Mukhoza kuwamvetsa, chifukwa m'dziko lathu chizoloŵezichi chinayamba kale kwambiri. Ndipo malingaliro a chikhalidwe paukwati, monga chiyanjano chopatulika mpaka imfa, samavomereza lingaliro la chopereka chotero. Koma ngati mumamvetsetsa makolo omwe ali m'badwo wosiyana komanso maganizo awo akadali otheka, ndiye kuti enawo ayenera kumvetsera bwino. Ndipotu, kukwatirana kumangokukhudzani inu ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wamtsogolo, ndi kusankha ngati mukuchita mgwirizano kapena ayi. Kwa anthu a ku Ulaya ndi America, mapeto a mgwirizano waukwati ndi ozoloŵera kwa zaka mazana ambiri. Pamene ku Russia chizoloŵezi ichi chinayamba mu 1996 ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwa Family Code ya Russian Federation. Pakalipano, chiwerengero cha dziko lathu ndilokhazikika, ndipo pakali pano, mgwirizano wa mgwirizano wa ukwati umaphatikizapo zotsatira zabwino zambiri.
Choyamba, "mumadzitsimikizira" nokha. Pambuyo pa zonse, ndife anthu onse, ndipo palibe amene angatsimikizire kuti chikondi chamakono chamakono chidzatha kufikira kutha kwa masiku ... Inde, wina ayenera kukhulupirira zokhazokha. Ndipo ngakhale mutakhala otsimikiza za kudzipatulira ndi kudalirika kwa theka lanu lachiwiri, chili kuti chitsimikiziro chakuti simudzakhala woyambitsa phokosoli? Zinthu zikhoza kukula m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Ndipo ngati chisudzulo chikuchitika, kulembedwa kwa mgwirizano wa chikwati pachiyambi kudzakuthandizani kupeŵa ndalama zosafunikira za mitsempha, nthawi ndi ndalama kumapeto kwa chiyanjano. Zosakaniza, zonse zosagwirizana pa katundu zidzathetsedwa mofulumira, ndipo ndondomeko ya kusudzulana sikudzatambasula kwa miyezi yaitali yowawa, ngakhale zaka ...
Chachiwiri, mosiyana ndi malingaliro ovomerezeka, mgwirizano ukhoza kuyendetsa osati kugawana kokha m'banja, komabe kugwirizana kwa katundu mu nthawi ya moyo wa banja. Mwachitsanzo, kufalitsa kwa ndalama pakati pa okwatirana kungatchulidwe (gawo lomwe limalowetsa mgwirizano ndi gawo lomwe lidakali paokha). Kapena, mwachitsanzo, funso lofunikira la udindo wa wokwatirana pa nthawi yomwe ali ndi pakati komanso mwanayo atabadwa. Pambuyo pa nthawiyi mkazi sangathe kudzipangira yekha ndalama ndikudzipatsa yekha. Mgwirizanowu ukhoza kufotokozera gawo limodzi la ndalama zomwe angapeze panthawiyi. Kulumikizana koteroko sikupindulitsa kwa mkazi yekha, monga momwe zingayesere poyamba, mwamunayo nayenso amadzipatula kuzineneza zoletsedwa za mwamuna kapena mkazi wake pazopindula zake.
Chachitatu, mgwirizano wa ukwati ungakhale ndi mgwirizano pa mavuto osiyanasiyana ndi milandu. Mwachitsanzo, mfundo zokhudzana ndi chiwonongeko cha makhalidwe ngati mutakhala ndi chiwembu. Kapena, mosiyana, kuti woyambitsa chiphuphu adzalandira 1/3 ya katundu, ndipo "ovulala" 2/3. Choncho, munthu amaganizira kwambiri za zotsatira zake, asanasankhe chisangalalo kapena kuyambitsa ubale kumbali. Izi, nazonso, zimatha kuteteza ukwati.
Kotero, inu munaganiza ndipo muyenera kuganizira momwe mungapangire mgwirizano waukwati.
1. Chinthu choyamba chimene muyenera kuchita ndi kupereka kalata yanu yachiwiri. Chonde dziwani kuti mgwirizanowu ukhoza kukonzedwa osati banja lisanayambe, komanso pakati pa okwatirana kale, choncho sichichedwa kutha kusankhapo.
2. Kulankhulana ndi kulemba mndandanda ndi wokwatirana pazinthu zofunikira kwambiri ndi zazing'ono, zomwe zidzakambidwenso mu mgwirizano. Momwemonso, katswiri ayenera kutenga nawo gawo pa chiyambicho. Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, mudzasankha zofuna zanu zonse ndi zofuna zake, ndipo adzapanga chikalata chovomerezeka mwalamulo. Ngati mukutsutsa kuti musanayambe kuonana ndi katswiri, mudzayesa kulembera lembalo nokha, ndiye zitsanzozi zikhoza kupezeka ku ofesi iliyonse yowonjezerayo kapena ngakhale pa intaneti. Koma komabe, ndi kuchuluka kotani momwe mwakhazikitsira mgwirizano waukwati moyenera kuti mufunsane ndi katswiri wa zamalonda.
3. Kuti mukwaniritse mgwirizano waukwati, muyenera kupereka malipiro a boma.
4. Mgwirizano wa ukwati uyenera kuzindikiridwa. Pa nthawi yomweyi, mgwirizano wa onse awiriwa ndi wofunika, komanso kukhalapo kwawo pokhapokha atayina mgwirizano womwewo. Chidziwitsocho chimasungidwa mobwerezabwereza (kwa olemba komanso azimayi).
Chilembacho chingasinthidwe mtsogolomu. Koma, kachiwiri, pokhapokha kuvomerezana kwa maphwando.
Polemba mgwirizano waukwati, kumbukirani ndikuganiziranso mfundo zofunika izi.
- Musagwiritse ntchito mgwirizano ndi ndalama zenizeni ndi ziwerengero (kupatulapo payekha). Ndi bwino kulankhula za magawo ndi magawo.
- Mu mgwirizano wa chikwati ukhoza kunenedwa za malo: mgwirizano (wamba wa anthu okwatirana), gawani (magawo a okwatirana atchulidwa pasadakhale), osiyana (katundu wa mmodzi wa okwatirana).
- Mgwirizanowu ukhoza kulongosola ufulu wa katundu monga kale, komanso zomwe zidzakhalepo mtsogolo.
- Mgwirizano waukwati sungathe kulamulira ubale wosakhala ndi katundu. Mwachitsanzo, dongosolo la kuyankhulana kwa ana limodzi ndi makolo awo atatha kusudzulana kapena amene angasamalire zinyama tsiku ndi tsiku ...
- Ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu ndi nzika ya dziko lina, muyenera kuganizira kuti zigawo za mgwirizano sizitsutsana ndi malamulo a dziko lake.
- Mgwirizano ukhoza kuthetsedwa kwa nthawi inayake kapena nthawi yosatha. Pogwirizanitsa maphwando, akhoza kuthetseratu.
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