Kulimbana ndi mnyamata: Kodi malotowo amachititsa mavuto?

Mayi wina aliyense akulota ubale wautali komanso wokondwa. Ndipo ngati mu moyo wake pali munthu amene angapatsidwe udindo wokhala naye payekha, ndiye chiwonetsero chimodzi chachikondi cha chikondi chingakhale kuopa kutayika wokondedwa. Kawirikawiri maganizo oterowo amachititsa kuti maloto aziwoneka, pomwe zochitika zathu zonse zimakhala zoopsa. Ndipo musadabwe ndi maloto omwe mudasokoneza nawo, chifukwa izi ndizochokera kwa zomwe mwakumana nazo. Koma komabe muyenera kuganiza, ngati simukuopa china chirichonse chonga icho, koma malotowo sanachitikebe. Tiyeni tifufuze tsatanetsatane wa zofotokozedwa za mabuku a maloto okhudza kusiyana ndi chibwenzi kapena mwamuna wamakono.

Kutanthauzira: chifukwa chiyani maloto olekana ndi mwamuna kapena kuthetsa ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wake

Ngakhale zovuta zonse zomwe zinachitika m'maloto, ambiri otanthauzira amatanthauzira chithunzi chomwecho ngati chizindikiro chabwino. Kawirikawiri, atsikana omwe adalota zolekanitsa, amaganiza kuti izi zidzachitika posachedwa. Koma musadandaule, chifukwa kutanthauzira kumanena mosiyana. Posachedwa, padzakhala kudalira ndi mgwirizano wambiri mu ubale wanu. N'zosakayikitsa kuti malingaliro anu adzasinthidwa.

Kusudzulana kotooka kwa mwamuna wamakono akunena kuti inunso mwakonzekeretsa munthu uyu. Ndiponso, mwinamwake, simukuwuza mwamuna wanu chomwe chingakhale chifukwa chokayikira inu ndi maganizo anu enieni. Olota maloto amatanthauzira malotowa ngati chidziwitso chatsopano cha chiyanjano kapena chisokonezo ndi wokwatirana.

Ngati wolota akuganiza chithunzichi ndi kutha kwa ubale kapena kukwatirana kuchitika mmoyo wake weniweni, ndiye izi zimangonena chinthu chimodzi: mkazi akukumana ndi zochitika zambiri, ndipo maganizo amayamba kufotokozedwa m'njira yovuta kwambiri.

Ngati ndinalota kuti mnyamatayu akufuna kuchoka

Maloto omwe woyambitsa chiyanjano ndi mnyamata wanu, mwanjira ina, chenjezo kuti akunyengani inu kapena maganizo ake atha. N'zotheka kuti malotowo akhoza kukhala chiwonetsero cha chisamaliro chenicheni cha wokondedwa. Yesetsani kulankhula ndi mnyamata wanu za momwe amamvera.

Pamene muli mu loto wokondedwa akufuna kugawana nanu chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika kwanu kapena chinyengo china, ndiye kuti m'pofunika kuyambiranso kumverera kwanu. Mwina posakhalitsa, wolota amayembekeza kumudziwa bwino ndi mwamuna yemwe angakhale phwando lopambana kuposa chibwenzi chake chamakono.

Kuda malingaliro a maloto

Kupitilira, kupempha kuti mupitirize kugonana koyambirira - kuchitidwa monga kumvetsetsa ndi kukhulupirika kwa wina ndi mzake. Zimasonyezanso kuti mumamvadi moona mtima komanso mwachikondi kwa wokondedwa wanu.

Lirani mu loto. Kawirikawiri, misonzi iliyonse, mosasamala kanthu za chisangalalo kapena chisoni, imatanthauzira ngati chisangalalo chofanana ndi maloto kapena nkhani zabwino. Mulimonsemo, posachedwa chochitika chilichonse chidzakupangitsani kusangalala.

Kusiyana komwe munavomereza ndi kusayanjanitsika kwina kungatanthauzidwe ngati malo okhala moyo wopanda pake. Simungathe kuyembekezera kusintha kwakukulu kulikonse.

Kupitilira kuchokera pamwambapa, ndiye, maloto otani olekana ndi mnyamata, ali ndi kutanthauzira kosiyana kwambiri. Kutanthauzira kotsiriza kumadalira momwe mwambowu unachitikira mu malingaliro anu, ndikumverera kotani pamene mukuchita.