Kuwala mopanda pake, koma palibe chifukwa!

Ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi adagwidwa ndi kuluma palimodzi - ayenera kupitirizabe pabedi - izi ndizo malingaliro a munthu. Koma kuchokera kumbali ya mkazi ndi kungowonongeka kopanda chilungamo, koma osati chifukwa chopitilira! Simunakhale pa tchuthi kwa zaka zambiri ndipo tsopano, pomaliza, munamasuka. Koma mmalo mopumula kunakhala ngati vuto. Tsopano inu mukudabwa kuti ndiwe wekha wodalirika bwanji izi? Kotero, inu munapita ku malo okhawo. Inu simunawone chochititsa manyazi chirichonse kwa inueni.

Ngati malo a chibwenzi chanu alibe panthawi yake, ngati simukuletsedwa kusangalala ndi nyanja yokha? Hoteloyo inalangizidwa ndi mzanga yemwe anakhala chaka chonse kumeneko. Malo otetezeka - anati, - osati ma pathos, koma okoma. Zomwe munkafuna mutatha kuyankhulana ndi maola 24. Kupumula kungapangitse munthu wosalakwa kuti azichita masewera olimbitsa thupi, koma osati mwayi wokhala ndi chibwenzi chokwanira!
Tsiku loyamba la holide yomwe mwakhalako nthawi yonse yomwe ndalota: Ndinakhala theka la tsiku pamtunda, miyala, miyala, theka la tsiku ndi dziwe lokhala ndi buku. Tsiku lachiwiri ndinapita kukazungulira tawuni, popanda maulendo, monga choncho - kuyang'ana ndikusangalala ndi maonekedwe atsopano. Zosangalatsa zosavuta izi zakudalitsani kwambiri kotero kuti pa chakudya chamadzulo mumakhala okoma mtima ndi chikondi pa chirichonse chamoyo ngakhale kumwetulira sikudasiya nkhope yanu. Izo sizinazindikiridwe! Mnyamata wina adakhala pansi kwa iwe, mnyamata wachifundo kwambiri.

Ankafuna kuti ovekedwawo, osakhala panyumba mosasamala, monga alendo ena adalowa m'chipinda chodyera, koma mosamala, mwabwino. Munasangalalanso ndi woyimilira ndipo mwalingalira kuti apa ndi malo oti anthu azichita zachiwerewere mosavuta, koma osati nthawi yowonjezera maubwenzi, ndipo izi zinali zokhutiritsa kwambiri kwa inu. Kotero, zokambiranazo zinkachitika mwambo wamakhalidwe ndi wachikhalidwe, adangobwera kumene, anali asanayambe kuyang'ana pozungulira, anali ndi mpweya wapadera ... Anapereka kukupatsani vinyo pa bar, popeza voucha "inali yonse" ndipo kwa iye sizinali zopindulitsa. Chabwino, ngati chinthu ichi sichingakhale chopindulitsa kwa munthu, ndipo akufuna kupanga wokondedwa wabwino kwaulere - bwanji osagwirizana? Komanso, vinyo mu barwo anali ofanana ndi kuwerengera.
Zomwe zili m'mabwalo ndi mitu ya zokambiranazo zinali bwino, ndipo mnzanu watsopano anandiitana kuti ndiyende.

Koma poyamba munkafuna kuti mukhale ndi chikondi chochepa chabe, ndipo mukumwetulira, mwamsanga kuti mutenge. Makamaka kuyambira pamene munamva kuti kuyankhulana uku kuyamba kuyamba kukuvutitsani, mukufuna kubwerera ku chisangalalo cha kusungidwa. Koma sizinali choncho, mnyamata wanu anakutsatirani ku chiwerengero, osasiya kulankhula, pamene akuyamba kugwira manja anu. Inu simunamvere, koma mwakachetechete adakwiyitsa kuti anadzilolera kuwonetsera kwachiwerewere komweko, kosavuta. Anangomudziwa pang'ono, adalumphira m'chipindamo - ndipo adamva kuti watopa, ngati kuti unamangidwa kuntchito mpaka pakati pausiku. Ndipo mu malingaliro anga panali chinthu chimodzi - simunamupatse chifukwa, chifukwa chiyani chinachitika?

Nchifukwa chiyani kusayera kumeneku kumakhala koyeseka, ngati kungatchedwe kukwatulidwa, kumamupatsa chifukwa?
Pamene mudadzuka, munakumbukira zinthu zosasangalatsa, koma mukuganiza kuti angapepeseni kapena akudzipangira kuti palibe chomwe chinachitika. Koma kachiwiri ine ndinasokoneza! Iye sanachotse konse icho mpaka chimaliziro, iye sanangopereka padera, kuzunzidwa ndi kumusakasaka ndi kuzunzika kwake, iye anawononga kwathunthu ena onse. Simungathe kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake kugonana kosavuta kumathera ndi bedi? Inu mumangofuna kuti mudye chakudya mu kampani yabwino.

Kutsiliza. Ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi adalumikizana pamodzi ndikuluma, musapitirize kulankhulana pabedi. Komabe, pamene mkazi atatha theka la ola la chibwenzi akupita ku bar kuti amwe vinyo ndipo nthawi yomweyo amachoka mu "ubwino ndi chikondi pa chirichonse chamoyo", amuna okhawo omwe ali ndi bungwe angathe kupanga zolakwika zolakwika. Koma chidziwitso chatsopano chikhoza kuchotsedwa pomwepo. Kulemera kwa mayamiko ndi mawonekedwe a bwino kuvala chakudya kumasonyeza, ndendende, malangizo a malingaliro ndi ziyembekezo. Ndikofunika kukhala tcheru, chifukwa kutayika kwa izi kumayambitsa mavuto.