Nanga bwanji ngati mnyamatayu akunamiza?

Tonsefe nthawi zina timanama, kufotokoza izi ndikutsimikizira kuti bodza lingakhale labwino komanso lapafupi anthu osafunikira kudziwa zambiri. Koma ngati ife tokha tititsutsa wina wa bodza, ndiye kuti zimakhala zopweteka komanso zosasangalatsa. Makamaka ngati "munthu" uyu akutembenuka kukhala wokondedwa. Kodi mungatani ngati mnyamata akuwanamizani ndipo izi zikusonyeza kuti iye si munthu wabwino? Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri, ife timakwiyitsa anthu, ndipo sitikudziwa izi. Ngakhale, pali nthawi pamene munthu sakudziwa kuti sayenera kunama. Tidzayang'ana pazochita zonse.


Gdet anali?

Nthawi zambiri, akafunsidwa chifukwa chake mnyamatayo anasiya kugwira ntchito, sanatenge foni, ndi zina zotero, amayamba kulankhula za magalimoto, kuti sanamve foni kapena kuti bwana wosaopa Mulungu ndi bwana wosaloledwa amene amakakamiza kuti agwire ntchitoyo. Ndipo potsirizira pake izo zikutembenukira kuti mnyamatayo anangodziwana ndi abwenzi. Ngati mumatsutsa mnyamatayo mwatsatanetsatane, chifukwa chake chifukwa cha khalidweli sizomwe mukuchita ayi. Ngati mumakwiya nthawi zonse, nenani kuti sayenera kumwa ndi abwenzi pambuyo pa robot ndipo nthawi yomweyo idikt inu, ndiye kuti mwabodza palibe chinthu chachilendo. Dzifunseni nokha, chifukwa pamene mumakhulupirira kuti akhalabe kuntchito, mumakumana ndi zoopsa ndipo simukuzindikira kuti amamwa mowa wina. Mwinamwake, poyamba munthu amavomereza kwa inu moona mtima kumene adakhala ndi nthawi yeniyeni, koma zomwe munachita zinali zoipa. Kotero iye anaganiza kuti achitepo kuti aliyense akhale bwino. Ngati mkhalidwe wanu ndi uwu, yesetsani kuphunzira kuti mumvetsetse. Ngati muwona kuti abwera kunyumba mozama, ngati mukudziwa kuti mnyamatayo akungotenga nthawi ndi anzanu, simukusowa kumukakamiza. Kumvetsetsa, kuwonjezera pa akazi okondedwa, ayenera kukhala ndi chinachake m'moyo wake. Ndipo ngakhale simukukonda abwenzi ake, kumbukirani kuti amawakonda komanso amawafuna. Choncho, musalephere kuyankha pamisonkhano yake ndi anthu okondedwa, ndipo sangakuwanamizeni kwa nthawi yaitali, chifukwa sangakhale ndi kanthu kochita nawo.

Kunama osatsutsidwa

Mwamuna wanu samakufunsani, amayamika kuphika kwanu, amachitcha kuti mzimayi weniweni, kenako mumaphunzira kuchokera kukhumi cha pakamwa zomwe mbatata zanu zimathira mchere, mu messhouse ndipo simungathe kusinthanso batani. Mwachibadwa, mumapweteka ndikumva kupweteka, chifukwa simumvetsa chifukwa chake wokondedwa akuwuza munthu wina, osati inu. Pankhaniyi, kumbukirani momwe mumachitira akamatsutsidwa. Yankhulani moona mtima. Amayi ambiri sangathe kuzindikira kuti sakudziwa momwe angachitire kutsutsidwa ndi wokondedwa wawo. Koma ngati iye amachita mwanjira iyi, ndiye, mofulumira, kamodzi atayesera kukuuzani inu malingaliro ake ndipo anapeza zodandaula, nkhanza zowopsya. Zotsatira zake, mnyamatayo anangopanga kusakutsutsani kuti muzinena kuti zonse zili bwino. Chifukwa cha kukana kwanu kutsutsidwa, mwamuna ayenera kufotokozera zomwe adakumana nazo ndi wina. Kotero, ngati inu mutakhala mu zochitika zoterozo, mmalo mokhala ndi nkhondo ndi kupanga zolakwika, ganizirani za zomwe akunena. Mwina mukufunikira kuphunzira kuphika bwino, kuyeretsa mobwerezabwereza, ndi zina zotero. Musangomenyana ndi mnyamatayo mofuula kuti: "Simukukonda ine." Iye amakukondani, chifukwa ngati sakonda, sangafune osalola, kuti sakonda, makamaka, mwakachetechete.

Ndine Superman

Pali nthawi pamene asungwana amatha kuona zomwe mnyamata akugwirizanitsa pafupifupi nkhani zawo zonse. Kodi iye ndirazskazyval angatani kuti mnyamatayu ndi wanzeru kwambiri, wochenjera, wamphamvu, wolekerera. Mndandandawu ukhoza kupitilira kwamuyaya. Pankhaniyi, mungathe kunena chinthu chimodzi - munthu ali ndi zovuta. Mwachionekere, ali mwana adanyozedwa, anakhumudwa, adanena kuti anali woipitsitsa kuposa ena. Mnyamatayo anakula, koma zonse zinakhalabe mu moyo wake ndipo zinalembedwa mu subcortex. Zikuwoneka kuti munthuyo ndi munthu wosakhudzidwa, wofooka, wopusa, wosadziyesa yekha. Pano akugona nthawi zonse, motero Mulungu aletse kuti asagwe pamaso pa ena. Mulimonsemo, simukuyenera kuganizira pa izi. Ngati mwamunayo sakuwopsyeza, ndipo anthu samamuyang'ana, atagwira kuseka, akudziyesa kuti mumamukhulupirira. Kumvetsetsa, ndikofunika kwa munthu, popeza munthu wopanga wotere amagonjetsa zovuta zake ndipo amadzidalira. Musamunyoze pamaso pa ena ndipo musamunyoze. Munthu wotere amadziwa kuti khalidweli ndi lopweteka kwambiri. Mwinamwake iye amadzimvetsa mozama kuti simungakhulupirire pa zonsezi komanso mumayamikila thandizo. Ngati mukuziwonetsa poyera - zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri pa kudzidalira ndi kumverera kwanu. Ngati mnyamatayo atembenuka, kambiranani naye momasuka. Nenani kuti mukudziwa zomwe zili mkati. Izi zimadziwika kwa anthu ena pafupi naye. Ndipo inu nonse mumamukonda iye monga choncho. Ndipo nkhani zonsezi zimangotsutsana ndi zomwe mukuwona. Choncho, safunikira kupanga chilichonse, chifukwa ali kale wolemekezeka. Zoonadi, zokambirana zoterezi ziyenera kuchitidwa pokhapokha, wina aziyesera kudzilungamitsa yekha kapena kungokonza zokhumudwitsa. Kumbukirani kuti musanakhale munthu wosatetezeka kwambiri, yemwe analibe nthawi yothandizira ndi chitetezo chake.

Mathological

Palinso njira yoyipa - munthu nthawi zonse. Amanama komanso ndi zinthu zing'onozing'ono, komanso muzinthu zazikulu. Ndipo, ngati mumutsutsira zabodza, nthawi zonse amapereka zifukwa. Zifukwa zake zopanda pake ndizopanda pake, koma mnyamatayo akuyimabe yekha, kenako amatsutsa kuti simumakhulupirira. Ndi khalidwe lokhalo silingathe kulimbana. Ziri choncho kuti ziribe kanthu zomvetsa chisoni kuti kuvomereza, mnyamatayu ali ndi mavuto aakulu ndi psyche. Iye sangakhoze basi kumuthandiza bodza. Komanso, akukhala m'dziko lake, momwe chirichonse chinanenedwa chiri chowona. Kumutsimikizira chinthu chinachake sizingakhale zomveka. Choncho, muyenera kuganizira mofatsa ngati mungathe kukhala ndi munthu woteroyo kapena kukhala bwino pamene simunakhalepo. Otsutsa odwala matendawa amayamba kubwereka ndi zina zoipa. Amangodzipangitsa okha kuti sizinali. Ndipotu, khalidwe ili ndilofanana ndi kukula kwa umunthu. Choncho, ngati mumakondabe munthu woteroyo ndikufuna kuti mukhale ndi iye, onetsetsani kuti mum'pangitse kuti awonekere, kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo, ndi kupita kuchipatala. Ngati izi sizikuchitika, zinthu zidzangowonjezereka.