Ndipo popeza tikukhala nawo, sikungakhale zoipa kuti tipewe kukhumudwa ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa zomwe amuna sakonda akazi, komanso chifukwa chake saona kuti ndife abwino.
Tidzakambirana munthu wamba, popanda zosokoneza zomwe amakonda. Choncho, zingakhale zothandiza kukambirana zomwe makamaka mwamuna wanu, mwinamwake, sangakhale ngati khalidwe lathu. Choncho, tiyeni tiyambe kuganizira zomwe amuna sakonda akazi.
Maonekedwe.
Monga tikudziwira kuti "zonse ziyenera kukhala zabwino mwa munthu", koma maonekedwe poyankhula ndi munthu makamaka. Zoonadi, zokonda za punk kuchokera ku Arbat ndi majeure ndi Rublevki ndi zosiyana kwambiri, komabe pali zambiri. Choyamba, ndizakuti amuna onse samakonda akazi olemera kwambiri, ndipo sitinena za mapaundi owonjezera 2-5, tikukamba za 10-15, ndikugwirizananso, kachiwiri kachiwiri. Chachiwiri, amuna samakonda pamene mkazi sakudziwa kugwiritsa ntchito makeup, apa ziyenera kuzindikiridwa kuti zofunikira zidzakhala zosiyana kwa magulu osiyanasiyana a amuna, koma zonsezo ziri choncho. Chabwino, potsiriza, nkhope, amuna samawakonda nkhope zovuta, monga sizingatheke kuganiza, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo, mkazi yemwe ali ndi nkhope ya mulungu angapangitsenso kukwiya, chifukwa motsutsana ndi msinkhu wake mwamuna amawoneka moyipa.
Mlingo wamaganizo, erudition.
Musamakhulupirire iwo amene amanena kuti munthu amakonda wopusa ali ndi nkhope yansalu, sizingatheke, atsikana oterewa angapambane, koma paulendo wautali. Kwa ubale wa nthawi yaitali, mwamuna adzasankha mkazi wanzeru, waududite, wanzeru. Chifukwa, kuyamikira kwa kukongola kumapita mofulumira, ndipo ngati palibe chokambirana ndi munthu, kupatula nsapato za fashoni ndi kampani ikuchita manyazi ndi mawu ake, ndiye izi sizingathe koma zimakhumudwitsa. Zoonadi, apa pali lupanga lomwelo-lakuthwa konsekonse, chifukwa, intellektualok yochuluka kwambiri sichidziwikiratu kuti munthu wamba angakhoze kuchirikiza kwautali wotani. Choncho, kupitiriza kubwereza kwa Homer ndi Schiller mwa munthu woyambirira sakonda chimodzimodzi.
Makhalidwe abwino ndi auzimu.
M'chigawo chino, sitidzayankhula za zinthu zopanda pake monga chiwembu, mabodza, ndi zina zotero. Monga zovuta kumvetsetsa, amuna awa mwa akazi samakonda. Ndipo tikuwona zotsatirazi, khalidwe la khalidwe monga bitchiness, mochulukitsa, amuna samakonda chimodzimodzi, koma pamitengo yaing'ono amamvetsera, ndizodabwitsa kwambiri. Amuna amakhulupirira kuti dontho laching'onong'ono limapatsa mkazi chilakolako china ndi kumvetsetsa bwino ubwenzi wake ndi iye. Choncho, khalani maso ndipo musapitirire.
Moyo, chuma.
Chinthu china chofunika chomwe amuna sawakonda mwa amayi ndi kulephera kuchita ntchito zapakhomo. Sitikukambirana pano ngati akulondola kapena ayi, ndi kunena kuti m'zaka za zana la 21 mkazi ali ndi ufulu wogwira ntchito osati kungoyima pamoto. Timangobwereza kuti abambo samakonda pamene mkazi sangathe kuchita chilichonse kunyumba, sikuti amangophika, koma amatsuka ndi kuyeretsa. Komabe, m'moyo wanu wa banja, simukuyenera kuchita izi nthawi zonse, koma munthu ayenera kudziwa (chabwino, kapena wotsimikiza) kuti mukudziwa momwe. Ndipotu, monga akunena, chikondi chimabwera ndi kupita, koma nthawi zonse mumafuna kudya!
Pano pali mndandanda wabwino wa momwe munthu wamba sangakonde mkazi. Koma, komabe, ndikubwerezanso kachiwiri kuti ziphunzitso izi sizili konsekonse, ndizochitika chabe, popeza n'zosatheka kukhazikitsa ndondomeko yeniyeni ndi yeniyeni.