Njira zonyenga za amuna ndizosiyana ndi zazing'ono zathu, zazimayi. Mnyamata aliyense amene akuyimirira ndi wodzidalira akhoza kukhala mosavuta komanso osasokonezeka, ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, mufupikitsa (kuti tipeze momwe tingachitire) Kuti tidziwonetsere kuti ndife oyenerera kukhala odzaza athu okonda. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira kuti mtundu uwu woimira kugonana wamphamvu kwambiri nthawizonse udzakhala ngati zana limodzi, kapena mazana awiri peresenti, ndipo chifukwa cha izi, n'zotheka kuti iye adzakhala woyamba kuti achoke ku gululo ndikuyang'ana m'munda. Mungathe kumakomana naye mwamtundu uliwonse mu klabu, bar, cafe, chifukwa chakuti zinthu zake ndi zosangalatsa ndipo nthawi yomweyo zimathandiza kuti mudziwe bwino. Nthawi zina, ndithudi, zingakhale msonkhano wosayembekezereka ku paki kapena ngakhale paimidwe. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti adzatsimikiza kuti simukufulumira ndipo maminiti asanu awa, adzalandira, atalandira yankho lolondola, pambali yanu. Tiyeni tipite, mwachindunji, kwa anzathu. Chitsanzo cha mkhalidwe: apa ndilo sabata lalitali lomwe likuyembekezeredwa ndipo inu ndi anzanu-atsikana (ndi ine), tinaganiza zopita ku malo omwe tatchulawa ndikutulutsanso pambuyo podzipweteka. Ndiyeno, iwe unamuwona iye, wokongola, wokonzeka bwino ndipo, pakuyang'ana koyamba, mnyamata wolimba mtima amenenso anakuwonani inu. Mudzaona kuti akudziyang'ana yekha. Funsani kuti ndi chifukwa chiyani? Kodi mwaiwala kuti chidziwitso cha mkazi ndi chiyani, iye sangakulepheretseni. Mwinamwake inu, simungadziwe konse, mudzadutsa nthawi zingapo pamodzi ndi iye, onani kumwetulira kwake kokondweretsa, koma, mwinamwake, musagwirizane nazo kufunika kwake konse. Koma, iye, ndikhulupirire ine, kale kale kale mwazindikira ndipo ngakhale, mwaphunzira bwino. Mwamuna, nthawi zonse amasankha chifundo chake - mkazi, kwa nthawi yayitali komanso popanda kufulumira kulikonse, amatha kumuyang'ana, kuyang'anitsitsa khalidwe lake, makhalidwe ndi manja ake. Ndipo ngakhale zomwe akufuna kusankha kuchokera pa menyu. Komabe, kuyembekezera mphindi yabwino, ndithudi adzasunthira panjira yanu, podzitengera mtundu wina: botolo la champagne, maluwa kapena malo ogulitsa. Koma inu muli nawo kale chiyambi, chimene tidzatchula, PR chomwecho cha kupereka kwake ndi chivalry. Njirayi inapita molunjika. Kotero, iye ali ndi chirichonse, chirichonse, alipo ena, osati ochuluka, osachepera, koma maminiti asanu kuti akukondwerereni inu, dona wa mtima wake. Kodi ndi maminiti asanu omwe amuna angachite kuti akondweretse amayi? Panthawiyi, wophunzira wanu watsopano ayenera kusiya maganizo ake enieni, kumamatira zida zoyenera za chibwenzi chokwanira. Ndipo izi, choyamba, ndizozikumbutsa ndi zosiyana (zomwe zilipo zitha kuikidwa bwino), ndi kusintha kosasunthika, mwachindunji, mu zokambiranazo, ndipo potsirizira pake, kulimbikitsa kudziwana kwanu ndi zotsatira zomwe mwachitazo ndi zomwe mwasankhazo.
Pa "mphindi zisanu" chibwenzi ndi munthu, akhoza kunena kuti iye amakukondani. Ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo, onse kuti adziwonetse okha, mu ulemerero wake wonse, kuti azitenga chidwi ndi mkaziyo ndi kumukoka iye yekha, kuti amvekokha. Ndipo mwinamwake, ngakhale, kubwereranso. Ngati sangakuuzeni, akhoza kuchita izi mwa njira iliyonse, kudzera mu mayamiko angapo akuthandizira ku adiresi yanu kapena njira yolankhulirana yolimbikira. Koma, mwa njira ina, iye ayenera kumamatira ku cholinga chake. Ndinaganiza zogonjetsa, choncho ndiloleni. Kodi sakanatha kuchita zochuluka bwanji pazinthu zake, zokondweretsa zake ndi zokongola zake. Ndipo khulupirirani ine, iye adzachita zonsezi, kuti adziwonetsere yekha kuti iye, ndithudi wogonjetsa mitima ya akazi ndi udindo waukulu wa munthu aliyense. Ndipo, pa maziko ake, mwamunayo ndikutenga njira yoyamba kuti mudziwe.
Kuti akugonjetseni inu maminiti asanu, mwamuna ayenera kuchita bwino kwambiri. Kuti achite izi, akhoza kukuyang'anirani mwachikondi, kuyesa kufotokozera nkhani zosiyanasiyana, kutsindika ulemu wake ndi kupambana kwake pamoyo, ndikuwonetsanso zochitika zake. Ngati iye sali okongola, ndipo amadziwa za izo, ndiye kukambirana bwino komwe kumakhala ndi inu kudzakhala khadi lake. Komanso, amasonyeza kusangalala kwake pamapeto ake, chifukwa munthu aliyense amadziwa momwe timayamikirira izi. Mu mau, mu maminiti asanu munthu sayenera kusonyeza, koma akuwonetseranso kuti ndiwe wochokera pachiyambi, wamunthu komanso waumwini. Kuti, mwachindunji, mudatsimikizidwe izi, popanda dontho la kukayikira ndipo simunabwererenso ku maumboni awa. Zili m'zigawo izi, tikuwona kukhalapo kwa wotsatila mwapadera. Kotero, ngati mwazindikira nthawiyi kuti iye anali wokhoza kudziulula yekha, sanali wamwano komanso nthawi yomweyo, mwakachetechete komanso mwakulira, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, mumamudziwa bwino komanso mwamtendere. Kotero, pambuyo pa zonse, adakwanitsa maminiti asanu, monga inu.
Yankho la funsoli: "Kodi mnyamata ayenera kuchita chiyani mu maminiti ochepa kuti asangalatse mtsikana amene adalumikiza" ndizosiyana kwambiri, koma pali mfundo imodzi yofunika kwambiri. Kumbukirani kuti pamene mnyamata angadziuze za iye mwini zonse zomwe zidafunikira kwa iye, kuti afotokoze makhalidwe ake abwino mu kanthawi kochepa popanda kugwiritsa ntchito nthano zokhazokha zomwe zingathe kukhala madzulo onse, ndiye weniweni mwamuna. Ndipo, nthawi zina, zimakhala zokwanira kwa mphindi zisanu zokha kuti mumvetse bwino.