Kuntchito
Masiku ano, maubwenzi kuntchito saganiziridwa kuti ndi chinthu chosiyana. Inde, simuyenera kulengeza. Mu ubale ndi anzanu kuntchito anthu amathamanga kawirikawiri. Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri timagwiritsa ntchito zonse kumeneko, ndipo madzulo palibe chikondi chilichonse cha kaloti, ambiri a iwo, atabwera kunyumba, amagona. Ndipo mu nthawi yambiri yamalonda ife tiri mu ofesi. Ndikuponyera "makina ndi ogwira ntchito foni" m'manja mwa alembi achinyamata, abambo ogonana ndi anthu oyandikana nawo mu chipinda chosuta. Ichi ndi chiwonetsero chapadera. Onse awiriwa amafufuza bwino momwe angakhalire ndi maubwenzi oterewa ndipo sangathe kulankhulana ndi wina aliyense. Kugonana koteroko sikungokhala kosavuta kokha komanso kumayambitsanso. Kulankhulana kwa mau, ndithudi, - ali ndi thupi lokwanira. Ngakhale chikondi cha chikondi chingakokera kwa miyezi yambiri, ngakhale zaka. Uwu ndiwo mtundu wotsutsa - komanso wochokera kwa wina aliyense wopuma, komanso kuchokera kuntchito yosangalatsa.
M'nyumbayi
Mwatsoka, si banja lirilonse lingathe kuthetsa limodzi. Wina samasulidwa kuntchito, wina pamzimu salekerera mnzake wokondedwa kwambiri India kapena dzuwa lakuwotcha la Aigupto. Ndipo mabanja ena amakhulupirira kuti holide yosiyana imalimbikitsa maubwenzi ndipo amawapangitsa kukhala osiyana kwambiri. Koma mfundoyi imakhalabe - tchuthi losiyana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi kapena ambiri silingaganizedwe kuti silochilendo, motero, dzuwa lowala ndi okonda mchenga amasangalala nawo mosiyana. Ndipo apo, kumbali zosiyana za dziko lapansi, mahomoni onse awiri ayamba kutenga zawo zokha. Pa nthawi yomweyi, mau amkati amatha kupumula kapena kuyamba kutaya masaya: chitani, palibe amene angadziwe. Ndipo pambuyo pa zonse, chodabwitsa, chinthu chokhumba chiri chophweka, ndipo chilakolako chiri pafupi nthawi zonse. Akazi ochokera ku maubwenzi oterewa ndi "kuthamanga" -pamene mungathe kupeza malo osungiramo malonda ndi maubwenzi kwa sabata? Ndipo amuna amakondwera ndi zokonzeka zokhazokha za anthu okhala mumatawuni osungiramo alendo kapena alendo omwewo ndikuyang'ana chikondi chakumudzi. Monga lamulo, mu ubale wotere aliyense amapeza zomwe akufuna. Ndipotu simukusowa kuganizira zam'tsogolo, makamaka osayesa - patatha masiku angapo nkhani yokhudzana ndi chiwerewere idzatha, ndipo okwatirana adzauluka panyumba, aliyense kuchokera ku continent - kukakomana ndi kukonza kugonana kotereku kuti aliyense amve mosamala za kumene amalandila atsopano ambiri amachokera. Mwa njira, kwa akazi, mafilimu achikondi nthawi zambiri amathera bwino - ngati mutenga mutu wa okongola otentha kumidzi, ndiye kuti musatuluke, musamulembere kalata makalata ochepa ndipo muzidzizunza nokha ndi lingaliro "chifukwa chiyani sanabwererenso." Ndiyeno mukutsatira mwambo wotsutsa mungathe kuwononga ubale wamphamvu. Ndipo mwamuna wanga wokondedwa. Siyani pang'ono. Lembani pang'ono. Koma okondedwa.
Chiwonetsero Chabwino
Kodi munayamba mwawerengapo makalata a wina? Mbiri ya mauthenga ku ICQ? Kapena ma-e-mail? Komanso sikofunika. Ndilapa, ndine wochimwa. Nthawi iliyonse ndikadzilonjeza ndekha kuti ndilemekeze moyo wa mnzanga. Ndipo nthawi iliyonse ndikaduka. Kompyutala ilipo, wokonda sali kunyumba, mapulogalamu onse ali m'manja mwanu. Tsegulani. Eya, mumakonda. Pa mavuto a kuntchito? Sokonezani inu pang'ono lero. Ndipo ichi ndi chiani? Phew, ndi chonyansa chotani. Mipata yotereyi - SMS, mauthenga apakompyuta, mauthenga ochuluka a kugonana ndi zinthu zina zamagetsi. Chiwembucho ndi chosavuta: pitani, mubwere ndi dzina lotchuka ndipo muyambe kuyankhulana. Mukhoza kuyika chithunzi - poerotichnee yambiri, ndi zovala zochepa. Amuna amadziwonetsera mosavuta kwa abwenzi enieni mu ulemerero wake wonse, koma atsikana omwe ali mu dongosololi amakhala ochita mantha kwambiri. Zojambula zamagetsi zamasewero siziwonetsa nthawi yomweyo, kuchedwa nthawi ino. Ambiri a iwo amatumiziranso chithunzi kuchokera pa intaneti kupita kwa ovomerezeka mmalo mwa chithunzi chawo (zoona, zithunzi za anthu otchuka sizinali mafashoni - ku "zamanuha" zoterezi zimayamba kukhala ndi chitetezo chokwanira), ndipo wina amalephera kufotokoza momveka bwino za zida zawo. Nchifukwa chiyani okwatirana akutopa chifukwa cha bedi la banja likukoka mu webusaiti yovuta ya webusaiti yonse ya padziko lonse? Zosokoneza monga "kutopa kuchokera ku chiwonongeko pabedi" ndi muyezo wakuti "chiwanda mu nthiti" pano chidzakhala chachilendo. Chinthu chachikulu chimene chimakopa amuna ndi akazi pazochitika zogonana ndiko kuti palibe zoletsedwa mmenemo. Simukuwona mnzanuyo, koma sakukuwonani. Inu simudzakumana konse. Kotero, iwe ukhoza kulipira chirichonse, ngakhale zinthu zomwe iwe unachita manyazi kuti uzingoyankhula mokweza.
Amuna ndi amai omwe asintha bwenzi lawo lokhazikika, amadandaula ndi ntchito yabwino, ngakhale kuti ntchitoyi yakhalabe yabisika. Izi ndi zotsatira za kafukufuku wamakono ochitidwa ndi akatswiri a maganizo ndi odwala maganizo m'mzaka zaposachedwapa. Ganizirani musanayambe mzere woletsedwa. Mphindi za chisangalalo sizothandiza kuti munthu amene mumamukonda amukhulupirire.
"Paubwenzi wakale"
Kukhalapo kwa "abwenzi abwino akale" mwa okhulupirika sikungathe kukupatsani chisangalalo. Monga ngati "abwenzi ake" okha ndi anzake omwe anali nawo m'kalasi. Winawake ananena kuti ubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi kugonana, kubwezeretsedwa kwa mtsogolo. Maganizo pa nkhaniyi ndi osiyana kwa onse. Koma kulankhulana kotereku kungakulire mosavuta. Kusemphana kwakukulu (kapena ayi) pakati pa okwatirana - ndipo amapita kukafuna chitonthozo kuchokera kwa abwenzi. Ndipo ngati bwenzi limakhala kuti ndi wosiyana? Inde, ndi maonekedwe abwino? Mwina, panali chisangalalo chachinsinsi pakati pa inu ndi zaka za sukulu? Mowa pang'ono ukhoza kukhala chitsimikizo cha kusakaniza uku. Ndipo zotsatira zake ndizochititsa manyazi pakati pa okondedwa. Azimayi pambuyo pa zofuna zoterezi, monga lamulo, amapitanso kumutu m'banja - zimakhudza kudzimva kuti ndi olakwa. Kuyankhulana ndi "bwenzi" kungakhale kutha kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipo amuna amakhala otetezeka - akhoza kupitiriza kulankhula ndi "bwenzi lakale," koma sizingatheke kuti kugonana kwa nthawi imodzi kumakula. Zosokoneza zoterezi zimatha popanda kanthu - kuchokera kwa anzako akale, omwe mabwenzi awo amayesedwa nthawi zambiri, kawirikawiri amatuluka okonda.
Chiwonetsero chosatha
Tsiku lina ndinayamba kuganiza molakwika kuti mutu wanga unayamba kunjenjemera, ndipo panalibe kokwanira kwina. Koma, ngati mwayi ukanakhala nawo, munthu wokondedwa wanga sakanatha, ndipo sindiyenera kuyembekezera zokondweretsa. Kumpsompsonana kwakukulu, kugonana kofanana. Pa zabwino, sitingazichite pabedi, koma, pansi, pansi. Ndipo izi zikanatchedwa "zosiyana." Ndipo ndi pamene ndinakopeka ndikufunafuna ulendo "pachisanu." Ndinakonzekera bwino: Ndapanga ndondomeko ya zomwe ndinkafuna kuchita, ndinaganiza momwe angapangidwire ndipo chofunika kwambiri, osankhidwa omwe ndiwasankha kuti akhale "wothandizana naye mwamsanga." Woyamba anali bwenzi lakale. Mzanga wachikulire wakhala akulota kuti sitidzakhala mabwenzi chabe, koma abwenzi, omwe nthawi zina amagonana, koma ngati apamwamba - muzichita nthawi zonse. Bell. Kuitanidwa ku malo odyera. Malipiro aatali. Utumiki wa taxi. Chakudya chamadzulo. Tekisi ina. Ndipo kale pafupi ndi chitseko, "wobatizidwa" wanga woledzera anayamba kukwera molimba mtima kwa ine. Ine ndinkafuna izo, koma pa nthawi imeneyo zinakhala zonyansa ndi zonyansa. Ndinapulumuka kwa wolamulira uyu. Ndiyeno iye anakumana ndi kukondana kwake koyamba. Kuwala kofiira kumutu kwanga kumagwira moto, koma ndichedwa kwambiri - njirayi inali itatha kale. Mwina khofi? Timapita kwa inu. Dzanja langa liri pa phewa lanu. Ndimangopsompsona masaya ake. Ndiyeno ndinayendayenda ngati wamakono. Mu nyumbayi ndinali maulendo ambiri. Zaka mazana zambiri zinamukumbatira munthu uyu. Ndipo tsopano zonse zimawoneka ngati palibe chomwe chatsintha. Makoma omwewo, sofa yomweyi, mabuku omwewo, nkhokwe imodzi ya maswiti pa tebulo. Ndikuyang'ana m'maso mwanga ndikukumvetsa. Ayi, si choncho. Sindingathe. Kwa mphindi zochepazi, ndinakumbukira zonse: chifukwa chiyani ndinachoka pamunthu uyu, bwanji sindinayambe kulankhula ndiye? Ndikuthamanga kuchokera ku nyumbayi.
Utumiki wa taxi. Ulendo wamsewu. Chotsatira cha dongosololi ndi chiyani? Ah. Kudziwa ndi munthu wosagonana. Mu gululo. Kapena ndi angapo osadziŵa. Chabwino, ayi! Ndakhala ndikwanira! Tsanzirani. Foni imanyamula. "Inde, mwana wanga wamphongo? Inde, ndidzakhala pomwepo." "Ndine wotopa kwambiri!" Inunso, gwiritsani, okoma. " Kotero chinyengo changa choganiza bwino, chokonzedwa mosamala sichinayambe. Koma tsopano ndangozindikira kuti sindikufuna wina aliyense. Ndipo kukayikira kuti okhulupirika akhala ochepa - ndife anthu onse. Ndipo ngati ndikufuna kwambiri, ndidzapindula kawiri. Monga lamulo, akazi amaletsa izi. Ndizovuta kwambiri. Mwinamwake, iye adzabweretsabe mpaka kumapeto. Zokha kuti muzindikire kuti "samovar yanu ili bwino." Ndipo khalani chete. Ndipo iwe, wokondedwa wanga, udzakhalabe wosadziwa. Chabwino, mwinamwake ndizo zabwino - chifukwa simudziwa, monga akunena, mumagona molimba.
Pomaliza, ndikufuna kunena chinthu chimodzi chokha. Zomwe mwawerengazi sizikutanthauza kuti wokondedwa wanu akuyesera kukuphunzitsani nyanga paliponse. Inde, zovuta zimachitika nthawi zambiri. Ndipo izi sizikutanthauza kutha kwa chikondi - ndikofunikira kusiyanitsa ubale ndi munthu wina komanso kugonana. Koma, mwinamwake, kuntchito, mwamuna wako samaganizira za miyendo yaitali ya mnzanu ku kompyutala yoyandikana nayo, koma za komwe angakuitane kumapeto kwa mlungu. Kapena amakumbukira usiku wako watha.
Chabwino, ngati muyang'ana zinthu moona mtima - zimangogwira ntchito basi. Zimagwira ntchito pofuna kudyetsa banja, ndikupita ku malo osungirako. Ndipo musayang'ane apo, pa "samovars za anthu ena." Ndipo ngakhale ndi abwenzi ake sagone mofulumira - mwinamwake kukambilana ndi wopusa dzulo kuchokera ku chiyanjano cha kugonana, chomwe chinamtumizira chithunzi cha Hilton chachilendo chachilendo, koma kenanso. Ubale umamangidwa pa kudalirika - kotero kudalira, ndipo mavuto ngati amenewo adzapitirira iwe. Zosangalatsa zidzayamikira.