Chotsatira chake, mtsikana yemwe akuyembekeza kumvetsera kapena kukhala ndi chiyanjano cha pulayimale ndi theka lake, amakakamizika kuthetsa zinyenyeswazi za mphamvu zimene mwamuna angathe kumupha iye atatha ntchito yake yovuta. Iye, nayenso, akufuna kuti asangalale, ndipo onani, mwachitsanzo, TV.
Pofuna kunena zoona, zimakhala zomveka kwa iye kuti mkazi watsopano adagula kapena zomwe zinamuchitikira bwenzi lake lapamtima.Ngakhalenso ngati nzeru ndi khalidwe labwino sizimamuletsa kuti asamayankhule, mayankho ake amadziwika bwino kwambiri komanso amamveka bwino kwambiri. kutali. Kawirikawiri, khalidweli limamasuliridwa mwanjira ina ndi mkazi: amayamba kumva kuti kukhumudwa ndi kusasamala kwa mwamuna wake sizowonjezera kuti ndizosakondweretsa. Ndipo tsopano mpikisano wa mkangano wina wabuka, womwe, ukudzibwereza wokha ndi chizoloŵezi chokhalitsa, nthawi zonse ukhoza kusokoneza ...
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Ikani khungu lake
Yesani kuganiza nokha pamalo ake, ndiko kuti, m'malo mwa munthu yemwe nthawi zonse amakhala m'mavuto chifukwa cha kulemera kwa maudindo omwe amakhala pambali pake tsiku ndi tsiku. Ayenera kupereka onse 100 kugwira ntchito, kusamalira ubwino wa banja komanso kuchita zinthu zambiri zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi mawu ofunika "ayenera". Choncho, mzimayi, poyesa kumuphatikiza mwamuna wake kuthetsa mavuto ang'onoang'ono omwe amatha kupirira nawo, akhoza kukhala mwamuna ndi chofanana ndi ntchito.
Zambiri zosiyanasiyana - makutu anu
Pofuna kunena za mabotolo, malo ogwiritsira ntchito thanzi komanso misomali yosweka, palinso ena "othokoza" omvera, mwachitsanzo, abwenzi kapena amayi.
Mwamuna abvomerezanso kachikondi kosatha, muuzeni momwe mumaperewera pamene sali pafupi ndi momwe mumayamikira zonse zomwe amachitira bwino banja lanu. Ngati zokamba za ntchito yake sizikuchititsa kuti munthu asamayende bwino, wina akhoza kudabwa kuti tsiku lake lapita bwanji, zomwe akuchita panopa.
Njira ina yosatsutsika ndiyo kulankhula za zomwe zimamukondweretsa, mwachitsanzo, za mpira kapena za mtundu watsopano wa galimoto yomwe amamukonda (ndithudi, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kukhala osadziŵa pang'ono pa nkhaniyi, kuti asamawoneke ngati wangwiro komanso kuti akhale oyenerera pang'ono).
Ndipotu, ndinu otsimikiza kuti ndi munthu amene ali theka lanu, ndipo mumakhala limodzi mpaka kukalamba, choncho simukuyenera kum'tenga ndi kumupweteka popanda chifukwa. Lekani kuyang'ana pa moyo kupyolera mu magalasi owala. Moyo - awa si mafilimu a Hollywood, sodetermine zomwe mukufunadi kuona banja lanu.
Pangani nyumba imene mukufuna kubwerera
Kuti mu chisa chanu cha banja nthawi zonse mumalandiridwa, mumayenera kusamalira zigawo zake zosagwirizana nazo:
- Pangani nyumba yanu molimbika;
- kambiranani ndi mwamuna kuchokera kuntchito ndi kumwetulira kosatheka kumaso kwake;
- kuyamikira nthawi yomwe mumakhala pamodzi, ndikupanga kuti wokondedwa amvetse zomwe izi zikutanthauza kwa inu;
- Dzipangirani nokha "banki yosangalatsa", yomwe ikuphatikizapo zithunzi zomwe zimatengedwa panthawi yopuma limodzi, zokondweretsa zokondweretsa zomwe zimachokera ku maulendo, ndipo nthawi ndi nthawi zimagwirizanitsa nthawi izi pamodzi ndi kuwonetsa zabwino;
- Musaope kuitana mwamuna wanu poyera ndikumufunsa zomwe amakonda komanso zomwe sakufuna;
- Pangani malamulo tsiku ndi tsiku kwa mphindi 10-15 kuti mukambirane zofunika kwa zinthu zonse ziwiri;
- khalani wokondweretsa nthawi zonse kwa mwamuna wanu, dzipezeni ntchito yomwe ingakupangitseni nthawi zonse kuti mugwirizane ndi chitukuko chanu. Ndikhulupirire, pamene muli ndi bizinesi ya moyo, sipadzakhalanso nthawi yodandaula ndikusowa "kupeza" mwamuna wanu;
- ganizirani kuti ichi (pafupifupi changwiro, koma ndi zina zotani, sichimwa, sichimenyedwa, sichiyenda, chimapereka ndalama zothandizira banja ndi ana), munthuyo anasankha iwe, osati wina. Kotero, ndi woyenera chikondi chanu ndi kupembedza, kuyamikira ndi kulemekeza.
Ndipo kumvetsetsa mfundo za kukhala m'banja logwirizana kumathandiza kuti mgwirizano wanu ukhale wolimba komanso wosasunthika, ngakhale zovuta zonse za moyo.