Kusiyanasiyana kwa dziko ndi anthu.
Dziko lathu lapansi liri ndi anthu angapo bilioni, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, chosiyana! Zonse kunja ndi mkati, zonse mwa njira yoganiza ndi malingaliro a dziko lonse. Ngati mumakonda nyimbo ndikudziwonera nokha pamasewero akuyang'ana pamaso pa omvera ambiri, sizikutanthauza kuti mwana wanu ayenera kukonda nyimbo ndi kuimba. Munthu amene adaponda phazi ndipo sadapepesane, sizingatheke bwanji, mungaganize bwanji. Zonsezi zikutanthauza kuti anthu otizungulira ndi osiyana, amayang'ana zinthu mwa njira yawo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti anthu amafunika kuzindikira momwe iwo aliri, osati kuti azifuna kuti akhale monga inu. Musayese kubwezera mwana wanu kapena mwamuna wanu, musati mulole maganizo anu, ngati oona okha. "Sindidzachita zimenezo!" Kodi ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu. Musabwereze!
Ndipo tikulimbana ndi chiyani?
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa ndikumvetsa zomwe mukulimbana ndi kuteteza ufulu wanu. Ngati mumakhulupirira kuti mwamuna ayenera kukhala wolimba kwambiri ndi wolemera, ndipo mnzako sagwirizana ndi ziyembekezo zanu, zomwe zimatchedwa kuti mfundo yolingalira zilipo. Izi ndi pamene, mumagwirizanitsa kwambiri ndi chinachake, ndipo ngati simulandira, ndiye kuti mumakhumudwa. Pamene chikhalidwe cha chikondi chikudutsa, ndipo muwona kuti munthu yemwe ali pafupi ndi inu "sali wolimba wa buku lanu", amayamba kukwiyitsa ndi kukukwiyitsani. Kuwona tsiku ndi tsiku kumayamba: "Simukufuna", "Simukuchita kanthu" ndi zina zotero.
Musapange malingaliro, kumanga mpweya. Chowonadi chiri kutali ndi dziko la malingaliro anu. Ngati izi zikumveka, ndiye kuti simudzaphedwa pazinthu zomwe simukuzidziwa. Landirani ndi kukhululukira munthu chifukwa chosakhala chomwe mumamuwona pamutu mwanu ndi ntchito yovuta, koma ngati mutachikonza, mudzachita zambiri pakuganiza bwino. Kodi mukuganiza kuti izi sizigwira ntchito? Ndipo mudzakhumudwa chifukwa cha kulephera kwa mwamuna kuntchito kapena kumimba kwake? Ndipo mumayesa ndikutsimikiza!
Ubale ndi okondedwa.
Ndikofunika kuti munthu aliyense adziwe ndi kumvetsetsa kuti pali anthu omwe ali pafupi naye omwe amavomereza, kumvetsetsa ndi kumuthandiza pazochitika zilizonse, mosasamala kanthu za zomwe wachita. Ngati muli ndi kusamvana kapena kutsutsana ndi achibale anu, pezani chifukwa ndi kuthetsa! Ganizirani, mwinamwake inu mukuyesera kuti mumubweretsenso munthu kachiwiri, koma kodi iye amakana izo? Kapena kodi muli ndi malingaliro a zochita zake, malingaliro ake, maonekedwe ake? Ndikofunika kupepesa ndikusintha chitsanzo cha khalidwe lanu kuti mukhale ochepetsetsa komanso omvera.
Moyo ndi masewera!
Kondwerani tsiku lililonse, kondwerani ndi zinthu zosavuta, yang'anani dziko mobwerezabwereza ndipo adzakuyankhani chimodzimodzi! Musakwiyitse ndikugwera mu kusimidwa kwakukulu chifukwa cha mavuto, iwo adzadutsa ndipo chirichonse chidzagwira ntchito!
Zowonongeka, kufotokoza ubale, kuyankhulana sikubweretsere njira yothetsera, amachotsa mphamvu zambiri, zabwino. Chifukwa cha kusinthasintha, mumapeza zolakwika komanso zokhumudwitsa. Yesetsani kusamala kwambiri mawu omwe amalankhula mu mkwiyo. Tangoganizirani kuti muli mu kanema kanema ndipo muwonere kanema yoipa. Musati mutenge nokha mavuto anu ndi nkhawa zanu. Iwo sali oyenera!
Kukhala ndi maganizo abwino, kusangalala, kuyang'ana mwachidwi kwa mtsogolo kudzakuthandizani kukhala munthu wokondana ndi wokondweretsa m'banja lanu, kuntchito, pakati pa anzako, abwenzi ndi achibale.