Kukondana ndi mwamuna: malamulo a golidi
Yang'anani mochititsa chidwi
Amuna amakonda maso, pofuna kukopa chidwi cha anyamata - muyenera kuyang'ana 100%. Ndipo si za kakhadine kusintha fano, mabala owala kapena nsonga ndi mimba yotseguka - izi zikuwoneka kuti zingatheke kusiyana ndi kukopa. Valani zovala zokongola, zosavuta ndi zokongola, zomwe mumakhala nazo. Khalani wodekha: msuzi pamasaya, tsitsi lowala, mpweya wabwino kwambiri - mfundo zomwe zingakupangitseni kangapo kukhala akazi, ndipo, motero, zofunikanso. Pangani izo kuti muziyamikiridwa. Pankhaniyi, mwamuna wanu adzanyadira kuti pafupi ndi iye, kukongola koteroko ndikumangokhala wopambana.
Sungani ndi kusonyeza mtima wabwino
Inde, luso la mwamuna ndilo kuthetsa mavuto a amayi, chifukwa ndi chitetezo chanu ndi chithandizo chanu. Koma mukhoza kungotenga pamapewa ake ngati muli ndi ubale wautali. Panthawiyi, ndikofunika kusonyeza chiyembekezo ndi zosasamala! Kufikira anthu okondwa ndi kophweka komanso omasuka kukhala. Ngati muli ndi vuto - mum'chitire zoseketsa, khalidweli lidzakuthandizani mtsogolo.
Chinthu chachikulu sikuti chiwonongeke! Atsikana omwe amangokhalira kuseka, amachititsa amuna kukwiyitsa, chifukwa ndizovuta kwambiri kulankhula nawo. Pezani zowonongeka: Sonyezerani munthu yemwe ali m'gulu lake simunangokhalira kukondwera, ali kwa inu kuwala kowala komwe kumachititsa kumwetulira nkhope yanu! Amaseka pamaso panu - onetsetsani kuti mumamwetulira, ngakhale kuti anecdote sangalalane kapena mumamumva nthawi khumi ndi ziwiri.
Sonyezani ulemu
Mayi ayenera kuwonerera lilime lake ndi kuyankhulana ndi anthu ena. Mfundo yakuti ndinu wamwano kwa woperekera chakudya kapena mwadzidzidzi anauza woweruza wake kuti iye ndi mulungu wambiri sangawonjezere mfundo kwa maso a munthu wokondedwayo. Makhalidwe oterewa, kudzikuza ndi kunyada, musamupatse mkaziyo. Khalidweli, kuphatikizapo, lingathe kumukakamiza munthu kuti lingaliro loti mtsogolo limuyembekezere, komanso, komanso kuti zonse zomwe mukuchita panopa ndikuzigwiritsa ntchito. Osati lingaliro lokondweretsa kwambiri, sichoncho? Choncho, mtsikanayo ayenera kumudetsa nkhawa ndikusungira yekha mkwiyo. Pambuyo pa tsiku lovuta kugwira ntchito, tulukani pamtunda, penyani mndandanda womwe mumakonda pa TV kapena pitani ndi anzanu mu cafe - maganizo osayenerera amatha, mudzawona!
Khalani ndi chidwi ndi munthu wokondedwa wanu
Kuyankhulana momveka bwino pa chilichonse - inde, ndi zabwino, koma kuti mnyamatayo anayamba kukukhulupirirani - kuyankhulana naye pa nkhani zazikulu. Ayi, osati za msika wogulitsa ndi malonda; funsani za zokondweretsa zake, khalani ndi chidwi pa malingaliro a nkhani zina, mwa mawu, kusonyeza kuti malingaliro ake amatanthauza chinachake kwa inu. Amuna amakondana makamaka ndi akazi omwe amakhulupirira mwa iwo. Sikofunikira kuti mkazi apereke uphungu uliwonse - tonse timadziwa momwe abambo nthawi zina amawachitira - mvetserani, kondwerani, mumuuze kuti zonse zidzamugwirira ntchito. Ngati mutachita bwino, mwamunayo posachedwa adzagawana nanu.
Sonyezani chifundo chanu
Ngakhale kuti pali zovuta zambiri, anyamata sakhala okonda kwambiri chikondi chachikazi ndipo nthawi zonse amazindikira zizindikiro zomwe amawaganizira. Ndi nkhani ina ngati akufuna kuchita nawo. Koma ngati iwe ndi mwamuna mwakwaniritsa bwino malamulo anayi oyambirira, ndiye kuti alibe chidwi ndi inu. Ndi nthawi yosonyeza kuti ndi munthu wapadera kwa inu. Akazi amagwiritsa ntchito, monga lamulo, maonekedwe a nkhope ndi mawu. Kusangalatsa, kuyamika, kuyang'ana kumaso (mbali zokhazokha!) Zidzakhala zomveka kwa mwamuna za zomwe mukuzengereza kunena panobe. Gwirani, kuchepetsa mtunda, chinthu chachikulu, chitani pang'onopang'ono!
Ndinadabwa ndi munthuyu
Chowonadi chokhwima chimene chiyenera kukhala chodabwitsa mwa mtsikana ndikuti amagwira ntchito ndi amuna. Musakhale bukhu lotseguka, kuchoka m'malo mwa zinsinsi ndi zodabwitsa. Kuchita karate? Eya, musalifuule pamsonkhano woyamba, ndi bwino kuswa manja kumbuyo kwake (kokha kokha popanda kuvulala!) Pakati pa vutolo lina. Akutsimikiziridwa kudabwa ndi kufulumira kotero ndikufunsa kuti: Kodi mwaphunzira kuti? Kapena mwinamwake inu anagwiritsira ntchito zolaula za ana? Pano, mphatso yabwino kwa mulungu wa munthu wanu kapena mwana wa bwenzi lake lapamtima!
Musakhalepo
Ndipo simukusowa kuyang'ana maso anu mutatha kuwerenga mawu awa pamwambapa: kugunda khosi sikoyenera. Atsikana oterewa amayamba kunjenjemera. Musaiwale za chikhalidwe cha kusaka, chomwe chimakula kwambiri mwa amuna. Kotero, khalani nyama ya zinyama! Mulimbikitseni, koma musataye moyo wanu wonse. Kumbukirani kutalika kwake komwe mwafunafuna malo, tsopano!
Komabe, izi sizili njira zonse za amai momwe angagwirizane ndi mwamuna. Okondedwa owerenga, gawani ndemanga zanu mu ndemanga :)