Choyamba, mungathe kuona zithunzi za amuna ndikulemba okha omwe mumawakonda kunja, kapena kungoyankha makalata ochokera kwa amuna amene mumakonda pa chithunzicho. Chachiwiri, mukhoza kuwerenga mbiri yake, ndi kupeza cholinga chomwe akufuna kuti adziwe. Chachitatu, mukhoza kulembetsa mwatsatanetsatane m'ndandanda yamaphunziro anu, zomwe mumayang'ana kuchokera pachibwenzi, ndi munthu wanji amene mumasowa.
Tsopano pali malo ambiri okondana, omwe zikwi zikwi ndi ogwiritsa ntchito amalembedwa, kotero kusankha ndiko kwakukulu. Ubwino wa chibwenzi pa Intaneti ndi kuti anthu onse amasonyeza chikhumbo chawo chodziwana bwino. Chitsimikizo chotero sichingaperekedwe poyesera kuti mudziwe bwino mumsewu, chifukwa munthu sangathe kukhala ndi maganizo panthawi yomwe akudziwana naye kapena palibe chifukwa chodziwiratu. Pa intaneti, chirichonse chiri chophweka ndi cholunjika, chifukwa munthu analembetsa mbiri yake pa malo ochezera, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ali ndi chikhumbo choti amudziwe iye.
Ngakhale ubwino wonse, chibwenzi pa intaneti chili ndi zofooka zingapo. Amuna pa intaneti nthawi zambiri amabisala, kubisa zolinga zawo zenizeni za chibwenzi, komanso ngakhale nkhope zawo, popanda kuwonekera zithunzi. Pano pali malangizo ena omwe amuna ayenera kupeŵa pa intaneti. Choyamba, muyenera kupewa amuna omwe ali m'kalata yoyamba amapereka kugonana. Inde, ngati cholinga chanu chodziwana ndi chiyanjano cholimba, osati chinthu chosagwirizana. Ndikofunika kuyesa kupeŵa pa intaneti amuna omwe amalemba mwachindunji kwa mkazi wosadziwika bwino zoperekazo.
Ndipo palibe chifukwa choyembekeza kuti pamene adzakuwonani, adzasintha maganizo ake ndikufuna kukhala ndi ubale wolimba ndi inu. Iye sangatero. Ndizowopsa kwambiri kuti mumacheze ndi amuna oterewa. Mukhoza kulingalira kuti atsikana angapo omwe ali pa webusaitiyi adakhala ndi kugwirizana koopsa. Ndipotu, pa intaneti pa malo oterewa nthawi zambiri pali atsikana ochuluka omwe amapereka chithandizo chawo chapamtima kwa ndalama kapena kungofuna kugonana ndi munthu nthawi imodzi. Choncho, amuna oterewa ayenera kupeŵa ndipo musapitirize kuyankhulana nawo, mutha kuika mafunso awo mu "Mndandanda wakuda".
Malingana ndi mafunsowo omwe sadziwika pa malo ochezera a chibwenzi, omwe amai amapewa pa intaneti, amayi oposa 80% amapewa amuna omwe amapereka zogonana mu uthenga woyamba, makamaka popereka maonekedwe oipa. Komanso, muyenera kupewa anthu opanda chithunzi kapena ndi chithunzi cha wina ngati amakana kukutumizirani zithunzi zawo ku imelo yanu. Monga lamulo, awa ndi amuna okwatira omwe akuyang'ana mbuye, ndipo samawonetsa chithunzi kotero kuti chidziwitso chofufuza chake sichifike kwa mkazi wake.
Ndikofunika kupewa amuna omwe amalemba mwachindunji zakuti ali okwatira. Nchifukwa chiyani mukuyenera kutenga nawo mbali zonsezi ndikulowa m'banja la wina? Pewani amuna omwe amawoneka kuti sakukwanira kwa inu kuyankhulana. N'kutheka kuti akukhala kumbali ina ya galimoto ndikukambirana ndi inu mowa mwauchidakwa. Chinanso - musachedwe kulankhulana.
Sichidzakuthandizani kudziwa munthu. Kumvetsetsa kwathunthu zomwe munthu akufuna, kuona makhalidwe ake, kumva mphamvu zake zikhoza kukhala pokhapokha poyankhula momveka bwino. Choncho, pewani malembo aatali ndipo mukufuna kulembetsa kwa miyezi. Ngati muli ndi chidwi wina ndi mzake, ndiye musinthanitse mafoni ndikupitirizabe kudziŵa zoona. Musaope kuti mukhale woyambitsa msonkhanowo moona, ngati mwamunayo sakupereka msonkhano, muzim'fotokozera za izo. Ngati iye akukana, kukulemberani kuti akusowa malembo aatali, asanasankhe kukana, asiye kulankhula naye ndikuyang'ana amuna ena omwe amafunikira kukhala enieni, osadziwika bwino.