Ulendo wa Mendelssohn unamwalira, nthawi yachisanu itatha, okondedwa awiriwo anakhala banja limodzi. Iwo akhala akulota za izi, koma zoona pazifukwa zina sizolondola zolinga zawo. Pafupifupi mwamsanga pambuyo pa kulembedwa kwaukwati, khalidwe la onse awiri amayamba kusintha, osadziwika pasanathe theka lachizoloŵezi ndi chilakolako. Ngati ma metamorphoses omwe amapezeka ndi amayi atatha ukwatiwo, amanena zambiri komanso ndi grin, ndiye kusintha kwa amuna kumakondweretsedwa. Ndipo mwamuna, nayenso, akusintha. Ndipo osati nthawi zonse kwabwinoko.
Musamachite mantha mwamsanga kapena kudzitsutsa nokha pa machimo onse ochimwa. Vuto lofanana ndilo limabuka kwa amayi ambiri. Chifukwa chake, mukhoza kuyesa kupeza zofanana, kupanga zofunikira ndikupeza njira yothetsera vutoli. Tiyeni tione zomwe kusintha kumachitika ndi amuna pambuyo paukwati.
Zoyembekezeredwa ndi Zolakwika
Kukhala mkazi wovomerezeka, mkazi amayembekezera kuti mwamuna wake azitsatira malingaliro ake onena zabwino, asaleke kudya zizolowezi zovulaza, asiye kudya zakudya zovulaza ndi abwenzi omwe amasiya kusonkhana ndi kupita kukawedza kapena hockey nawo, ayambe kupanga ndalama zopindulitsa kuti athandize moyo wabwino ndi kukwaniritsa zopempha zonse chifuwa cha mkazi. Mwamuna, pazifukwa zina, samafulumizitsa kuima wangwiro. Zomwe zili bwino, sangathe kuphimba bedi ndi kusamba mbale, nthawi zina amakonzekera chakudya chambiri, nthawi ndi nthawi amapereka mphatso zochepa ndikupanga zodabwitsa zokwanira kwa theka lake lachiwiri. Kuzindikira kuti wokondedwa wake wakhala mkazi walamulo, osasokoneza chikondi chake ndi chisamaliro chake. Koma kaŵirikaŵiri amatha kuponyera kuphompho pamtunda, kapena "alonda sofa", mwakadandaula ndikulemba zolemba zake popanda chifukwa. Mwamuna akuyembekezera chakudya chamadzulo ndi chosiyana, ukhondo ndi dongosolo mu nyumba, chikondi, chikondi, kukhulupirika ndi chisamaliro. Kuyankha mwakhama pulogalamu yake yaumwini sikuwonekera. Zikatero, mkazi ayamba kukayikira mwamuna wake wosakhulupirika, kuyang'ana zoperewera zomwe palibe. Apritchina ili mzake.
Chaka choyamba cha moyo wogwirizana chimasonyeza kuti abambo amayamba kusamalira mkazi wawo mochepa. Chikondi chimatayika mu ubale, mkazi samalandira chidwi chochuluka kuchokera kwa iye asanakwatirane. Pakalipano, kwa amuna izi ndi chikhalidwe chachilengedwe. Iye anali atatopa, anaphwanya mphamvu zonse pokhala pachibwenzi ndi kugonjetsa wokondedwayo. Tsopano akufuna kusangalala ndi zokondweretsa mwa mawonekedwe odyera, zosiyanasiyana m'nyumba, zovala zoyera komanso zowonjezereka, chikondi ndi chisamaliro cha mwamuna wovomerezeka. Ndipo inu mukukondana ndi okonda ake osankhidwa kapena mphatso zake zokha ndi zoyamikira?
Malangizo a zotsatira
Pali njira ziwiri zokha zomwe zimachokera ku izi: Choyamba: Mzimayi amasintha ndi mwamuna wake ndipo amaphunzira kukhala nawo. Osamuwona, sankhani masokisi odetsedwa kuzungulira nyumbayo, osangalala ndi menyu osiyanasiyana. Njira yachiwiri: Ngati mkazi sakonda maubwenzi atsopanowa, akhoza kusunga mwamuna wake bwino (mwachidziwitso cha mawu awa). Mzimayi amatha kudzipangitsa munthu kudzigonjetsa mobwerezabwereza. Kwa ichi, palibe chifukwa chochitira china chirichonse. Samalani, pitani ku cinema, ku cafe, kumalo oimba omwe mumawakonda kwambiri, mukakumana ndi abwenzi ndikuwatenga kunyumba. Amuna mwa chilengedwe ndi osaka ndi eni ake. Ngati awona kuti mkazi akumusokoneza, amapeza ntchito kunja kwa banja, amafunanso kuti apambane. Koma pa nkhaniyi, mkaziyo sadzakhala ndi nthawi yopuma. Ine ndiyenera kuiwala za mawonekedwe a bwalo lamilandu la zogwiritsira ntchito zogwirira ntchito muzophimba ndi masikiti, mu chovala chosavala chopanda pake. Onetsetsani kukhala ndi manicure, make-up, tsitsi, maonekedwe okonzeka bwino. Ndikoyenera kumulola munthuyo kumvetsetsa kuti mupitiriza kuyang'ana bwino. Wosaka nyama amadziwa kuti mamembala ena omwe ali ndi mphamvu zogonana angayang'anenso ndi mkazi wake. Iye adzachita zonse kuti asunge iye pafupi naye. Mwamuna adzaonetsa zizindikiro za kusamalira mkazi wake.
Komabe, pali vuto limodzi - munthu mwachibadwa si msaki. Chochita, palinso chomwecho. Pankhaniyi, ndizotheka kuti m'malo mogonjetsa mwamuna woyenera, mwamuna akhoza kuchokapo. Ndipo osati izo kwa mkazi wina.
Vuto lina limene mayi amayang'ana pambuyo paukwati, limapangidwa motere: "nthawi zonse amakhala chete." Asanakwatirane, okondanawo adagawana zochitika zawo zonse, pamisonkhano amauzana wina ndi mzake za momwe tsikuli linayendera, zomwe zinali zofunika kapena zosangalatsa za iwo. Tsopano akubwera kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito ndikupempha kuti asiye yekha. Amagona pa sofa, amawonera TV, komanso kuti mkazi wake ayesetse kupeza zomwe zimamusangalatsani zomwe zinachitika lero, samamvetsera. Ngati ndizosautsa, amakwiya. Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amati amuna amavutika maganizo kwambiri kuposa akazi. Choncho, kwa ambiri a iwo, kukhala nthawi yokhala chete ndi chofunikira, osati kanthawi kochepa. Ndikoyenera kupatsa mwamuna mwayi wotsitsimula, ndipo ambiri pa nthawi ino, amataya ntchito mu bizinesi yomwe mumaikonda kapena mukakumana ndi mnzanu. Kusiyanitsa nthawi zina nthawi zina kumathandiza kwa onse awiri. Zidzathandiza kufalitsa, kuthetsana wina ndi mzake, ndiyeno ndi mphamvu zatsopano kuti muyambe kumanga komanso kulimbikitsa chisa cha banja.
Ubale wa tsiku la sabata
Mwamunayo akusintha, chifukwa udindo wake m'moyo wanu wasintha. Tsopano akuda nkhaŵa ndi zinthu monga ubwino, ntchito, kulera banjalo. Ndipo ngati banja likukonzekera kukhala ndi mwana? Ndiye munthu amakhala yekhayo wopatsa chakudya komanso wothandizira. Ndipo ndalama sizichepetsa, atolko akuwonjezeka. Mwamuna amafuna kuti mzimayi aziwathandiza, ndipo pokhapokha iye akhoza kusonyeza kufooka kwake ndi kutopa kwake, koma ndi iye yekha yemwe angakhale wopanda vuto komanso osokonezeka ...
Kumanga ubale pakati pa anthu sikutha pambuyo paukwati. Amafika pamtunda watsopano. Asanayambe kukwatirana, achinyamata, ngati sakakhala limodzi, anali ndi zofuna zawo, malo awo, moyo wawo. Kumayambiriro kwa moyo wokhudzana, ndikofunikira kumanga mgwirizano kuti musagwirizane ndi ufulu ndi kumasuka kwa theka lanu lachiwiri, koma kuti mukwaniritse zofuna ndi zokondana wina ndi mzake; Musamapanikize wokondedwa wanu ndi zolakalaka zanu komanso zofuna zanu, koma mutha kupuma nthawi ndi nthawi. Izi zidzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa kuti gawo lachiwiri ndi lofunika bwanji, ndibwino kukhala pamodzi komanso kuti nthawi zina zimangokhala chete. Ndibwino kuti muthe kumvetsetsana wina ndi mzake mutatha ukwati, zimadalira awiri okha. Kuyambira nthawi ino ntchito yanu siyang'anani wina ndi mzake, koma mwa njira imodzi. Ndizosatheka kutchula zokhumudwitsa ndi mavuto onse pamodzi mwa okwatirana. M'moyo wa banja nthawi zonse kuli malo a maholide awiri, koma chomwe iwo ati adzakhale ndi ngati iwo adzakhalepo konse zimadalira onse awiriwo.