Koma sizinthu zonse zomwe zikuoneka ngati poyamba. Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndikuteteza banja lanu, chifukwa izi ndi zovuta kwambiri kuposa kulenga.
Moyo wa banja uli wodzazidwa ndi zodabwitsa ndipo mwa njira imeneyi muyenera kudutsa muzovuta zambiri. Kulephera kuthetsa iwo nthawi zambiri ndipo ndi chifukwa cha banja losudzulana. Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu zomwe zimakhudza ubale wa banja ndi chikhumbo ndi chikhumbo cha munthu kuti akwaniritse zofuna zawo ndi zikhumbo zawo.
Opha eni eni banja ali ndi makhalidwe oipa - mkwiyo, mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo.
Pamene anthu aleza mtima, amangokhalira kusankha kuthetsa banja.
Nthawi zina anthu samaganizira za kusudzulana, komanso ngakhale zowonjezera zotsatira za kutha kwa ubale. Anthu amakhulupirira mwachidaliro kuti adzabweretsa chimwemwe kwa iwo, koma kodi iwo sakulakwitsa?
M'dziko lamakono, anthu amayesetsa kupewa poyamba pachibale, chifukwa lumbiro loti likhale loona kwa wina ndi mzake lataya mphamvu ndipo silingatheke.
Powonjezereka kwambiri, chiwerengero cha amayi chikukula omwe ali ndi mtendere wamaganizo amabereka ana awo maukwati onse, popeza amuna ambiri saona kuti ndi bwino kulembetsa maukwati awo pamayambiriro oyambirira a ukwati. Udindo wa okondedwa m'banja umasintha kwambiri.
Ndiuzeni, kodi zingatheke kuti mukhale ndi banja labwino?
Ngati mukufuna kupanga banja labwino ndikufuna kukhala ndi moyo wosangalala m'banja lanu ndi wokondedwa wanu kapena wokondedwa wanu, chinthu chofunika kwambiri kuti muchite ndi kusintha maganizo anu achikazi kapena amuna.
Ngati mukufuna kulenga ndi kukhala ndi moyo wosangalala m'banja lanu, choyamba muyenera kusintha maganizo anu. Ngati potsiriza mwaganiza kukwatiwa ndi munthu, kumbukirani kuti muyenera kusamalira mkazi wanu monga momwe mumadzikondera nokha. Dziwani kuti chimwemwe sichingazikidwe pazinthu zakuthupi, koma chimachokera kumvetsetsa kumaganizo ndi mtima wa okonda.
Komanso musaiwale kuti nthawi zonse muyenera kupereka chinachake. Zakhala ziri, tsopano, ndipo zedi, zidzakhala choncho. Nsembe idzakhala nayo nthawi, ntchito, zolinga za moyo, ndalama ndi zina. Inu mumapereka osati chifukwa chokhalira ndi moyo wokondwa ndi wokondedwa wanu, koma komanso kuti mukhale ndi moyo wosangalala kwa ana anu. Moyo sungadziŵike konse. Pofuna kukhala ndi ubwino wa banja, mukhoza kutaya ntchito kapena ntchito yanu. Dziwani kuti ichi si chinthu chachikulu m'moyo. Pambuyo pa zonse, mudzakhala ndi chinachake choti mukhale nacho. Ndipo muyenera kukhala ndi mafuko a ana anu omwe.
Banja silingangowonongeka, koma limakula kwambiri ... pa nkhaniyi, mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kuthandizana pazinthu zonse kuti athandize kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo. Kudandaula kwanu, kukhumudwa kapena mkwiyo kumalowa m'malo mwa chikondi ndi kumvetsetsa kwathunthu. Chida chabwino kwambiri chotsutsa kusudzulana chidzakhala kukhululukira wokondedwa, kumvetsetsa maganizo ake ndikuiwala zokhumudwitsa zonse.
Ngati mudakangana, yesetsani kufotokozera mwaulemu zomwe zikukuvutitsani inu kapena izi. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mkangano ndi chifukwa chakuti palibe amene akufuna kusiya kapena kuvomereza kuti akulakwitsa. Phunzirani kupeza zolakwa zanu. Phunzirani kuzindikira hafu yanu yokondedwa kapena yokondedwa monga momwe ziliri ndipo musayesetse kusintha kapena kusonyeza chinachake. Chofunika kwambiri - musayambe kulankhulana.
Ndikukhumba inu banja losangalala mwa okondedwa anu.