Pamene amasintha ife - ndizoipa nthawi zonse, tikazichita tokha - zimakhala zosangalatsa pang'ono. Monga lamulo, kusakhulupirika nthawi zambiri kumakhala chinthu chomaliza pa chiyanjano, chifukwa ichi ndi chifukwa chachikulu cha kutha kwa mabanja ambiri, ngakhale patapita zaka zambiri za moyo wa banja. Kawirikawiri pambuyo pochita chiwembu, mukhoza kubwezeretsa ubale wabwino pakati pa awiriwa. Zoonadi, zifukwa zoperekera ndizosiyana, koma lero sitikulankhula za iwo, koma za ziphunzitso khumi ndi ziwiri zokhudzana ndi chiwembu.
Bodza Loyamba: Zambiri zowonongeka zimachitika chifukwa cha kusakhutira ndi mnzanuyo
Omwe akuimira zachiwerewere, omwe akhala okwatirana kwa nthawi yaitali, ayambe kukondana kumbali, akukangana kuti izi ndizokwatirana. Amuna, komabe, nthawi zonse sagwiritsa ntchito mfundoyi mu seweroli.
Ambiri mwa abambo omwe ali ndi mphamvu zogonana omwe ali okondwa ndi chikwati, ndipo ndani ali pabedi, sangaloledwe kupita kumanzere. Makamaka ngati akukhulupirira kuti izi n'zosavuta kuthawa.
Nthano ziwiri: Amayi amasintha mochepa kuposa amuna
Poyambirira, mwinamwake, ndizo momwe zinaliri, koma lero kukula kwa kusakhulupirika kwatayika kwathunthu. Chinali chiani? - Mukufunsani. Yankho ndi losavuta: Azimayi anayamba kusintha chifukwa chofanana ndi okhulupirika awo. Zifukwa, monga lamulo, ziri zambiri: chikhumbo chosiyana moyo, ngozi, ndi zina zotero. Koma pali zifukwa zapadera. Buku losemphana ndi bwenzi limayang'aniridwa ndi mkazi ngati "mphotho" kwa mwamuna wosakwatiwa, kapena kuti, kuti amagwirizanitsa moyo ndi munthu wamwano yemwe sangathe kumvetsera ndikumusamala nthawi zonse.
Bodza Lachitatu: Nthawi zambiri, kusakhulupirika kumatanthauza kugonana
Mabuku ambiri kumbaliyi amachokera ku kugonana, tk. chidziwitso cha kugonana kapena china - chidziwitso, chomwe chiri chokongola ndi choyesa. Koma ndivisirana, kugonana sikuti nthawi zonse zimayambitsa kusakhulupirika. Chowonadi ndi chakuti kugonana kumbali ndi njira yopezera chinthu chatsopano, chomwe sichiri muukwati.
Nthano Zinayi: Ngati mutasinthidwa - simukukonda
Kotero izo zingawoneke pakuyang'ana koyamba, koma sizichitika nthawizonse. Komabe, izi zikusonyeza kuti wokondedwa wanu alibe nazo zokwanira kuti mulemekeze, ponena za kulemekeza maudindo operekedwa kwa wina ndi mzake. Kapena mwangwiro dongosolo lanu labwino ndi losiyana. Ena mwa anthu amatha kusiyanitsa pakati pa chikondi ndi kugonana, kotero kusintha kwa thupi sikumakhudza momwe akumverera mwanjira iliyonse.
Bodza Lachisanu: Kugonana kugulitsidwa - osati kusakhulupirika, chifukwa anali kale
Atagonana ndi omwe kale (oh), ambiri amakonda kuganiza kuti ichi ndi chinthu chokha chomwe chiyenera kuwatulutsa m'manja. Iwo alibe lingaliro lakuti ichi chinali chiwonetsero, ndiko kuti, malingaliro awo ndi osiyana ndi omwe amachitika pambuyo pogonana ndi munthu watsopano, yemwe angaganize za kukula kwa kugonana muzinthu zina. Koma ichi ndi chikhulupiriro cholakwika.
Komabe zomvetsa chisoni zingamveke, kugonana ndi anthu akale kungabweretse mavuto aakulu. Mwinamwake zochita zanu sizikhala ndi cholinga chilichonse ndipo mudzapita kukakumbukira zapitazo, koma mnzanu wakale angakonde kuyambiranso.
Nthano Chachisanu ndi chimodzi: Mozhnovsegda kuti atsimikize kuti asagwirizane ndi chiwembu
Mukhoza kuchepetsa mwayi wotsutsa, koma guarantor sangapereke. Ndikofunikira kuti musankhe wokondedwa woyenera, osati kukhala ndi chiyembekezo cha miyezo ya moyo ndi dongosolo labwino.
Nthano yachisanu ndi chiwiri: Ngati munthu wasintha wina kale, adzachita ndi watsopano
Mawu amenewa amamveka bwino kwambiri ngati munthu amanyengerera munthu yemwe anali naye pachibwenzi, choncho palibe chomwe chimawoneka kuti sichidziwikiratu, choncho pali mwayi waukulu kuti zonse zidzibwereza.
Nthano yachisanu ndi chitatu: Pakusakhulupirika, munthu ayenera kuvomereza
Muli ndi mwayi wambiri wosunga maubwenzi ngati mumavomereza chinyengo chanu moona mtima, m'malo momangokhalira kuchitapo kanthu mwangozi.
Koma chiwerengero cha kufotokoza kwa chinsinsi ichi ndi chosayenerera - chinthu chachikulu ndikutseka pakamwa pa thumba. Mwa njira, kukumbukira akatswiri ena a maganizo, ngati wokondedwa wanu sakuletsedwa, sakuyenera kunena chilichonse chabwino.
Mukamuuza za chiwonongekocho, mumachotsa chikhulupiliro chake kvm, kubwezeretsedwa kumene kumatenga zaka zambiri, kenaka, ngati n'kotheka Inde, ndipo kawirikawiri, musanavomereze, ndibwino kuti lyrazobiritsya mukhale nokha ndikuikapo mfundo pa kusakhulupirika?
Nthano nambala 9: Ngati palibe wina amene amadziwa za chigamulo, ndiye kuti sichimadziwika kuti ndi wonyenga
Monga lamulo, muyezo wathunthu umadalira umunthu wanu. Ngati muli otsimikiza kuti palibe cholakwika ndi ichi, ndiye kumatanthauza kukhala osamala. Pano pali vuto limodzi: padziko lapansi pali anthu angapo, kuti amakhulupirira kuti palibe cholakwika ndi chiwembu.
Nthano nambala khumi: Panalibe kugonana - panalibe chiwonongeko
Kusokonezeka maganizo ndi kugwirizana kwakukulu pakati pa anthu awiri, omwe sanaganizire kuti adutsa kale mzere wa zomwe zimaloledwa - kuchokera ku mgwirizano wa mgwirizano wa machitidwe omwe amayamba kumverera. Uwu ndiwo mtundu wonyenga kwambiri.
Anthu oposa 80% a anthu osakhulupirika anayamba mabuku ochezeka. Kawirikawiri zimatha kukhala ogwira nawo ntchito. Pogwiritsa ntchito funso limodzi la anthu, 62% mwa amuna osakhulupirika ndi 50% mwa amayi osakhulupirika adatsimikizira kuti agonana nawo limodzi ndi antchito anzawo.
Zirizonse zomwe zimasokoneza maganizo: zowonekera kapena zobisika, zowonongeka kapena ayi - ndizoopsa ndipo zikhoza kufulumira.
Nthawi zambiri mumadziyerekezera kuti ndinu munthu wosungulumwa, ngakhale kuti simunali mmodzi mwa iwo, mumalankhulana mwachinsinsi kumalo ochezera a pa Intaneti, kugawana moyo wanu wachinsinsi ndi anthu akunja, ndikuchita zonse kwa mnzanuyo, onetsetsani kuti mwakonzeka kale kusintha maganizo.
Godza la khumi ndi limodzi: Kuganizirana za munthu wina sikunyoza
Monga momwe alangizi a maganizo amalangizira maanja omwe akhala akuwombera nthawi yaitali, kuti amenyane ndi mayesero, munthu ayenera kuganiza za munthu wina. Ndipo palibe chamanyazi pano, chifukwa chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala wokhulupirika osati m'munda, komanso mmoyo.
Mwa njira, malingaliro olingalira nthawizonse amakhala obiriwira kuposa kuchitira mwano kwenikweni. Ndipo pambali pake, malingaliro amphamvu amakuthandizani kuti muthe kudzutsa maganizo anu akale.
Bodza lachisanu ndi chiwiri: Chiwembu "chimathandiza" kupulumutsa ukwati kuti usagwe
Kwa zaka zambiri chinsomba ichi chinapitirizidwa ndi anthu omwe amakhala pafupi ndi kizmen. Amagwiritsa ntchito mawu awa ngati chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika kwawo. Ndipotu, zonsezo n'zomveka. Tangoganizani kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi wake amakhala ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri kuti: "Kuchita zimenezi ndi chinthu chabwino kwambiri chimene chingatichitikire!" Koma bukuli pambali likuphwanya zonse zowumbirira malonjezo onse, komanso chiwonongeko chokha, monga chisonyezero chokhazikika ndi chinyengo chonse cha kukhulupilira. Chitsanzo cha izi chikhoza kuthandiza maanja omwe adakumanapo ndi vutoli, koma kumverera kwachidziwitso, mkwiyo, ndi chisoni silingathe kuzisiya!