Osati zachilendo, koma ndi chidziwitso cha mkazi yemwe amatembenuza zogonana zamphamvu zambiri ku zomwe zikuchitika. Ndipotu, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti abambo amvetse zomwe mkazi amafuna komanso zomwe akuyembekeza. Choncho, ife amayi nthawi zonse timafuna kuti tizitsatira zokhudzana ndi zilakolako zathu zobisika, ndipo izi, zowunikira, ziyenera kuwonetsa mndandanda wa yankho lenileni la funsoli: "Mmene mungapezere zomwe amayi akufuna? ".
Eya, musanene izi, koma nthawi zonse tikhoza kumusinkhasinkha munthu. Makamaka ngati zikhumbo zathu zikugwirizana ndi moyo wapamtima, apa, ndiye, basi, chirichonse chimagawidwa kuchokera pachiyambi mpaka kumapeto. Pano ife tiri, kawirikawiri, ndipo timayambitsa wokondedwa wathu polakwika. Pamene akunena: "Tikufuna, koma takhala chete! ". Kotero, tiyeni tonse tipatuke, ndipo yesetsani kupeza zomwe tikufuna ndi zomwe timakonda kukhala chete.
Inde, amayi ambiri amakonda chikondi ndi chikondi pa nthawi yogonana ndipo izi ziyenera kuganiziridwa nthawi zonse. Zowonjezera, izi ndi chifukwa chakuti chikhumbo chathu chogonana ndi chofooka kwambiri kuposa chachimuna. Choncho, pa kugonana, timayamikila chiyambi, osati njirayi. Koma, mwatsoka, sikuti anthu onse amatha kuzindikira kuti mkazi aliyense, koposa zonse, akufuna "kutenthetsa" osati kugonana msanga. Choncho, monga lamulo, ndi kusamvetsetsana konse. Tili chete ponena za mau aulemu omwe timakonda kwambiri. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ndikufuna kuti ndizindikire apa kuti amayi akufunikanso kuchotsa mfundo za zokondweretsa, ndikuuza wokondedwa wawo zomwe akufunadi ndi zomwe akunena "okondedwa" akumverera kwa iye. Ndipo iye, motero, ayenera kuchita mogwirizana ndi "malamulo athu a masewera".
Ndife akazi, popeza palibe amene akudziwa kuti pofuna kukondweretsa kwambiri, timangofuna kukondana, zomwe zimaphatikizapo maluwa, chakudya chamakandulo ndi zina zotero. Pambuyo pake, mmodzi wa ife sagwirizana kuti mwamuna yemwe ali ndi maluwa a roses ndi pempho la awiri ku malo odyera okwera mtengo amakhala bwino kwambiri pozindikira kuti ali ndi chidziwitso chathu kuposa mnyamata yemwe ali ndi chilakolako chachikulu ndikuyesera mwanjira inayake kuwonetsa vuto ndi chokoleti ndi vinyo wotsika mtengo. Ngakhale, ndithudi, ife sitidali odzikonda monga momwe zikuwonekera poyamba. Pambuyo ponse pa ife pamaganizo ndi machitidwe oyambirira. Koma bwanji osapotoza, koma zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri pamene mutaya mutu chifukwa cha inu, ndipo ntchito zomwe zimachitidwa pofuna kulemekeza dzina lanu zimadutsa mbali iliyonse ya zomwe zimaloledwa.
Ngakhale, kuwonjezera pa chizoloŵezi chonse cha chikondi ndi kukangana, akazi amafuna pang'ono. Tangoganizirani chimene mkaziyo akufuna kwambiri, tidzayesa.
Kulimbikira kwa munthu sizowonongeka .
Kodi ndinganene chiyani, amuna olimbikira asintha m'nthawi yathu ino? Ndipo kawirikawiri, "ayi" yathu, yomwe imabisa "inde", amazindikira kwenikweni. Ndipo kusagwirizana kwa amuna, mpaka lero, kunangowonjezera chikhalidwe chonse cha amuna. Muyenera kuyembekezera mwezi woposa umodzi, pamene adakulitanani pa tsiku kapena kungoyendayenda paki. Kapena ayi, ngati mungasankhe, mumangopsompsona pamilomo, ndipo mumapita pa tsaya. Nthawi yokondweretsa nthawi zonse ya munthu wamakono. Kotero tiyenera "kutenga ng'ombe ndi nyanga". Zoona, kuchokera kumbali ya mwamuna, izi sizikuwoneka nthawi zonse ndi mantha.
Kugonana, monga njira yodziwonetsera nokha .
Mwa njira, ifenso timakonda kuyesa kugonana, koma, apa sitimudziwitsa munthuyo za izo. Pano muli ndi pulogalamu yomwe ili ndi zikhumbo zambiri zachikazi zosadziwika. Ndipo, zikuwoneka kuti ndi bwino kuvomereza kwa wokondedwa mu izi kapena kukanikiza pang'ono ku "njira yeniyeni". Amuna, pamene tikukumbukira kuti sizinali zovuta kupita ndi ife.
Kupsompsona, monga njira yaikulu yosonyezera malingaliro .
Sizodabwitsa, koma akazi amangokonda kupsopsona. Njira iyi kwa ife ngakhale ikhoza kutenga malo okhaokha. Kotero, kuchokera kumpsompsona komwe, ife timakhala okondwa mofanana ndi chiwonongeko. Kuwonjezera apo, kupsompsonana kosavuta ndi kosalekeza ndi njira yoyamba yokha yofotokozera malingaliro omwe angalowe m'malo mwa mawu onse. Kotero, ngati munthu amadziwa bwino machenjerero a kugompsona, zimatanthauza zambiri kwa ife, ndipo iye, ndizotheka kuti tigonjetse mtima wathu.
Munthu woganizira - chinsinsi cha ubale wabwino .
Pa ntchito iliyonse, mayi nthawi zonse amayesa kuyang'ana "zana limodzi": kupanga, zovala, manicure, tsitsi ngakhale zovala, chirichonse chiyenera kufanana ndi mafashoni ndi kukoma kokoma. Koma si abambo onse omwe angathe kuzindikira izi mokwanira. Ndipo kwa ife, chidwi chake, chomwe chimapereka chitamando, chimatanthauza zambiri. Choncho, munthu woganizira amatha kusinthana ndi munthu wina wamakhalidwe ndi wolemera kuti ayamikiridwe.
Munthu wodandaula - mdani wa kugonana bwino .
Ngati mwamuna amangokhalira kudandaula ndi kukhumudwitsa anthu - apa ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti munthu woteroyo amalepheretsa chilakolako chathu chogonana. Ndipotu, nthawi zonse timafuna mtendere ndi chitukuko m'zonse. Choncho, kuti musayambe kugonana, mwinamwake munthuyo mwiniyo alibe chidziwitso. Ndipo kugwirizana kwathunthu ndi kumvetsetsa mu maubwenzi nthawi zonse ndi chikhumbo chachikulu cha mkazi ndi mtsikana aliyense. Ndicho chifukwa cha izi, kuti zokhumba zathu zikhale zodzaza ndi chilakolako nthawi zonse, ifenso tifunika kusankha anyamata awo.
Izi ndi momwe mndandanda wa zofunikira zathu zikuwonekera, zomwe timayesa pachabe kuyesa fanizo la munthu woyenera. Choncho, sizingakhale zovuta kupeza chomwe mkazi akufuna. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusonyeza malingaliro pang'ono ndi wit. Ndipo kuwonjezera pa chirichonse, ife, amai, sitiyenera kukazengereza kunena nokha za zikhumbo zanu, ndipo zidzabweretsa mgwirizano, kumvetsetsa ndi kuyanjana pa chiyanjano chanu. Ndipo mwachidule, tiyeni tiwerenge nkhaniyi kwa wokondedwa wanu, msiyeni aganizire za zolakwitsa zake.