Nchifukwa chiyani mwamuna sakufuna kukula?

Mowonjezereka, pa zokambirana za akazi amakono mukhoza kumva kuti "amuna sali omwe anali kale" kapena oposa, "mwamuna ndi mwana wamkulu". Zifukwa za mayankho osasangalatsa, malinga ndi amayi, zimakhala mwa kukhumba kwa anthu ambiri oimira kugonana kwambiri pofuna kupeza ndalama za banja komanso kupanga zosankha zawo paokha. Ndiyeno funso likubweranso: nchiani chikuchitika ndi amuna amakono? Ndipotu, anthu ambiri omwe amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo (magalimoto, akazi, masewera) ndi khalidwe lawo akhalabe ofanana. N'zotheka kuti yankho ndilo losavuta kumva - ndi ana. Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zingapo za izi. Kukhumba kukula

Sikoyenera kulemba kusakhutira ndi chikhalidwe cholimba pa chifuwa cha amuna. Mwachitsanzo, kusafuna kuthana ndi nkhani zapakhomo (kutsuka mbale, kuyeretsa, etc.) kapena kukonza kungathe kufotokozedwa ndi ulesi wamba kapena wophunzira kale. Komabe, malinga ndi kafukufuku wa akatswiri a zaumoyo ndi akatswiri a maganizo, dziko la munthu likuyamba kufanana ndi kindergarten, kumene amayi amatsogola, ndipo zomwe sakufuna ndipo akuopa kukula.

Moyo wamakono uli ndi zopinga ndi kugwa, kuthana ndi zomwe munthu amakula ndikupita patsogolo. Komabe, makonzedwe ameneŵa amawopsya mamembala ambiri ogonana kwambiri ndi kuuma kwawo, chifukwa chapafupi kuti munthu wamakono azikhala pa ntchito yochepa kwambiri ndipo mwinamwake adzathera, ngati dziko lokhwimitsa silikumukakamiza kuti ayambe kutenga zoopsa ndikukhala ndi udindo pa zosankha zake. Anthu oterowo amakhala mwamsanga n'kukhala olota, mofulumira kusinthasintha chidwi chawo ndi chilakolako chawo kumalo ena, atangoyamba kuwatsatira. Ndipo panthawi ino, mkazi wokondedwa amatenga zonse m'manja mwake, podziwa bwino kuti pambali pake, palibe wina amene angayembekezere.

Akazi okha ndiwo oti azilakwa

Mu chipwirikiti cha kumasulidwa, akazi adalandira zomwe adamenyera kwa zaka zambiri. Chikhumbo chofuna ntchito, mwayi wokhala ndi moyo wanu monga momwe mumakonda ndi kudziimira pazinthu zachuma chinapangitsa kuti pakhale malo ambiri otsalira kugonana. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, kulephera kwa munthu kuti asonyeze utsogoleri mu malo azadongosolo kwachititsa kuti panthawi ya zofooka zake, iwo sakuchititsanso kuyanjana. Zotsatira zake, amayi amalandira munthu wina yemwe sadziwa bwino ntchito komanso pakhomo, amatha kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ndi malipiro ake onse pazomwe akuchita komanso zosangalatsa, momwe amasonyezera ufulu wake wosadziwika.

Izi zakhala

Sizinsinsi kuti makhalidwe ambiri a umunthu wa munthu amatsimikiziridwa ndi dongosolo lomwe linalamulira m'banja lake. Makamaka amadziwika pa chitsanzo chonse chodziwika cha "mwana wa mayi wamwamuna" omwe amayi amasiku ano amafunika kuti azikhala nawo nthawi zambiri. Achinyamata oterewa amakula pakati pa amayi osakwatira ndipo pakakula amangoona mkazi wamphamvu yemwe akufuna kuti ateteze kudziko lozungulira. Ngakhale panthawi imeneyi ya kukula kwa umunthu, mwamuna ayenera kukhala pafupi ndi munthu wam'tsogolo. Koma ichi sichoncho chokhacho chokhacho cha kugonana kwa amuna. M'mabanja amakono, kuoneka kwa mwana kumakhala mochedwa kwambiri, ndipo pamene mwana akufunira mwana, makolo amakonda kumuzungulira ndi chisamaliro chokwanira.

Chifukwa chake, mkaziyo akuyang'anizana ndi funso lakale - chochita chiyani? Ngati munthu wotereyo sakhala wosayanjanitsika nanu, ndiye yankho ndi limodzi - kuphunzitsa. Palibe amene ananena kuti zingakhale zophweka, koma pali njira zambiri zomwe mkazi wanzeru angathetsere vutoli. Mulimonsemo, ndibwino kukumbukira kuti palibe chomwe chimakhalapo kosatha. Posakhalitsa munthu aliyense amakula ndipo nthawi idzaika zonse pamalo ake.