Kwa oyamba kumene, pali msampha wosasangalatsa kwambiri, pamene mnzanuyo akuwona chikondi, monga chiyambi cha ubwenzi wolimba, wofunitsitsa kupitiliza. Pofuna kupewa zolakwa zina ndi zina, munthu sayenera kunyalanyaza malamulo a oyamba kumene kutentha. Kotero, mu kulingalira kophweka, malamulo a yotentha yotentha spa ndi awa.
Zokongola momwe zikhoza kuwonekera, kuchuluka kwa kuwona mtima. Palibe malingaliro. Bukuli limayamba ndikutha apa: pansi pa mlengalenga, mu mafunde othamanga, pamtunda wa mchenga kapena pamphepete mwa nyanja. Ngati mukuganiza mosiyana, ndiye kuti mumakhala spa poacher kapena idiot (idiot). Kugonana kwakukulu pa gombe losangalatsa, ndithudi, kungayambe, koma, choyamba, izi zimachitika kawirikawiri, ndipo, kachiwiri, timakambirana malamulo a otsegula otentha otentha ndi zina.
Choncho, lamulo loyamba la buku loyambitsa moto la oyamba kumene: nthawi ya buku = nthawi yopuma pa malo.
Lamulo lachiwiri likutsatira kuyambira loyambirira: kukhulupirika kokwanira. Musachotse ndi kubisa mphete zaukwati. M'malo mwake, tikulimbikitsidwa kuvala iwo ngakhale osakwatira kapena osakwatiwa, akusowa nthano yotentha ya spa. Ndipo ichi, mwinamwake, ndicho chinyengo chokha chomwe chikulandiridwa pa nkhaniyi. Nthawi pa tchuthi ndi yoperewera ndipo ndi zopusa kuti tipewe nthawi pa chisankho chosasinthika.
Choncho ulamuliro wachitatu: simungakhale pansi. Mukufuna kuyendetsa chibwenzi chofunafuna munthu woyenera yemwe angamvetsetse cholinga chanu chokhala ndi nthawi yosangalatsa komanso yosangalala komanso yemwe akufuna. Mukhoza kuchichita paliponse pali anthu ambiri: pamphepete mwa nyanja, disco, paki yosangalatsa, ndi zina zotero.
Ulamuliro wachinayi ukulamulidwa ndi zovuta zenizeni za nthawi yathu: muyenera kutsimikiza kuti mnzanuyo sangakupatse "mphatso" yosasangalatsa. Eya, ngati onse awiri omwe ali nawo mu bukhuli amamvetsetsa nthawi yovuta kwambiri ndipo akhoza kupereka chitsimikizo choyenera, komabe chitetezo chogonana ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera kugonana. Komanso, zidzakuthandizani kupewa zotsatira zina zoipa. Kwa oyamba, iyi ndi lamulo lofunika kwambiri.
Ulamuliro wachisanu: Chikondi cha tchuthi sichifuna kudziwa bwino za munthu. Simukufunikira kudziwa ndondomeko ya moyo wa mnzanuyo, komanso sakusowa mavumbulutso anu ku chirichonse. Ngakhale, ngati mukufuna kulankhula - chifuniro chanu, koma ngati mnzanu (bwenzi) akufuna kukumverani.
Kukondana kwa tchuthi sikukuphatikizapo kupitiriza. Ndipo moyo wanu wa tsiku ndi tsiku suyenera kusokoneza nthawi ya holide yopuma. Kuchokera ku buku la holide liyenera kukhalabe kukumbukira bwino kwambiri, ndikukumbukira. Zili ngati kuti "padakali masiku atatu ndi usiku usana", koma banja lonse likudikirira kunyumba ndipo zonse zidzakhalabe m'malo, ndipo buku la malo osungiramo malo lidzakhala gawo lapadera mu moyo wa mwamuna ndi mkazi. "Chigawo" - ndipo palibe, "wokongola" - ndipo osachepera. Chilichonse chinali chokoma, koma pokhapokha, m'mlengalenga osasokonezeka, kumapangitsa kukhala ndi malingaliro a chikondwerero chosatha.
Kotero, ngati mukufuna kuti zonse zipite ku malo osungiramo malo, musanyalanyaze malamulo a oyamba oyamba otentha komanso zonse zidzakhala zabwino kwa inu. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kudziwa zomwe mukufuna, ndiyeno padzakhala mwayi weniweni wopindulira zomwe mukufuna.