Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti kukhalapo kwa amuna enieni kumayamba ndi zaka za chivalry. Koma ayi, iwo anali nthawi zonse. Kodi alipo amuna enieni tsopano? Inde! Koma amawoneka mosiyana kwambiri ndi munthu weniweni wakale.
Mwamuna weniweni ku Greece wakale ndi Zeus, mwamuna wamphamvu, yemwe ali wokwiya, amaponya mphezi ndikusintha mkazi wake wakumwamba Hera kumanja ndi kumanzere ndi akazi apadziko lapansi. Monga akunena pa intaneti masiku ano, "anali wopusa komanso wankhanza."
M'zaka za m'ma Middle Ages, m'chifanizo cha munthu weniweni, pali zosiyana kwambiri, zomwe zimakhala ndi njonda. Mphunzitsi ayenera kukhala wochenjera, wochenjera, wanzeru, mozama ndi zachiwerewere. maonekedwe a makhalidwe amenewa amachokera ku chidziwitso cha anthu. Chowonadi ndi chakuti malinga ndi miyambo ya zakale, mayiko onse anapatsidwa kwa wolowa nyumba wamkulu, mwana wamwamuna wapakati amapita ku nyumba ya amonke (ntchito ya monki inali yotchuka kwambiri), ndipo wamng'onoyo anali ndi kavalo ndi lupanga. Chiyembekezo chawo chokha chobwezera kubwalo lozungulira chinali banja lopambana. Kuchokera nthawi imeneyo, chipembedzo cha Lady Beautiful chidapita, m'chifanizo cha munthu woyenera, chisamaliro, kutenga nawo gawo, chidwi cha mkaziyo chiyamba kuonekera. Koma ngakhale pafupi kwambiri ndi makankhondo abwino a nthawi imeneyo anali kutali kwambiri ndi chithunzi cha chikhalidwe chamakono chomwe chinapangidwa m'malingaliro a mkazi.
Ndiye "munthu weniweni" anali wokhoza kuthetsa chisamaliro cha amayi, koma atakwatira, zinthu zonse za nsanje ndi mwamuna wosakhulupirika zinawonetsedwa mwa iye. Izi ndi chifukwa chakuti ndondomeko ya kusudzulana inalemekezedwa kwambiri ndi tchalitchi ndipo mafumu ndi mafumu akuluakulu okha ndiwo anali ndi mwayi wosudzulana. Ndipo sitiyenera kuiwala za kusalinganizana pakati pa anthu, chidziwitso chingasamalire mkaziyo kwa miyezi ingapo, koma panthawi yomweyi anthu akulima amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu, ndipo izi zimawoneka kuti ndizochitika. Kuchita zamalonda sikudaphatikizidwe mu mndandanda wa machitidwe abwino a amuna, magulu amodzi a masiku ano amachititsa moyo wopanda ntchito. Chinthu chokha chomwe chinawaimira chinali nkhondo, kusaka ndi masewera a knight.
Malingaliro ndi maphunziro mu chiwerengero cha makhalidwe omwe ayenera kukhala nawo amuna enieni, anagwa mu Chiyambi cha Ulemerero. Panthawi imeneyo, lingaliro la chiyanjano chogwirizana cha umunthu likulamulidwa: zonse zauzimu ndi zakuthupi. Ngati kale kuwerenga ndi kuzindikira kunali kuonedwa ngati fad, tsopano iwo akhala chizindikiro cha munthu weniweni.
M'zaka za zana la 17, ndi kufalikira kwa Chiprotestanti ku Ulaya, khama linalowa mu chiwerengero cha makhalidwe ofunikira. Ndiyenera kunena kuti khama la munthu ameneyu ndilo labwino kwambiri, ndipo sikoyenera kuti awononge anthu omwe ali ndi "kugonana kolimba" masiku ano kuti achite zonse zomwe angathe kuti asagwire ntchito zapakhomo, pofuna kugona pabedi ndikuwonera TV. Thupi labwino ndi loyera la thupi linalowa muzinthu zofunikira zambiri kwa bambo uyu posachedwa, kumayambiriro kwa zaka za zana la 18. Izi ndizofunikira, choyamba, kukakhala m'midzi: m'midzi ndizosatheka kukhalabe oyera nthawi zonse, ndipo palibe chosowa. Ndipo m'midzi yomwe ili ndi anthu ambirimbiri komanso kuthekera kwa kufalitsa kwa matenda osiyanasiyana, kukhalabe oyera kwa thupi kumakhala bwino.
Tsopano mwamuna weniweni sayenera kukhala ndi makhalidwe onse omwe adatchulidwa, ayenera kukhala ndi luso labwino: athe kuyendetsa galimoto, kusamalira zipangizo zapakhomo pamagetsi, kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti. Kodi chidzachitike ndi chiyani?
Choncho, monga chitukuko cha anthu chidawoneka, zida zonse zatsopano zinkawoneka mu chifanizo cha munthu weniweni, ndipo patapita izi kapena khalidweli liri pamndandanda, amuna ochepa omwe tsopano akufanana nawo. Inde, tazindikira ngati alipo amuna enieni: ali, koma ali ochepa kwambiri ndipo wina ayenera kukhala mkazi weniweni kuti akhale ndi mwayi wokomana ndikumusunga pafupi naye. Pomaliza, kodi mungakwatire bwanji wamkulu? Fufuzani mtsogoleri wodalirikayo ndipo mumuthandize kupanga ntchito!