Muzaka zapakati pa makumi asanu ndi anai, pamene zinthu zambiri zowonongeka sizinatheke, ndipo zidasinthidwa ndi milandu yapadera yokhudza mafashoni, psychology, aesthetics, komanso dziko lamkati la anthu, maukwati osayenerera anayamba kulowa mu mafashoni, ndi utsogoleri ukutenga «Wokonda Amalonda». Nthawi inali yapadera, ndipo ndani adakhoza "kupukuta" naye pamlendo, adakhalanso pansi kapena "amakhala" pamsasa. Ndipo momwe zinalili zogwiritsira ntchito atsikana pansi pa "vodka" ndi abwenzi, pokambirana za okondedwa achichepere atsopano.
Pakadali pano, ukwati wosalinganizana, mkazi wachikulire ndi ntchito yamakhalidwe abwino kuposa "mafashoni." Atsikana amasiku ano amabadwa ndi pulogalamu pamutu: kumaliza sukulu ya sekondale, kulandira maphunziro enieni, ntchito yoyenera, ntchito yolipidwa kwambiri. Kukhala wodziimira komanso wodziimira - credo, motto, komanso moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndikuti, kuti akwatire pano? Mulole ena, ngakhale osagwirizana?
Pa mpikisano wopambana, nthawi sichikwanira kusankha wokondedwa wabwino: wanzeru ndi wokoma mtima, wathanzi ndi wamphamvu, woyenera iwe ndi msinkhu, ndi malingaliro pa tsogolo lanu, zonse zomwe amayi athu analota muunyamata wawo.
Amayi amasiku ano amathera nthawi yochuluka pa kudzizindikira, ndipo pamene nthawi yatayika mumatembenuka, zonsezi zatsopano ndi zogwira mtima, ndiye mumawona ndani? Anyamata achichepere komanso okongola, opanda chitetezo monga inu nokha zaka 20 zapitazo, ndipo mukufuna kuwabisa, kuwawotcha, kuwaphunzitsa malamulo a moyo. Ndipo pamene muyamba kumvetsetsa kuti mukuzoloŵera, mumakonza ukwati wosagwirizana. Muukwati, pamene mkazi ali wamkulu kuposa mwamuna, nthawi zambiri kuposa ubale uli ngati mayi, sikuti aliyense angakwanitse kuoneka ngati Demi Moore. Ndipo kawirikawiri, maubwenzi amamangidwa pa phindu limodzi: ndinu malo anga ndi maubwenzi, ndikukupatsani ubwana wanga.
Uchinyamata wake ndimene iwe umasowa, kulandira, kumanga ndi kuswa. Kwa zaka zambiri zatsimikiziridwa ndi ogwira ntchito za kugonana kuti mkazi wachikondi akuyamba kukhala wamng'ono. Mkazi wachikondi yemwe ali ndi mgwirizano wosagwirizana: Kugwirizana ndi mwana wake wamng'ono kumaphatikizapo kuyesayesa maganizo ndi thupi, ndipo ngati mapetowa ndi opindulitsa kwa thupi (thanzi, yoga, kukonzanso njira), ndiye choyamba sichinali nthawi zonse. M'mabanja ambiri osalinganika, amayi omwe "amatsitsimutsidwa" nthawi zina amanyansidwa komanso osakayikira kukopera zofuna zawo, koma ngati moyo wotere umagwirizanitsa onsewo, ndiye kuti tidzasangalala nawo. Koma nthawi yomwe "akazi" oterewa akutulutsidwa kunja kwa "zopanda phindu", atalandira kuchokera kwa iwo okhumba, amapatsidwa kuti apulumutse osati aliyense. Khala ndi mantha nthawi zonse kuti iwe udzaponyedwa, umve ngati "sub-prime" ndi wothandizira - osati kusankha bwino kwa kalembedwe lanu ndi moyo waufupi kwambiri.
Chofunika kwambiri ndi kudziwa kuti ndinu wokwanira komanso wokondedwa! Thupi labwino ndi labwino komanso losangalatsa, osati loipitsitsa, chifukwa nthawi zonse mumoyo muli chinthu cholimbana nacho! Ndipo ngati mwadzidzidzi mwapwetekedwa, ndiye kuti munadzipanga nokha, yesani kuchita zolakwitsa zanu, pangani ntchito, mudzipange nokha bwino, pangani maukwati osagwirizana ndikukambirana mu sauna ndi abwenzi omwe ali ndi vodka: opaleshoni ya pulasitiki ku German, hotelo yatsopano ku Bali ndi mtundu wanji wa makina omwe munapereka pa tsiku la kubadwa kwa 25 kwa mwamuna wake wamng'ono. Chinthu chachikulu chomwe mudakondwera nacho!