Anthu amasiku ano amalinganiza m'njira yoti anthu ambiri nthawi zambiri samakhala ndi nthawi yopanga moyo wawo. Mu dziko lathu lapansi, komwe nthawi zonse zimapita kuntchito ndi panjira yopita kuntchito ndi kunyumba, funso limakhala lovuta kwambiri: "Ndipo mungakumane naye kuti mnyamata?"
Ndipo pamene tikufulumira kugwira ntchito kapena kunyumba, sitidziwa ngakhale chiwerengero chachikulu cha anthu omwe timakumana nawo pamsewu. Ndipo nthawi zina, ndikuwoneka mwachidule kwa achinyamata omwe akukuzungulira, chifukwa, monga mukudziwira, mwinamwake pakati pa anthu ambiri omwe simudziwa ndi omwewo, msonkhano womwe mwakhala mukuufuna zaka zambiri.
Tiyeni tiwononge zolakwika zomwe munthu woyamba akudziŵa ndi mwamuna komanso kuti msungwana wabwino amanyansidwa kuti adziŵe bwino pa sitima yapansi panthaka kapena pamsewu. M'masiku amasiku ano, atsikana ambiri amadzidalira okha, choncho bwanji osayesetsa kuchita zimenezi?
Koma ndikufunanso kutsindika: Ndiwe woyamba komanso wopambana msungwana, choncho simukuyenera kuchitapo kanthu. Ndipotu, atsikana amadziŵa zambiri za momwe angadziwire bwino mnyamata, ndipo nthawi yomweyo amaika zonse mwa kuwala kotero kuti Iye anali otsimikiza kuti njirayo inachokera kwa Iye, ndipo ndiye amene adachita choyamba.
Kotero, apa pali malingaliro omwe angakuthandizeni kuthetsa vuto lomwe munapatsidwa: momwe mungadziŵe ndi mnyamata pa zoyendetsa pagalimoto?
- Ntchito yoyamba ndi yosavuta yomwe ingakuthandizeni kumudziwa ndikumamwetulira. Kungomung'ung'udza, mungamange maso ake, chifukwa mantha omwe munthuyo amakhala nawo ndi kukana ndipo ndi chifukwa chake iwo sangakhale oyamba kuyandikira mtsikana amene amamukonda. Ndipo inunso muli pamsewu wapamtunda kapena mumsewu, kumene kuli anthu ambiri. Ndipo kukana pagulu kumamuvutitsa kwambiri, choncho mumuuzeni kuti mumamukonda ndipo ali ndi mwayi. Mumusulireni, khalani maso. Kumbukirani kuti nkhope yomwe kumwetulira ikuwalira nthawi zonse imakhala yokongola ndipo imapangitsa mwini wake kukhala wokongola komanso wokongola. Kuphatikiza apo, mnyamatayu adzatsimikiza kuti ndi amene adakuwonani ndipo adaganiza kuti akudziwani. Makamaka mwayi wa njira iyi mudzayamikirira, ngati mutanyamula anthu pagulu mpando wa wosankhidwa wanu uli pafupi ndi wanu.
- Njira yachiwiri yodziŵira zoyendetsa ndi mnyamata ndikuthamangira m'magulu. Amene, mwa njira, sali ovuta kuchita. Mu nthawi yofulumira, lolani anthu omwe akukuzungulira akukuumirizani mofulumira kwa munthu amene mumamukonda. Tangoganizirani, pamene akubvundira fungo la mafuta onunkhira ndikumverera thupi lanu pafupi ndi iye, mumakweza maso anu, ndikumwetulira, mukumuyang'ana, mukuwonetsa kuti ali osasamala komanso osokonezeka. Zotsalayo zidzadalira pa izo.
- Ngati zoyendetsazo ndizokwanira ndipo njira yachiwiri si yoyenera kumudziwa ndi mnyamata amene mumamukonda, ndiye pamene mutadutsa, ponyani kuti mwangogwedezeka mwangozi. Ndipo kuti musagwe, munagwira dzanja kapena phazi lake, mwangozi mwachibadwa. Ndikofunika kwambiri motere - ndizo zomwe mumachita mumasekondi oyambirira. Pambuyo pa zonse, zotsatira zake zachilengedwe zidzakhala zoipa, koma mumagwiritsa ntchito chithumwa chanu, kumwetulira kwanu kokongola, maganizo anu akufalikira. ... Tsopano iye akuwona pamaso pake mzanga wachilendo. Inde, muyenera kupepesa mukamayang'ana maso ake, ndipo mawu anu ayenera kukhala ofewa. Khalani omvera komanso osamala. Ndiuzeni kuti mukumva chisoni kuti ichi ndi ngozi, simunakankhire zambiri.
- Kuthandizana mwachindunji ndi anzanu - kunyamula makadi a bizinesi ndi inu. Zidzakhala zothandiza pazomwe mungasankhe. Ingosiya khadi la bizinesi kwa mnyamata, makamaka ngati mnyamatayu sanayesetse kuti ayambe kukuyandikira iwe, ngakhale zochitika zonse zomwe watenga.
- Pezani chifukwa choyambitsa kukambirana. Apa, mwamtheradi ndibwino: nyimbo mumsewera wake, buku lomwe akuwerenga, chitsanzo cha foni yake ndi zina zambiri. Mungathe kufunsa maganizo ake pa mutu wa nkhani yanu, ponena za ulamuliro wake, monga amuna.
- Onetsani zosowa zanu monga mkazi, mum'pemphe thandizo: kutseka / kutsegula zenera, thandizani kuika zinthu zanu pamwamba pa alumali. Chinthu chachikulu chimene anazindikira kuti mumamufuna, mu mphamvu yake.
- Onetsani kulimba mtima - pitani kwa mnyamata yemwe anakonda inu ndi funso losalakwa: "Kodi ndingakukhudzireni, apo ayi ndikuwopa kugwa?" Mnyamatayo angayamikire kuchita molimbika kotero ngati iye sakhala wosangalala. Ndipo inde, njirayi ndi yabwino kwa ophunzira.
- Pokhala panjira yapansi panthaka, mungathe kufunsa za chomwe chidzakhala positi yotsatila, kusamukira ku nthambi ina? Zonse zimadalira malingaliro anu. Mungathe ngakhale kufunsa za chaka chomwe ndege yoyamba yopita ku Mwezi inachitikira, yomwe inangoyamba ulendo wawo kupita ku Cosmos, kapena kuti nyenyezi zoyera zimatha nthawi yayitali bwanji, ndipo nkhumbazo zimakhala nthawi yayitali bwanji. Ndikofunika kuyamba kukambirana. Izi zidzakulolani kuti muzindikire zosangalatsa zake ndi zomwe amachitira pa zosayembekezereka.
- Njira yoyamba kukumana ndi mnyamata ndikutsegula sms pa foni yanu, ndiyeno mumuuzeni kuti analemba foni yanu. Nenani kuti uthenga uwu, zikuwoneka kwa inu, unalinganiziridwa kwa iye.
- Ndipo potsiriza. Mukhoza kudziyerekezera kuti uwu si msonkhano wanu woyamba ndipo tsopano mukuyesera kuti mukumbukire kuti ndi kuti ndiani ndipo mumakumana bwanji. Izi, kuonjezerapo, zidzakupatsani chidziwitso cha komwe amaphunzira, ndi gulu liti limene amalankhulana komanso zomwe amadya usiku wake.
Bwerani ku chirichonse cholenga. Kumbukirani kuti malingaliro anu amatha zambiri, choncho mugwiritseni ntchito komanso chisangalalo cha mnyamata amene mumakonda. Ndipo nthawizonse mumapambana.
Musaiwale kuti ndinu mtsikana, kuti ndinu wokongola, ndipo kumwetulira kwanu kumakupangitsani kukhala omveka komanso kokongola kwambiri. Sungani mobwerezabwereza. Khalani akazi muzochitika zonse. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, musaiwale - mungathe kukomana ndi mnyamata ngakhale m'malo osadziwika kwambiri. Ndipo momwe mungachitire izo ndi zanu ndi zokha zanu.