Mwamuna wa maloto anga

Sikuti kugonana kwabwino konse ndiko kugona ndikudziona okha ngati mayi wokondwa panyumba. Amayi omwe safuna kudzimangiriza okha ndi banja lawo, komanso omwe adakhala ndi nthawi yowopsya, yang'anani anthu makamaka ngati okonda. Koma momwe mungadziwire pakati pa mafanizi anu omwe mukufuna kwambiri? Yankho la funsoli laperekedwa pang'ono ndi Markus Kurzweiler, Pulofesa wa Sexology ku University of Hamburg. Zowonjezera kuchokera pamenepo timakupatsani chidwi.

Zizindikiro zenizeni za wokondedwa wabwino

1. Kukhoza kwa mphamvu zogonana kumatsimikiziridwa ndi kukhalapo kwa mahomoni aamuna a gulu la androgen. Chinthu chachikulu ndi testosterone. Mpweya waukulu wa hormoni uwu ukuwonetseredwa mu "tsitsi" lachifuwa la chifuwa, miyendo ndi ziwalo zina za thupi, komanso kumaso kwa mutu. Koma kumbukirani: kuchuluka sikutanthauza khalidwe.


2. Chizindikiro china cha munthu wachikondi, chachilendo monga momwe chimawonekera, ndi kukula kochepa, amayi samadziponyera okha pamapazi a amuna otsika, choncho amayenda m'njira zosiyanasiyana - amagwiritsira ntchito luso lawo, amapereka mphatso za chic, amapanga zokongola ndi zochitika zenizeni chifukwa cha amayi . Kubweretsa chinthu chomwecho pa kama, ogonjera amayesanso kuti asagwedeze dothi kumaso, kuyesera kuganiza zokhumba ndi maloto a mkazi, kusonyeza mphamvu zowonjezereka komanso luntha.


3. Kuwonetsa maonekedwe a wokondedwa kwa omvera, mverani fungo lake. Pali lingaliro logwirizana molondola. Zili ngati mizimu - ngati ikukutsatirani, ndiye kuti, powawotcha, kwa maminiti oyamba muyenera kumangirira, ndikusiya kuwamverera. Pambuyo pa kuyenda, mukamenyana ndi chibwenzicho ngati simukumva kusangalala komanso fungo lake silikuwoneka kuti ndilo banja lanu, ndiye kuti ubalewu sudzakhala bwino ndi munthu uyu.


4. Kumveka kwa mawu ake kuyenera kukudzutsani inu mumtima wokondweretsa. Ndiye kudalira pa kukoma kwanu. Kumbukirani kuti mwiniwake wa velvet bass kapena baritone yokhudzana ndi kugonana sizomwe mumanena, komanso kusonyeza. Wasayansi Wachijeremani akunena kuti kukongola kwa mawu a munthu, makamaka munthu uyu, "kuwonetsa nthawi yaitali" pabedi.


5. Njira yolankhuliranso ndi mfundo yofunikira. Zomwe zimapangitsa kuti anthu ayambe kukufunsani kuti akufunseni kuti akukondwereni, komanso kuti sakukhulupirira kwambiri zomwe angathe. Zochitika, ndithudi, lingaliro lopezedwa, koma kodi muli nayo nthawi yodikira mpaka atapanga? Ngati mwamunayo sakuzengereza kukuuzani zoyamikila, onetsetsani kuti amadziwa zomwe akufuna. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti zokhumba zanu zimagwirizana.


6. Kuyenda kwa munthu kumalankhula zambiri. Angathe kudzipangitsa kukayikira kapena, kudziletsa, kudzidalira kwambiri. Ngati mwamuna akuyenda mofulumira kwambiri kuti mutha kumangokhala naye, ndiye kuti ali pabedi adzakhala mofulumira. Kupereka usilikali kumapereka umboni wochuluka kwambiri wosagwirizana komanso wosadzikonda. Ndipo phwando labwino la danse ndilo lomwe mukusowa.


7. Fufuzani momwe munthu amachitira, akusamalira. Ngati amasankha ntchito, filimu, zokondwerero kapena chakudya kumalo odyera, kudalira yekha zokoma zake, ndiye kuti azigonana. Kaya mukufuna kapena ayi, sankhani nokha. Koma ngati akukufunsani nkhani zoterezi, muli ndi mwayi wabwino kuti muthe kumvetsetsa mu masewera achikondi.


8. Yang'anirani momwe amadyera. Ngati chirichonse chikukwanira, chimawoneka ngati chiri, kuyesa kutsiriza mofulumira - ndiye icho sichikanakhoza kutchedwa kutsika kwachisomo. Pachifukwa ichi, chinthu chofunika ndikuyika chongerezi mu "mbiri yanu". Koma ngati adya pang'onopang'ono, amamvetsetsa ma condiments ndikuyamikira mavinyo abwino, ndiye usiku umene wakhala naye limodzi, mudzakumbukira kwa nthawi yaitali. Mwa njira, pa gastronomic predilections ndizotheka kupeza mfundo zokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa mwamuna. Chosavuta ndi chosakaniza kukoma kwake pa chakudya, chosavuta komanso chosasamala chiri pabedi.


9. Yang'anani momwe mzanu akulipira muresitilanti kapena msika. Ngati akuwerengera ndalama iliyonse, ganizirani. Inu, mopanda mantha kuti "muwerenge" mukutentha kwa mtima, chisamaliro ndi chikondi ... Kupatsa ndi chimodzi mwa makhalidwe apamwamba a mwamuna weniweni.


10. Zindikirani momwe akukuyang'anirani. Chodabwitsa kwambiri, chifukwa cha bedi lokondeka - osati chofunika kwambiri. Ngati mwamuna nthawi zambiri amayesa fanizo lanu ndi maganizo anu amakugwetsani, tengerani alamu. Kodi mukufuna kukhala "chigawo cha chikomyunizimu" chotsatira, chimene adzaika mbendera yake? Ngati diso lake likufuna kukumira m'maso mwanu - chiyembekezo chiri choyesa kwambiri.

Ndi awa apa, okonda kwenikweni. Chenjerani ndi zotsika mtengo!