M'nthaŵi yathu ino, zakhala zikuoneka bwino pamene alendo akuluakulu apamtendere ali ndi amuna okwatira.
Funso lodziwika bwino ndilokuwombera: Kodi mwamuna wokwatiwa angayang'ane pa chibwenzi? Choyamba ndi chofunika kwambiri, izi, zowonjezera, zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi amuna amodzi ndi chidwi chofuna kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zawo "akazi". Ndiko kuti, kuyesa pafupifupi, mwachinsinsi kwa mkazi wake kuti agonjetse ndi kugonjetsa mtsikana aliyense. Nthawi zambiri, mwa msinkhu, ngakhale wamng'ono kuposa iwe. Nthawi zina, munthu uyu, mophweka, amadzipepetsera yekha chifukwa cha kukhalapo kwa mbuye weniweni kapena, nthawi yongopeka, amayesa kuona ngati wataya luso lake lachinyengo. Kawirikawiri, kudziwa ndi kuyankhulana koteroko sikufika pamsonkhano wotsatira konse. Mwamunayo amasiya nthawi, akuonetsetsa kuti wapindula cholinga chake ndipo akuyamba kufunafuna "wodwala" watsopano mwachinyengo chake. Atsikana ambiri atalowa m'magulu ake osokoneza bongo, adayika kwambiri mu bukhu lake lotchedwa "I" la munthu. Ndipo bwanji, kuposa inu masewera a pakompyuta. Iye ali ndi njira yakeyi pano, njira yopambana-kupambana ndi njira zake zapadera. Pali zochitika zomwe mwamuna amagwiritsa ntchito pazinthu izi, ngakhale mkazi wake. Kugawana naye ndi kupambana kwake ndikupeza mtengo wake. Inde, pali zochitika pamene mwamuna wokwatiwa akufuna chabe kutengeka kapena kutengera kugonana komweko. Muponyeni iye kuti achite izi, kawirikawiri zifukwa ziwiri. Chofunika cha choyamba chimachokera pakuti ali ndi vuto lokhala ndi moyo ndipo iye, mwachindunji, akuyang'ana zest wapadera kuchokera m'moyo wake. Chifukwa chachiwiri, pafupi ndi ife akazi - sizowonjezera chidwi chabe. Koma zokhudzana ndi chidziwitso cha amuna, sizowoneka kuti ndizochepa kuposa chidziwitso chachikazi. Izi ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri, zomwe zimamupangitsa munthuyo kumunyengerera, ndikumupangitsa kuti asamvetse bwino komanso nthawi zina zodabwitsa, zomwe zapitazo, iye mwiniyo sakanatha kuganiza. Kotero, tiyeni tibwererenso kuwonetsera kwake komweko ndi zinthu zogonana. Iye, chifukwa cha chidziwitso chake, anamva za mawu atsopanowa, kuchokera kwa abwenzi ake kapena anzake. Ndipo, mwachindunji, ndinaganiza zochita nawo ndekha, ndikugwirizira dzanja langa pa khosi la kompyuta. Kwa ichi, okhulupirika anu, anasankha mtsikana mmodzi yekha ndipo nkhaniyo inapita paokha. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kukhalapo kwa mfundo yakuti zonsezi zimathera ndi msonkhano m'moyo weniweni, ndipo kugonana kwawo komweku kumakula kukhala weniweni. Koma, kufunafuna msungwana kapena mkazi kukhala udindo wa mbuye weniweni, izi ndizo zowopsa kale. Pano mwamunayu wayamba kale kuntchito yeniyeni ndi yofuna, yotsimikizika motsimikiza chifukwa chake ndikutani komwe akuyendera pa tsamba lino. Ndipo potsiriza, tiyeni tinene kuyankhulana kofala komanso kosavulaza pa intaneti. Amuna nthawi zambiri sangapeze munthu amene amamvetsera kapena akukumana ndi kusamvetsetsa kwa mkazi wawo, akudzifunira nokha ndi mabwenzi enieni amene amamumvetsera nthawi zonse, amamvetsa kapena kumuthandiza ndi malangizo a moyo. Chifukwa china chabwino chopeza bwenzi mwa kalata mwina mwina amatopa ndi malo ake onse, monga maubwenzi. Kapena, mophweka, sazengereza kunena za zowawa, ndendende ndi munthu yemwe sanamuonepo m'moyo wake. Mwa njira, izi zimapitabe patsogolo pa maganizo athu, ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya ndinu mkazi kapena mwamuna. Kotero ife tapeza zifukwa zomveka zedi zomwe mnyamata wokwatirana akuyang'ana pa webusaiti yomwe anthu amadziwana.
Kodi mungazindikire bwanji zomwe munthu amayembekeza kuchokera pa intaneti payekha? ngati mwamunayo sakugawana nanu za zomwe akuchitadi pa malo awa, ndipo mafunso anu samayankha konse, kuwalola iwo kudutsa ndi makutu anu. Iye adakhala kutali ndi inu. Mantha ake anayamba kumverera, mwachindunji, ndi inu. Ndipo pempho lanu kuti musabwererenso ma intaneti awa, iye akuwayankha. Ndipo mwa onse, iye amapita kumeneko yekha, mwachinsinsi, kuchokera kwa inu. Izi ndi zizindikiro zazikulu zowopsya zomwe zimayenera kuika moyo wake kukhala mafuta. Lankhulani naye momasuka, ndipo ngakhalenso bwino kuti mugwirizane ndi bizinesi yotereyi ngati mukuchezera malo otchulidwa pamwambapa. Ndikhulupirire, apa iye adzaganiza. Ngakhale kuli koyenera kukumbukira kuti ngati mwamuna wanu akuyesera kukusintha inu mwanjira iyi, sizowona kuti iye adzachita izo posachedwa kapena mtsogolo popanda kuthandizidwa ndi malo a chibwenzi. Choncho, choyamba, pezani chiyanjano chanu ndikupeza zomwe zili zolakwika ndi inu ndi zomwe zimapangitsa okhulupirika anu kuchitapo kanthu. Mwinamwake akunena kuti bukhu lanu, lotchedwa "Banja", lawerengedwa kale ndi iye kwa nthawi yaitali. Ngati mukufuna kusunga banja lanu, chikondi cha mwamuna wanu ndi chidwi chanu, yambani kuchita. Choyamba, yang'anani kusintha kwa maonekedwe anu, ndipo mutatha kukulitsa dziko lanu lamkati. Yesani, dzifunseni nokha mtundu wina wa zokondweretsa zokondweretsa. Dziwonetseni nokha momwe iye sanakuwonereni inu panobe. Chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kukhala waulesi kuti mutenge chidwi ndi mwamuna wanu. Ndiyeno, osati chiwonetsero chimenecho, koma mtsikana aliyense pa malo ochezera, simungolingalire.
Ndipo monga chomaliza, ndikufuna kuwonjezera, perekani theka lanu lachiwiri, kulankhulana naye, yesetsani kuthetsa mavuto ake, ndipo musamaope kumupatsanso malangizo anu. Mulole kuti azigwiritsa ntchito nthawi yake yaulere osati ndi kompyuta, koma ndi inu. Pa izi, konzani zambiri zomwe zingatchedwe kuti "maholide ndi thupi". Ndiyeno, wodzaza ndi kuyankhulana m'moyo weniweni, sadzapita kukachezera malo ochezera. Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri, amakhala pamasewerawa, makamaka chifukwa cha kusungulumwa komanso kusagwirizana. Chabwino, ngati chifukwa cha chidwi, ndiye musamamukakamize, amuthandize kukwaniritsa zosowa zake, chinthu chofunika kukhala naye nthawi zonse.