Zolakwitsa zopangidwa ndi amayi mu ubale wa banja

Mwa njira zonse, kuyesetsa kuyanjana ndi kupambana mu moyo wa banja, nthawi zambiri timakwaniritsa zosiyana ndi zotsatira. Nchifukwa chiyani izi zimachitika?

Ife akazi tiri achangu kwambiri mu sayansi yomanga ubale ndi theka lathu lachiwiri. Koma nthawi zina ngakhale mochuluka kwambiri, pakuti amuna omwe amakopedwa ndi ife nthawi zambiri samayimilira mafunso a tsiku ndi tsiku kuti agwirizane ndi zoyenera zomwe zimagwiriridwa m'maganizo athu. Nchiani chimatilepheretsa kuti banja likhale losangalala ndi mgwirizano mu chiyanjano? "Tengani chitsanzo ..."
Pazifukwa zina, zikuwoneka kuti ambiri a ife kuti chitsanzo chabwino (mwachitsanzo, mwamuna wa bwenzi la Julia - munthu wokonda maseŵera komanso jack wa malonda onse) - ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri kukula kwa munthu wathu. Nenani, zogwirizana ndi kukula kwa mwana wina wamwamuna alpha, ndipo wokondedwa akuyesera kuyesetsa ndikuyesa bwino ngati chitsanzo chomwe tanena.

Onani kuchokera kumbali
"Ngati mwamuna wa Yulin ndi wabwino, n'chifukwa chiyani mukufunikira ine?" - Wopambana wathu amakhumudwa ndipo makumi asanu ndi awiri (100) a 100 amakana kuti azigwirizana, ndipo 30 kale chifukwa cha mfundo ikuyamba kukufananitsani ndi Julia mwiniwake. Ndi ochepa omwe adzavutika pamene akunyalanyazidwa poyera. Koma kuyerekezera kulikonse kwa wina ndizo momwe zimakhalira. Kotero zotsatira za njira iyi zidzakhala zosiyana kwambiri.

"Uyenera!"
Mkazi aliyense ali ndi mndandanda wake wautali wa mikhalidwe, yomwe, mwa lingaliro lake, njonda weniweni ndi mnzake wa moyo ayenera kukhala nacho. Ndipo mwachiwonekere, iye adzalankhula makhalidwe awa kwa wosankhidwa wake. Chokha sichiganiziranso kamphindi kamodzi - kuti mawu akuti "ayenera" akhoza kuthetsa zolinga zabwino komanso zabwino.

Onani kuchokera kumbali
Tangoganizani munthu yemwe akukuuzani kuti: "Ndikukhulupirira kuti mkazi ayenera ..." Ndani ayenera? Iye? Chifukwa chotani? Simuli kusukulu pamayeso. Ndi zochuluka bwanji zomwe inu mumayesetsa kuti mukhale ndi mgwirizano womwe udzakhala wodzipereka, osati kuchita chifukwa cha chikhumbo ndi chikondi? Zofuna zawo zonse zikhoza kuwonetsedwa popanda zodabwitsa komanso zopanda pake. Ndi bwino kumanga banja pa udindo wodzipereka, mgwirizano, mtendere ndi chikondi kusiyana ndi lingaliro la udindo wa mmodzi mwa okwatirana. Posakhalitsa, mu zochitika izi, wina sangakhale ndi moyo.

Chachitatu chowonjezera
Amanena kuti mkazi aliyense ali ndi zojambulajambula, ndipo nthawi zina amachita masewera osewera. Kukwatira, nthawi zambiri timakonda kuitana mboni kuzungulira: "Musangomvetsera zomwe anangonena!" Munthu wokongoletsedwa amatha kupita kumalo osamva, kapena amayamba kudziukira yekha kapena kuthawa. Zosankha zitatuzi sizingathandize kuti banja likhale lolimba.

Onani kuchokera kumbali
Aliyense amavutika: mkazi yemwe amapanga masewero a anthu awiri okha omwe ayenera kumvetsetsa ndikuchita okha padera; munthu yemwe amalemba mwamsangamsanga amatsenga ndikuyamba kuchita manyazi. Kuphatikizapo mboni zopanda phindu kapena zopanda phindu zomwe zinagwidwa mukumenyana ndikukakamizidwa kuti zisokoneze maganizo awo ndi zochitika za moyo wa wina. Inde, tonsefe timafuna kulankhula nthawi ndi nthawi, kufunsana, nthawizina ngakhale kudandaula ndi kulira. Koma izi sizowonjezereka kuti mutembenuzire moyo wanu kukhala chochitika chachikulu. Ngati, ndithudi, simukufuna kutenga nawo mbali muwonetsero wotchuka wotchuka ...

"Kapena ine, kapena iwo!"
Tsiku lililonse amayi ambiri amapereka ma satellites omwe amakhala ndi mafilimu: "Ndi ndani amene mumasowa, abwenzi kapena ine?" Kukhalapo kwa zopembedza zopembedza, osati m'gulu la "mamembala", kumachititsa manyazi ambiri, ndipo akazi ena amangokhalira kukhumudwitsa.

Onani kuchokera kumbali
Ngati muli ndi nsanje ndi abwenzi ake kapena zokondweretsa, kumbukirani zomwe munagwirizana ndi mwamuna wanu. Ndipotu, gawo lalikulu pakupanga zoyenera za wokondedwa lidawonetsedwa ndi anthu omwe amamukonda komanso zokondweretsa. Ganizirani ngati mukufuna bwenzi losangalatsa, losasangalatsa? Kumbukirani kuti nthawi zonse ndi muzonse mungathe kuyanjana. Lolani theka lanu lachiwiri lidzapatsidwa nthawi yina pazomwe mumakonda. Pachifukwa ichi, nonse awiri mutha kupambana: mwamuna adzakhala wokondwa, akuchita ntchito yomwe amamukonda, ndipo mungathe kudzipereka nokha ndi chimwemwe chanu chachikazi.

"Ndinachititsidwa khungu"
Munthu wabwino akhoza kungobweretsedwa! "- Azimayi akukong'ung'udza pakati pawo ndi kutambasula manja awo, kuthamangira kuphunzitsa, kulima, kukula ndi" kumenyana ndichabechabe. "Kawirikawiri mu munthu wokonzekera zinthu zonse zimagonjetsedwa: maonekedwe, khalidwe, makhalidwe.

Onani kuchokera kumbali
Kubweretsa ubwino ndi kuunikira ndizomwe zimapindulitsa kwambiri. Ndizotheka pamene okondedwa akukula ndikulimbikitsana, koma kusintha kokha ndi kusinthika ziyenera kukhala mwaufulu. Ndi chinthu chimodzi pamene munthu mwiniwake apempha kuti apite naye ku sitolo ndi kusankha jeans kapena suti, popeza akudalira kukoma kwake. Ndipo palinso - kubisa kapena kubisa mwachitsulo malonda omwe amawakonda chifukwa chakuti iwowo sakukondani. Ndipo ngati nthawi yotsatira adzachitanso chimodzimodzi ndi thumba lanu la Louis Vuitton?

Anadza masiku a sabata
Patapita nthawi, mayiyo akuzindikira kuti maluwa ali m'chipinda chake chokhalamo akuwoneka pa maholide, kupita kuvesitilanti amakhala okonda kudya chakudya chamadzulo. "Bweretsani chikondicho!" - heroine wathu akudutsa.

Kuyang'ana kuchokera kumbali Kwa amuna ambiri, kupita ku malo odyera ndi mwayi wokhala ndi chotukuka pamalo osasangalatsa, omwe amafuna ndalama zowonjezera zokondweretsa. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zofunikira kukamba za zofuna zanu mokweza, komanso kuti wosankhidwa wanu ndi wabwino kuposa chiwonongeko chilichonse.

Mndandanda wa zodzinenera zambiri
Dzifufuzeni nokha, kodi mawonedwewa alowetsani mndandanda wanu wa zofunika kwa wokondedwa wanu?

Malo amodzi
Anabwera ndi yekha, anakhumudwitsidwa - talente ya amayi kuti ayambe kukamba za mwamuna ndikumuganizira.

2 ndikukhala
Chikumbumtima. Mwachiwonekere, tikukamba za psychotrauma ya mtsikana wotchedwa "Amuna amafunikira kokha." Izo si zoona. Amuna amafunikira zambiri. Ndipo "imodzi" iyi, mwa njira, imakhalanso ndi thupi lalikulu.

Malo achitatu
Kulephera kukhala chete. Nthawi zina zimakhala zosangalatsa kuti mukhale osangalala komanso osaganizira chilichonse, kuyang'ana pa khoma, osayankha mafunso a mphenzi pamasewero: "Mukuganiza chiyani?", "Chifukwa chiyani mukukhala chete?", "Kodi mumandiseka?" Yesani!