Inde, khama ndi lofunika kwambiri, loyamika ndi lofunika kwambiri. Koma bwanji ngati mwamuna amagwira ntchito maora makumi asanu ndi awiri pa sabata, ndipo pamapeto a sabata, ndipo pa maholide, komanso, kugwira ntchito kumakhala cholinga chake cha moyo?
Mkazi akamanena kuti mwamuna wake ndi wogwira ntchito mwakhama, abwenzi ake ambiri amamuchitira kaduka, akuganiza kuti: "Nanga ndi chiyani china chomwe akusowa chomwe sichiyenerera?" Ndimaphunzira, ndibwino, ndipo amabweretsa ndalama kunyumba ... "Komabe, kwenikweni onse netak sunny ndi osasamala.
Munthu wotero alibe nthawi ya banja, chifukwa nthawi zonse amakhala wotanganidwa ndi ntchito komanso zinthu zina. Kaŵirikaŵiri amapita kukagwira ntchito pamene mkazi wake akugona, ndipo amabweranso pamene akufunanso kugona. Ntchito yake ilibe mapeto, palibe dziko, chifukwa imatenga nthawi ya wokondedwa pa maholide komanso masiku. Ndipo pamene amatha kumukakamiza kuti apite ku tchuthi, amatha ngakhale kukambirana pazinthu zofunika zokhudza bizinesi yake kapena nkhani zina zopangira ngakhale pamphepete mwa nyanja. Momwe mungakhalire mumkhalidwe umenewu? Osudzulana? Ayi, ndithudi! Pambuyo pake, pali njira yowonjezera yowonjezera-kuphunzitsa mwamuna wogwira ntchito kuti asangalale ndi bizinesi ndi ntchito basi.
Ndi ndani?
Ndi chifukwa chiyani abambo amapita kukagwira ntchito ndi mitu yawo? Pakhoza kukhala ambiri a iwo. Chifukwa choyamba - izi zimafuna ntchito inayake kapena ntchito zawo. Akadutsa polojekitiyo kapena cholinga chomwe akufuna, adzayambiranso kugwira ntchito momwemo. Chifukwa chachiwiri - anthu ena sakudziwa momwe angasamalire nthawi yawo kuti azigawa ntchito. Komabe, palibe chifukwa choyamba kapena chachiwiri chomwe sichimanena kuti amuna ali oponderezedwa. Ndi njira yokhayo kuchokera ku mlandu kupita ku zochitika kuti azigwira ntchito mwamisala, pamene akugwira ntchito, ndifilosofi. Komanso, ngakhale mwamuna wanu alibe pakhomo, mutha kudzisamalira nokha, ana ndi magulu ena, palibe amene amalepheretsa kapena kusokoneza. Patapita kanthawi, chirichonse chidzakhala pamalo, msondodzi adzakwera.
Zovuta zachilengedwe ndi munthu yemwe ntchito yake ndi cholinga cha moyo, ndipo zosangalatsa zonse - mpumulo, banja, zokondweretsa, chikondi - potsiriza kumapita kumbuyo. Amuna ogwira ntchito molimbika ndi ogwira ntchito amayesetsa kugwira ntchito mwakhama kuti akwanilitse cholinga: ndalama zambiri, maulendo a kunja kwa kunja, kugula galimoto kapena nyumba, ndi zina zotero, ndipo zoona zenizeni zogwira ntchito sizimagwirizanitsa kwenikweni ku zotsatira za ntchito zawo, zimadzikhutitsa ndi njira imodzi. Dzulo amagwira ntchito pa nthawi yowonjezera kapena akuchita bizinesi yake.
Ngakhale wogwiritsira ntchito bwino akupeza bwino, sakudziwa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito ndalama zake. Komanso, pamene mkazi, mayi kapena anthu ena apamtima akuyamba kufotokozera zolephera izi, wogwira ntchito nthawi zonse amakhala ndi zifukwa zomveka: "Sindili ndi ufulu kupita kutchuthi kufikira nditatsiriza izi ndikuzichita." Kuwonjezera pamenepo, pamene cholinga chikufikira, wogwiritsira ntchito akupitiriza kugwira ntchito, koma m'dzina la chinthu china. Ndipo nthawi zonse. Tiyeni tiyesetse kudziwa zomwe zikupangitsa izi?
Ndipo wadyera, ndi wophunzira wabwino kwambiri
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti zida zogawanika zingagawidwe m'magulu angapo, omwe ali ndi chifukwa chake. Tsopano ife tikupeza yemwe ali wa mtundu uwu, ndipo ife tikumvetsa momwe tingachitire aliyense wa iwo.
Wothamangitsidwa kwambiri
Iye adakhala wovuta kwambiri osati moyo wabwino, adagonjetsedwa ndi mavuto m'moyo wake. Ngati simusamala kwenikweni munthu, musadziwe zoyenera zake kapena okondedwa ake samamuyamikira, amayamba kuyang'ana kwinakwake - kuntchito. Kumeneko akutamandidwa ndi anzake, amanyadira akuluakulu ake, amakhala wogwira ntchito yofunika kwambiri: amagwira ntchito yowonjezera, amathandiza aliyense, amapereka uphungu. Chotsatira chake, ofesi yopanda ntchitoyi sichitha kugwira ntchito, amadikirira, amafunikira, amadziwa maonekedwe a ntchito ndikuthetsa vuto lililonse. Choncho, safuna ngakhale kupita kunyumba kukacheza ndi ana ndi mkazi wake.
Wogwira ntchito molimbika kwambiri
Makolo a munthu wotero nthawi zonse ankafuna kuti mwana wawo akhale wabwino kwa aliyense: kuntchito, kusukulu, masewera. Choncho, sakanakhoza kuwakwiyitsa ndikuyesera kugwirizanitsa zofuna za amayi ndi apapa, kotero sadasokonezedwe ndi zosangalatsa komanso zopuma. Kapena, makolowo sanatamande mwana wawo, choncho anaganiza kuti ayesetse kwambiri. Pamene munthu akukula, akupitiriza kugwira ntchito mwakhama, koma ali kuntchito, akuwonetsa kuti ntchito iliyonse ndi ntchito iliyonse pamapewa. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti anthu oterewa amafunikira thandizo la akatswiri, popeza iwo sangathe kumvetsa izi. Katswiri wa zamaganizo adzawathandiza kuchotsa maofesi a ana ndikusintha zofunikira.
Makhalidwe oipa. Amuna amenewa amagwira ntchito mwakhama kuti apeze ndalama zambiri. Ngakhale pamene munthu woteroyo akukhala mamilioni, iye sadzakhala wokwanira ndipo adzaganiza kuti sadakali bwino. Amachita manyazi chifukwa chakuti alibe nthawi yambiri yogwiritsira ntchito ndalama, zomwe adazipeza pambuyo pake ndi magazi, chifukwa akufunikira kugwira ntchito. Zovuta izi zimabwerera kuyambira ali mwana, kotero muyenera kuonanso m'mene anakulira, mverani makolo awo. Mwinamwake iye anakulira m'banja losasamalika kwambiri, pomwe ndalama zinalibe kusowa, choncho adaganiza kuti chilichonse chomwe chinamupangitsa kuti akhale wolemera, ndipo mwina sankamukonda, ndiye chifukwa chake amayesa kubweza ndalama zomwe makolo ake sanamupatse.
Kodi mungamuphunzitse bwanji kupuma?
Ngati muwona mwamuna mwa mtundu uliwonse wa zovuta, ndiye kuti muyenera kuchita mwamsanga, ndipo izi ziyenera kukhala zovuta kuyankhulana, ziyenera kuphunzitsidwa mobwerezabwereza. Osautsa sakudziwa momwe angapumulire, choncho muyenera kuthandiza wokondedwa wanu kuphunzira kupumula. Koma izi zingatheke bwanji? Ntchito yanu yaikulu ndikupanga mlengalenga yomwe mukufuna kubwerera, kuti mupange mwamuna wanu akufuna kubwerera kwawo. Yesetsani kukhala omvetsera ndi okonda, kukambirana momwe mumamukondera, kuyamika, kunena za malingaliro anu, zochitika, mum'funse momwe tsikuli linayendera. Chofunikira kwambiri kuchitidwa kwa othawa-othawa, izi ndi zofunika kwambiri.
Mufunseni momwe akufunira kumapeto kwa sabata (ndithudi, kupatula ntchito), ndi kumuthandiza kuzindikira chilakolako chake, ngakhale mutatha kumapeto kwa sabata lanu. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalimbikitsa kuchita izi: Tsiku lililonse kapena theka lakhala m'nyumba, perekani "mphotho" kwa wokwatirana - pitani kuchipatala, penyani masewero a mpira, yang'anani filimu imene amamukonda, mbale yomwe amamukonda, ndiyo, mumupatse zomwe amakonda.
Inde, funsani kuti akuthandizeni kunyumba - ayenera kudziwa kuti panyumba mukufunikanso kusonyeza khama. Koma musati mulamulire ndipo musapereke ntchito, koma funsani thandizo. Yerekezerani zomwe zimadziwika nokha ku mawu akuti "Kumenya masamulo apa" ndi "Wokondedwa, Ndikufuna kuyika alumali la mabuku pano. Ndipo mukuganiza bwanji za izi? ". Atakuthandizani, muthokozeni ndikumuyamika, muuzeni momwe iye alili wabwino, wosamalira ndi zina zotero. Ndipo ngati mwamuna wanu ndi wogwira ntchito yabwino kwambiri, ndiye kuti njira yanu yaikulu ndi iyi: "Ndiwe wofunika kwambiri, sindikudziwa kukhala ndi moyo popanda iwe!".
Ndipo ngati mukufuna kupita kwinakwake ndi iye kwinakwake, ndiye musanafikepo muvomereze pa masiku. Mukhoza kulembera m'mabuku ake, choncho adzakumbukira ndikubwera kunyumba nthawi.