Tiye tiyankhule momasuka, ndi liti pamene munapereka mphatso kwa amuna? Ndipo apa sizingalankhule za "podrkah-oblavalkah", mwachitsanzo, tsiku la kubadwa kapena pa March 8. Inde, ndi bokosi la chokoleti kuchokera kwa wothandizana naye, ndi maluwa a maluwa tsiku loyamba "mwakhungu" kuchokera_kuwombera, sitidzawerenga. Kumbukirani kuti ife amayi timalengedwa kuti tithandizire oimira maukwati amphamvu akuonetsa makhalidwe awo abwino - kuphatikizapo mphamvu ndi mowolowa manja. Gwirizitsani kuti munthu wamphamvu yekha ndi amene angakwanitse kukhala wopatsa, ndipo ntchito yanu pano mulimonsemo ndi kudziwa momwe mungakhalire, kuti munthu apange mphatso.
Pangani "jenereta ya mphatso"
Kodi iwe sukudziwa momwe ungakhalire kuti munthu wako apange mphatso? Choyamba, ndikofunikira kupanga malo abwino kwa izi. Tonse timadziwa kuti nthawi yopatsa mphatso zambiri ndi maluwa. Ndicho chifukwa chake ntchito yanu siyikuphimba ubale wanu mtsogolo ndipo yesetsani kuwadzaza ndi chikondi. Kukumbukira ndi kusonyeza zakale, komanso kuyesayesa kwanu kukhala munthu wapadera omwe nthawizonse anali wokonzeka kutenga "nyenyezi kuchokera kumwamba" sichidzadziwika - mwinamwake, madzulo mudzayembekezera mphatso yodabwitsa.
Dziwani momwe mungasangalatse kwenikweni mphatso
Ngakhale mphatso yanu si mphete ya diamondi, koma chikumbutso chaling'ono kapena ntchito yopangidwa ndi manja kuchokera kwa wokondedwa, yesani nthawizonse kuti muwonetsere chidwi chokweza. Kukhala ndi khalidwe ndilo kuti kunyada kwa amuna kudyala. Izi zimagwira ntchito mwachindunji muzolowera, zomwe zimapereka mphatso, chifukwa chisangalalo cha mkazi chimakhala chosangalatsa.
Zosamveka bwino
Akazi pa kuchotsedwa kwa amuna oongoka molunjika amakhala ochenjera kwambiri komanso osayenerera. Pachifukwa ichi, kubuula kwakukulu kwa milioni pawonetsero ndi mtengo wapamwamba wamakono umapereka zotsatira zochepa kuposa mawu ophweka: "Wokondedwa, ndigulire ine diresi!". Koma apa chinthu chachikulu sikuti chikhale chodziwika bwino ndi kulongosola kwanu molunjika ndi momveka bwino: munthu ayenera kukhala ndi lingaliro kuti simunamukakamize kugula chinthu chatsopano, koma adafuna kukukondweretsani.
Tchulani tsatanetsatane
Ngati mwachita molondola zonse zomwe zafotokozedwa m'ndime yapitayi, inu, mosasamala kanthu kalikonse, muli pangozi yaikulu .... Mwachitsanzo, mmalo mwa chovala chokongoletsa ndi Louis Vuitton kupeza mosavuta calico sarafan. Izi, choyamba, zimakhala chifukwa chakuti aliyense wa ife ali ndi malingaliro athu a dziko lapansi. Zitha kuchitika kuti mukumvetsetsa kwa wokondedwa wanu simukuzindikira kuti si mkazi wokha, koma ngati "bulu" lokoma komanso lopweteketsa, lomwe makamaka ndizovala zodzikongoletsera, osati zokongola. Choncho, tetezani ku mphatso zomwe zimatsutsana ndi kalembedwe lanu ndi zonse zomwe mukufuna, lembetsani nkhaniyo kuchokera pa chizindikiro cha chinthu chomwe mukufuna, ndipo mubweretseni kwa woperekayo.
Limbikitsani kugwilitsila nchito ndalama
Pamene akugwiritsirani ntchito nthawi yake, ndiye kuti akufunika kwambiri. Ngati muli ndi mwayi wokomana nawo pa moyo wanu, si mtsogoleri wonyada, musamadziletsa komanso musamupusitse ndi kubwezera ndi mawu okondedwa, mayamiko. Ngati mukufuna kukupatsani mphatso, muziyamikira ndipo musanyalanyaze zofuna za wopereka wanu. Koma musaiwale kuti muchite zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti asakhale ndi maganizo ofuna kukudzudzulani kuti ndinu munthu wodzikonda. Mumulangize nthawi zonse komanso pa zifukwa zosiyanasiyana, osati m'masiku a kupereka mphatso.
Perekani zitsanzo zabwino
Ngati mphatso yanu siinapangidwe bwino kwambiri, yongolani mkhalidwewu nthawi ndi nthawi kuti mudziwe zambiri za momwe anyamata ena amathandizira amayi awo ndi mphatso zabwino komanso zodabwitsa komanso popanda. Cholinga chanu ndi chakuti sayenera kukhala malipiro, uthenga.
Khalani amene akufuna kupereka mphatso
Pano, ngati mukufuna kupereka mphatso, muyenera kudziyang'ana nokha ndi maso ena. Mwachitsanzo, pangani chithunzithunzi cha mfumu yapamwamba: pitani ku salon, mukatsitsimutseni zovala zanu, nthawi zonse yesetsani kukhala ndi maonekedwe abwino, mawonekedwe apamwamba, tsitsi. Kumbukirani kuti mafumu okhawo adalandiridwa ndi chidwi ndi amuna. Yesetsani izi!