Mmene mungachitire ngati mukudzifunsa nthawi zonse: bwanji ngati sindikudziwa momwe ndingalankhulire ndi anyamata, wamanyazi kwambiri? Choyamba, musayambe kuopa vuto lanu ndi kuchita manyazi pamaso pawo. Ndipotu, palinso asungwana ambiri omwe amadzichepetsa kwambiri omwe amangochita zinthu zomwe palibe wina amene ali ndi chidziwitso cha khalidwe lawo komanso maonekedwe awo. Mutha kukhalanso ngati choncho, muyenera kungoganiziranso makhalidwe anu ndi maonekedwe anu.
Kotero, inu musamawope konse anyamata. Kawirikawiri, musawope anthu. Ndipotu, ife anthu sitiri kutali ndi agalu. Pamene wina amamva mantha a nyama kwa anthu athu osakumbukira, timayamba kumva ngati mafumu, ndipo timadzimvera chisoni kapena kumanyoza munthu mosadziŵa, kuti apitirize kutisangalatsa. Choncho, musalole kuti anthu adziwonetse okha ndikudziyesa nokha. Inu simuli oipitsitsa kuposa onse, ndipo, mwinamwake, ndibwinoko. Ganizirani chifukwa chake munthu samakukondani ndipo amafuna kukukhumudwitsa, mwinamwake ndi nsanje chabe.
Kumbukirani nthawi zonse kuti achinyamata amakonda kudzidalira, koma osati kudzidalira. Choncho, khalani mwachibadwa mu makampani atsopano. Susowa kuti muzisintha zomwe sakufuna, kuti asakonde kukumverani. M'malo mwake, kambiranani nawo ngati kuti mukudziwa kuti mu maola ochepa iwo adzalumikizidwa kale kapena kuitana bwenzi lanu.
Munthu aliyense ali ndi chizoloŵezi chochita zinthu, zomwe ndizopadera "chip", zomwe zimathandiza kupambana anthu. Kwa wina, chisangalalo ichi, kwa malingaliro ena, ndi chisomo chachitatu. Palibe chofunikira kwambiri mu mtundu wotani umene udzakhale. Tangoganizani mosamala za abwenzi ndi achibale anu omwe amakukondani kwambiri, chifukwa ndi makhalidwe otani omwe amatamandidwa ndipo nthawi zonse amamasulidwa. Ndizo ndipo zimayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati chida chenicheni. Limbikitsani khalidwe ili kwa anzanu atsopano ndi anyamata, kulimbitsa, ndipo, m'kupita kwanthawi, mukumvetsa kuti wakhala skate yanu.
Zifukwa za msungwanayo akufunsa mafunso monga momwe angachitire, ngati sindikudziwa momwe angayankhulire ndi anyamata amanyazi, nthawi zambiri amasiya maphunziro a amuna, omwe amachititsa kuti athe kuyanjana ndi amuna. Atsikana ambiri omwe anakulira m'mabanja omwe ali kholo limodzi ndipo amaleredwa ndi amayi awo ndi agogo awo sadziwa zomwe angayankhule ndi anyamata, momwe angachitire. Iwo samamvetsa bwino oimira amuna, omwe ndi ochititsa manyazi, oopa kunena chinachake cholakwika. Kuonjezera apo, iwo akhoza kukhala ndi zosautsa m'mitima yawo kuyambira ali mwana ndi unyamata, pamene anyamatawo adawakhumudwitsa ndikuwachititsa manyazi.
Zonsezi ziyenera kuiwalika kamodzi ndi zonse. Ana ndi achiwawa, choncho samayesa kumvetsa anzawo. Koma nthawi zimenezo zatha. Mwamuna wamba sangamuvulaze mtsikana. Ngati amachitanso chimodzimodzi, zikutanthauza kuti mwamuna kapena mwamuna samayenera kutchulidwa, komanso, apitirize kulankhula naye.
Anthu wamba amatha kukuthokozani ndi nzeru zawo komanso zosangalatsa. Choncho musaiwale za makhalidwe awa pamene mutayankhulana ndi wina. Ngati mtsikana akuyang'ana pansi ndikuyesera kunena chinachake, ngakhale anthu abwino komanso abwinobwino sangathe kuima ndi azimayi oterewa. Anthu omwe sadziwa momwe angalankhulire amakwiya, chifukwa zikuwoneka kuti sakondwera ndi kampaniyo, ndipo amachitira ena ulemu.
Choncho, yesani kuiwala za mantha. Zoonadi, poyamba sizingakhale zophweka, koma muyenera kusonkhanitsa zonse kuti zikhale nkhonya ndikudzikakamiza kuti musiye mantha ndi kukayikira. Khalani nokha, monga momwe muliri pafupi kwambiri. Musagwedezeke, musamachepetse mutu wanu, musadzipangire nokha kukhala wosasangalala, amene akudikirira, pamene nkhwangwa imagwa pamutu pake. Inde, simukusowa kudzidalira nokha komanso kunyada, makamaka ngati chithunzichi sichikugwirizana ndi inu. Yesetsani kukhala wochepetsetsa m'zinthu zonse ndikuzindikira zoona. M'makampani ambiri mulibe umunthu wokondweretsa kwambiri amene angakhumudwitse mawu. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti ena onse adzakhala ofanana. Choncho, poyamba pomwe, yesetsani kulemekeza wolakwayo. Zidzatenga nthawi pang'ono, ndipo mudzaphunzira momwe mungayankhire bwino komanso mwachikhalidwe. Mungofunika kukhulupirira nokha pang'ono. Chikhulupilirochi chidzayamba kukupatsani anthu omwe adzalumikiza, kuyamba kuyankhulana ndi kukhala mabwenzi anu. Ngati mutha kukonda anzanu atsopano, posachedwa, adzakhaladi abwenzi anu. Koma chifukwa cha ichi simukuyenera kuchita nawo, koma kukhala weniweni ndi wachirengedwe.
Komanso, atsikana ambiri amatha chifukwa cha maonekedwe awo. Izi zingakonzedwenso. Azimayi osauka salipo, ena samadziwa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito zoumba zawo. Kuti mudzidzimvere nokha, yesani kusintha zovala zanu, tsitsi lanu ndi zodzoladzola. Sankhani ndondomeko yomwe ingabise chirichonse chomwe simukuchikonda ndikugogomezera zabwino. Kuphatikizanso apo, mukhoza kuchita masewera, kulembetsa masewera, mwachizolowezi, ganizirani phunziro lomwe lingakhudze deta yanu yakunja ndi luso, ndikubweretsanso chimwemwe.
Yankho la funso: "Chochita. Ngati sindikudziwa momwe ndingayankhulire ndi anyamata: wamanyazi "amabisika mwachindunji mwa inu nokha. Mkazi aliyense ali ndi chochita ndi amuna. Wina wokondwa, wina woganiza, wina ndi pulasitiki. Musayang'ane chisankho chokha choyenera ndikupanga dona wanu chizindikiro. Kumbukirani kuti ndinuwekha, choncho khalidwe lanu liyenera kukhala lapadera komanso lapadera. Ngati mumakopeka ndi munthu wina, mudzangoseka komanso kudodometsa. Sitiyenera kuopa nokha. Ndinu munthu wanzeru, wachifundo, wodabwitsa, wokondweretsa. Mwa inu, nthawizonse mumakhala chinthu chimene ena angachikonde, makamaka makamaka anyamata. Ingophunzira kusonyeza, popanda kukayikira kapena mantha. Ndiyeno, m'kupita kwa nthawi, mantha ndi manyazi zikhoza kuiwalika, ndipo abambo adzawona mwa iwe mtsikana wokongola komanso wodalirika.