Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena, monga momwe amachitira anthu, buku lophweka limaonedwa kuti ndilo gawo losangalatsa kwambiri mu ubale uliwonse. Choncho, palibe mtsikana amene ayenera kuiwala za luso lokopana. Chinthu chachikulu chimene mnyamatayo anazindikira kuti zonsezi ndizofunikira kwa iye. Nthawi zina kumangokhalirana kukondana pamalo amodzi kapena kumudziwa ndi mwamuna osati amayi onse. Ena mwa chiwerewere chabwino ndi opambana kwambiri kupatsidwa mafilimu ndi mwamuna, zomwe zimayesetseratu kukuphunzitsani lero.
Chikondi chosangalatsa
Chikondi, pamalo oyamba, chiyenera kukhala maziko a kukondana ndi mwamuna. Inde, kuyamba masewera achikondi ndi mwamuna kumbali ina ya chowunika ndi mawu akuti "Ndimakukondani!" Sizothandiza. Ikani zonse pambali ndikuyamba zosavuta ndipo musakakamize kulemba makalata ndi munthu amene mumamukonda. Mukulankhulana kotereku muyenera kukhala ndi mayamiko, zowonongeka ndi zina zosiyana pa gawo loyamba la chiyanjano. Chinthu chachikulu sichikugwedeza ndodo, chifukwa cha chiyamiko ndi chikondi ndizochepa.
Zobisika za nkhaniyo
Kodi mumatsimikiza kuti mudzakumana ndi "moyo weniweni", osadandaula za "kodi adzakuitanani?" Ndipo amatsimikiza kuti sangakwatire. Koma, ngakhale zonsezi, kumbukirani kuti ubale weniweni m'tsogolomu uyenera kumangidwanso pavumbulutso (m'mawu onse a mawu). Pachifukwa ichi, pang'onopang'ono muyenera kumasulira flirt yanu mu mawonekedwe enieni. Zowopsa pa nkhaniyi zikuwoneka zopanda pake, makamaka osakhala ndi mantha kuti choyamba kuchokera kwa inu poyamba sichidzapeza yankho lake kuchokera kumbali yamwamuna. Kuti mukhale olimba mtima mutchule "nthabwala zenizeni" ndikuponyera pazomwe mumajambula zithunzi zomwe mwajambula mu swimsuit. Ndikhulupilireni, kukonda kwamtundu umenewu kumapindulitsa kwambiri kuposa mitima ya pinki ndi zinyama zazing'ono zojambula zithunzizo.
Popanda kupitirira
Amuna samvetsetsa mauthenga osasangalatsa, chifukwa kuti kugonana kwakukulu, chifukwa cha luntha lawo, ndi kovuta kusintha kuchokera ku zokambirana za ndale kupita ku nkhani yokhudza zovala zamkati, makamaka ngati munthuyo akuyankhula ndi inu kuchokera ku kompyuta. Koma chinthu ngati "zovuta" sizikutanthauza kuti izi siziyenera kuchitika, chifukwa kukwatulidwa kumalo ogwira ntchito, omwe ali ndi mithunzi yotsutsa ndi yobisika, mphepo zambiri. Inde, apa ndikofunikira kutsatira ndondomeko zomwe zakhazikitsidwa kuti musayikitse chinthu chanu chokongoletsera kukhala chosasangalatsa. Musatumize ma e-mail khumi pa e-mail yogwira ntchito ndi mawu akuti "Ndiwe wokoma kwambiri ..."
Gawo ndi sitepe
Kuonera masewera olimbitsa thupi kumafunika kuyamba pang'onopang'ono, kusiya zochititsa chidwi kwambiri kuti zitheke. Mukhoza kuyambitsa masewerawa ndi mauthenga achikondi osakondana ndi kusungunuka, kenako muzitha kujambula chithunzi pamsampha wothamanga, ndipo kumapeto kwa tsikulo munthu wamwamuna amene akuwotcha amvereni zachabechabechabe (ngati inu mukufuna kuti mupitirizebe). Nthawi yomalizira "yeniyeni" iyenera kukhala yolimbikitsana kwambiri, choncho ndi koyenera kukonzekera pasadakhale, poganizira maonekedwe anu ndi tsatanetsatane. Pogwiritsa ntchito njirayi, musiye kugonana ndi mwamuna wina pamsonkhano weniweni sichiyenera, chifukwa ndinu mkazi yemwe amadziwika "kusewera ndi mwamuna."
Bokosi la zokambirana
Kugonana kaŵirikaŵiri ndikulankhulana pakati pa anthu awiri, kutamandidwa ndi mauthenga "mwachindunji chimodzi" m'kupita kwanthawi kumakhala kosasangalatsa. Pachifukwa ichi, akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangizira kuti azitha kuchita nawo mauthenga otseguka, omwe ali ndi funso lachindunji ndipo amafuna kupitiliza kukambirana. Ngati mayankho a amunawa ndi ochepa komanso ouma, musakwiyitse - nthawi zina mwamuna ndi wovuta pochita ndi mkazi kuti amadzimangenso mwachikondi. Musangoima theka la njira ndikumupatsa munthuyo mwayi wakuyankha funsolo, osati kumuwonetsa ndi mauthenga. Pa mbali yanu, muyenera kuyankha mwanjira youziridwa ndi mayankho.
Ndipo potsiriza, mauthenga anu achikondi sayenera kumuponyera munthu, mwinamwake kutuluka kwa malingaliro kungathe kutopa. Inde, ndi zabwino kwambiri kuyembekezera yankho kuchokera kwa munthu mwiniwake, mmalo mokakamiza!