusiya yankho, ndipo musazengereze kumufunsa zomwe zimakukondani. Ndipo musaiwale kuti musiye zambiri za msonkhano mu moyo weniweni. Yesani kuseka, mwachitsanzo, kutaya zizindikiro zingapo kapena zozizwitsa. Ndikuganiza pa sitejiyi mutakhala ndi malingaliro atsatanetsatane. Ndipo mukumvetsa kuti ndi munthu wotani yemwe wakhala pambali yina. Ndiyeno chidziwitso chanu chokhudza iye chidzakuthandizani, chomwe munachotsa pa mafunso ake. Kuti tithandizire zokambirana, tinakambirana kuti tikambirane za filimu, buku (zonse mwa zofuna zake), ngati muli ndi chidziwitso chofanana, sizingakhale zovuta kuti iye amvepo izi. Yesetsani kufunsa maganizo ake mochulukirapo, mungathe ngakhale kukangana pa chinthu china. Kuika kwa kukhudzana ndi kuwonetsa koyamba pa sitejiyi kwatha. Musagwedeze ndodo poyankhulana, tsiku lina zambiri zambiri, ndizochuluka kwambiri. Musaiwale kuti kulankhulana kulikonse kumayenera kutsirizidwa (mwabwino kwa mawu), zikomo chifukwa cha kuyankhulana ndi malingaliro, monga zingakhale bwino kupitiliza izi mtsogolomu.
Masiku angapo, pamene mukukamba zokambirana zanu, mukhoza kusinthana manambala a foni. Ndipo potsiriza, ngati iye sanachite kale, amamuitanira mofatsa kuti akakomane naye mmoyo weniweni. Ndikuganiza nthawi imeneyo mutha kumvetsa momwe mumagwirira ntchito pamodzi. Ndipo usaiwale kuti maonekedwe ndi chonyenga, choncho usamatsogolere ku chithunzi chokongola.