Zomwe angachite kuti ayendetse anyamata amisala: Malangizo kwa atsikana

Mkazi aliyense amafuna kukhala wokongola ndi wosasunthika, yemwe kalonga aliyense adzalota, ndipo mwachidziwikire, amuna amangowonongeka pamapazi ake. Nkhani yakuti "Zomwe mungachite kuti muyendetse galimoto anthu amisala: uphungu kwa atsikana" adzakuwonetsani momwe angapangire malangizo osiyanasiyana pankhaniyi. Koma kodi zonsezo zimagwira ntchito, kapena, mwinamwake, zimatsutsana ndi winawake?

Aliyense wa ife akhoza kulangiza chinachake kuchokera pa zochitika zake - ndipo wina angawone kuti ndizovomerezeka pazochitika zawo. Ndipo winayo akuganiza kuti malangizowa amachokera kwa mtsikana yemwe sakudziwa kanthu za vutoli. Komabe, ziribe kanthu kuti ndife osiyana bwanji ndi zotsatira za moyo wathu, tonsefe tikukhudzidwa kwambiri ndi funsoli: choti tichite kuti anyamata apulumuke, malangizo kwa atsikana ndi othandiza kwambiri, kotero tiyesera kufotokoza zazikuluzo.

Nthawi zambiri mumamva: khalani nokha. Munthu amene amakukondani adzakonda momwe inu mulili.

Inde, zimamveka zokongola komanso zachikondi. Koma, ndipotu, aliyense amadziwa kuti anthu akuyamikilabe. Choyamba, amasankha ngati asonyeze bwenzi lake abwenzi ake, ndikuganiza za moyo wake, mtendere wamumtima ndi malingaliro ena. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndi nthawi yoti akule ndikuiwala nkhani za ana zomwe Katya Pushkareva amapeza kuti ali ndi chimwemwe. Ayi, ndithudi izo zingathe, koma kokha ngati izo zitapeza zisa lake ndi kuphunzira momwe zingayesere izo kuti zibisa zofooka zake.

Mwa njira, ndi bwino kuzindikira kuti pofuna kukonda anyamata, sikuli kwenikweni kuti ukhale wokongola. Chikoka ndi khadi la lipenga. Gwirizanani, chifukwa nthawi zambiri mwakhala mukuwona maanja pomwe mnyamata akuwoneka wokongola, ndipo mtsikana ali naye - kotero, palibe chinthu chapadera. Koma iwe umangoyankhula naye pang'ono, ndipo iwe mwiniwake umaganiza kale kuti iye ndi wokongola.

Akazi oterewa - chitsanzo chotsanzira anthu omwe sakudziwa chidwi cha amuna.

Ndiye, chiyenera kuchitanji kuti akalonga akutsatireni ndikukuuzani kuti ndinu kuwala muzenera ndi chimwemwe cha maso awo?

Choyamba, musaiwale kuti ndinu mkazi. Ngakhale abwenzi anu abwino kwambiri ali anyamata, ndipo mumakonda kumwa mowa ndi ng'ombe ndi kuyang'ana mpira, ndikuponya miyendo yanu patebulo. Musalole kuti mukhale pafupi kwambiri ndi munthu amene mumamuwona mnzanuyo. Palibe kayendedwe kokongola, kufuula kwakukulu ndi kuseka kwamisala. Khalani wofewa ngati khate. Onetsetsani kuti kusuntha kwanu konse kukhala kosalala ndi bata. Musamachite zinthu molimbika, koma kumasulidwa kwakukulu sikudzaonekera pa nkhope yanu. Amuna samakonda pamene mtsikana amakhala ngati mwana wazaka khumi ndi zitatu.

Mkazi aliyense ali ndi maonekedwe ake omwe. Muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungawagwiritsire ntchito. Sankhani zovala zanu zonse kuti abise zolakwa zanu zonse ndipo muzisamala zinthu zonse zokongola zomwe zili mwa inu. Lamuloli limagwiranso ntchito pa zodzoladzola, tsitsi ndi nsapato. Ngakhale mutadana zidendene, mumafunika kuvala, nthawi ndi nthawi. Chifukwa nsapato pa chidendene zingapangitse miyendo kukhala yopanda kanthu, ndiyomwe mumayang'ana - yachikazi. Momwemo muyenera kuchoka nsapato zomwe mumazikonda kumalo omwewo mowa ndi ng'ombe zikuyembekezera nthawi yake, ndikudziwa kuyenda pa zidendene zake, monga momwe zimakhalira amayi onse enieni.

Amuna okoma amafunikira osati maonekedwe komanso khalidwe. Amuna samakonda akazi opusa, monga momwe sakonda kwambiri anzeru. Pamene mukulankhulana ndi mnyamata, ganizirani luso lake ndikukhala ngati kuti ndinu wopusa pang'ono kuposa iye. Ngakhale ngati muli Ph.D. mu nyukiliya ya nyukiliya, simuyenera nthawi zonse kutsindika izi.

Khalani anzeru ndi omveka. Anyamata samangolekerera mzimu wonyansa. Ngakhale ngati iye adzakhala mulungu wamkazi, koma pa chifukwa chirichonse izo ziyamba kumanyazi ndi kupanga scandals, mwinamwake, mwamuna posachedwa amathawa. Choncho, yesetsani kuthetsa nkhani zonse mwamtendere. Ndipo ngakhale ngati mukufuna kumamatira pamtima pake, pewani kudziletsa nokha.
Kuwonjezera apo, nthawi zonse muyenera kudziwa zomwe mungachite. Simukuyenera kufotokozera nkhani yonse kwa banja lanu pamsonkhano woyamba, kutaya mavuto a abwenzi anu kwa mnyamatayo ndi kuwuza nkhani zakukhosi kuyambira ali mwana. Iye sali wokondweretsa izi, chifukwa iye, pulayimale, sakudziwa anthu awa ndipo ndi kutali ndi kuti tsiku lina adzawadziŵa. Choncho yesetsani kudziletsa nokha ndikuganizira zomwe mukuzinena.

Ngati mnyamata ali ndi chidwi ndi chinachake, yankhani mafunso ake, koma musatembenuzire mawu anu kukhala ovomerezeka. Ayeneranso kufunsidwa, koma izi siziyenera kudutsa, chifukwa anthu amadana akamakwera mumtima, makamaka anthu osadziwika.

Pafupi ndi inu, mnyamatayo ayenera kukhala wodekha ndi wabwino. Choncho, kumwetulira nthawi zambiri. Inde, musamangomasuka ndi kumwetulira, ngati mayi akuthawa kuchipatala. Ayi, ndi zosiyana. Muyenera kusonyeza njira yanu kuti muzisangalala ndi moyo, mukukhutira ndi momwe zinthu zikuyendera ndipo sakufuna kulira ndi kulira chifukwa china chilichonse. Amuna samakonda kukweza namwino ndipo safuna kuti atsikana awo azichita nthawi zambiri. Inde, ndipo mumavomereza amene akufuna mnzanu wa moyo, yemwe pa chifukwa chilichonse adzagwera kuvutika maganizo, kudula mitsempha, kulira ndi kudzida yekha. Komabe, anyamata amasankha akazi amphamvu omwe amatha kuthetsa mavuto ena ndipo samakhala okhumudwa chifukwa chachinthu chilichonse.

Mkazi aliyense, mu kuya kwa moyo wake, ndi wonyenga. Zingokhala kuti iwo sadziwa zonsezi mwa iwoeni, ndiyeno amapirira moyo wawo wonse kuti amuna samawakonda. Ndipotu, kukhala wachikazi ndi kukongola sikuli kovuta. Muyenera kudziyang'anira nokha, kuyendetsa manja ndi manja.

Kwa wina, kukhala mkazi ndi chikhalidwe chachilengedwe. Ndipo kwa wina - ntchito yodzidzimangira nokha. Ngati simukufuna kugwira ntchito, ndiye kuti musadandaule kuti anyamata sakuyang'ana. Bwerera ku mowa, chips, mpira ndi anyamata ako. Pambuyo pa zonse, mumakondedwa ndi kuyamikiridwa kumeneko. Osati momwe inu muyenera kukondera ndi kuyamikira wanu mmodzi yekha. Kotero ziri kwa inu zomwe mukufuna zina ndi zomwe moyo wanu umakugwirani bwino. Mukhoza kuphunzira nthawi zonse kukhala okongola komanso okopa. Mukungoyang'anitsitsa amayi ena, pezani mfundo ndi kuloweza chinachake mwa inu nokha. Pakapita nthawi, chikazi chidzakhala chizoloŵezi chochuluka. Munthu - cholengedwa choyendetsedwa ndi zomwe timachita poyamba kupyolera mu mphamvu, ndipo nthawi imayamba kutisangalatsa.

Choncho, ngati mukufunadi kukondana ndi kudzikonda nokha anyamata, ngakhale kuwathamangitsa openga, mwamsanga mudzatha kuchita izo. Ingokhulupirira nokha ndi kuyesetsa. Ndiye mudzapambana.