Kodi mungapite bwanji kuntchito mukatha masiku oyembekezera?

Kubwerera ndizolakwika? Mwinamwake, pokhapokha mutayankhula za kupita kuntchito atachoka kuntchito yachinyamata. Kodi mungapangitse bwanji kubwerera kwanu mwamtendere komanso kosapweteka kwa mwanayo? Kodi mukuganiza kuti mukuyenera kubwerera kuntchito mutatha kukhala osapitirira nthawi yaitali? Mafunso ambirimbiri amadutsa mutu wanga? Izi ndi zachilendo! Kuti tikhale pa "tsiku lalikulu", timachita mogwirizana ndi dongosolo. Choyamba, kuti tithetsere mavuto, tiyeni tiyambe kusewera! Mofananamo, tiyerekeze kuti tikusewera.

Ntchito yathu ndi kuima pa khola "ofesi" popanda kudutsa mu khola "nkhawa" makamaka kupitirira "selo" la selo! Tsono, tsiku lalikulu likuyandikira: tchuthi likutha, ntchito yeniyeni idzabweretsanso inu muzambiri za akatswiri. Kusamuka kwathu! Kusewera, nenani, mu "Chiwonetsero", mukhoza kuyembekezera mwayi. Koma mu masewera akuluakulu a masewera, kusasintha si malo, kotero tiphunzira mau apamwamba - "kukonzekera"! Kodi mungatani kuti mupite kuntchito pambuyo pa nthawi yobereka komanso chochita?

Timayesa kusuntha

Titangopita paulendo woyamwitsa, timadziwa kuti posachedwa tidzatha kubwerera kuntchito. Koma pamene mwanayo ndi wamng'ono, timayendetsa ganizoli. Ayi, pali, ndithudi, akatswiri okonzekera kutsogolo kuntchito, koma izi ndizosiyana. Komabe, mwanayo amakula, ndipo maganizo okhudza ntchito sangathe kunyalanyazidwa. Ife ndi amayi, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti akazi ndi anzeru komanso aluntha (tingathe kufotokoza nkhope yoyenera pamphindi yoyenera!). Kawirikawiri, tikudziwa: kubisa mutu wako mumchenga si njira yabwino kwambiri. Konzani mwamsanga mwamsanga. Vuto nambala yoyamba: ganizirani za ndani kuti achoke naye. A sukulu (boma, pakhomo pawokha kapena pakhomo), nanny osatha, wogwiritsa ntchito mosiyana ndi agogo aakazi-zilizonse, kufunafuna zosankha kuyenera kuchitidwa pasadakhale, makamaka popeza chipangizo cha sukuluyi chikugwirizana ndi zolemba zosiyanasiyana - khadi limodzi lachipatala lingatenge nthawi yochuluka. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, tiyenera kumakonzekera mwanayo pang'onopang'ono kuti asinthe "manja" a wina. Werengani ndakatulo kapena mabuku onena za ana a sukulu, yendani pafupi ndi munda wanu wam'tsogolo, tiuzeni mmene ana amakhalamo. Ngati mukuyamwitsa ndipo mukufuna, komabe, kubwerera kuntchito, mukhoza kuyesa kudya: ndi zovuta, koma n'zotheka. Malinga ndi Art. 258 TC RF amagwira ntchito amayi omwe ali ndi ana osapitirira zaka 1.5 amapatsidwa zina zowonjezera kuti azidyetsa mwana osachepera maola atatu - mphindi 30 iliyonse yopuma. Mwamwayi, mumzinda waukulu, ngakhale kupuma kumeneku sikokwanira kuti achoke kwa mwanayo. Pomwe pempho la mayiyo likufunsana, ndi kuyankhulana ndi otsogolera, mapulogalamuwa akhoza kuphatikizidwa kumapeto kapena kuyamba tsiku logwira ntchito kapena kuikidwa pamasana a chakudya chamasana, zomwe zimapatsa malo ogwiritsira ntchito. Njira inanso yoperekera amayi aang'ono ndi ntchito yapadera. Kugwira ntchito nthawi yeniyeni, ntchito yochepa-mwina, mabwana adzakonza njira yotereyi. Izi zingakhale chipulumutso chenicheni: musadandaule, ndipo funsani maulendo onse ku chipatala. Lolani kuti mupeze malipiro aang'ono - mitsempha ndi yotsika mtengo! Makamaka kuyambira sikuli kwanthawi: pamene mwanayo akukula, mukhoza kudzipereka kuntchito yonse.

Timayambitsa maubwenzi ndi abwenzi mu masewerawa

Pamene tikukhala pakhomo pathanthwe, musaiwale za anthu omwe adasambira m'nyanja yamkuntho. Sungani ubale ndi anzako ndikuyambitsa maubwenzi ogwira ntchito ngakhale musanabwerere ku ofesi. Ndikofunika kusuntha zitatu. Choyamba, muyenera kupeza kampani yogwirizana kapena kuyang'ana malo a kampani yanu. Njira zatsopano zogwirira ntchito, zinthu zatsopano, maimidwe atsopano m'maboma ena kapena ena ... Ndikofunika kuti mudziwe zambirimbiri zomwe zimamveka bwino: inu, ndithudi, simunalipo kwa kanthawi, komabe muzochitika zonse! Chachiwiri, aitaneni anzanu abwenzi kuntchito ndikuwaitanira pamisonkhano yaying'ono. Izi zidzakuthandizani kukumbukira nokha, kuti pamene mutalowa mu ofesi, simukuyang'ananso ngati kuti mwaukitsidwa kuchokera kuchabechabe. Kuwonjezera apo, msonkhano woterewu udzakuthandizani kuphunzira miseche yaposachedwapa, yomwe, mwachidziwikire, ili yothandiza: kukhala ndi chidziwitso cha "chinsinsi" kudzakuthandizani kupeĊµa zowonjezera pa kubwerera. Osatchula zosangalatsa zomwe mumapeza poyankhula ndi anzanu! Chachitatu, bwanji osafunsa abwana anu za msonkhano 2-3 milungu isanafike kutha? Iyi ndiyo njira yabwino yofotokozera mkhalidwewu, mudzakambirana mawu a kubwerera, kambiranani za kusintha komwe kunachitika mukakhala mulibe. Kuwonjezera apo, onetsani akuluakulu kuti akusangalala kubwerera ku ntchito yogwira ntchito!

Timayika

Sitikumva ma drum m'mawa, koma "nthawi" ikuyandikira. Kukonzekera "nkhondo" yotsiriza kumaphatikizapo zinthu zingapo zofunika: kuti asatope, ayenera kufalitsidwa masiku 4. Kwa masiku anayi, ngati simunachite izi pasanathe, ganizirani mwanayo tsogolo lake "mayi wachiwiri". Inde, ngati agogo ake okondedwa akulera mwanayo, njira yowonongeka idzayambitsidwa, ndipo ndichinthu chofunika kwambiri kuyambitsa pang'onopang'ono: kukhala limodzi pakhomo - kupereka mwanayo kuti agwirizane ndi kukhalapo kwa mlendo. Ndiye ndibwino kuyenda mu malo omwe amakonda kwambiri, pang'onopang'ono amazisiya okha ndi nanny nthawi yaitali komanso yaitali. Gawo lotsatira ndi kudzaza friji ndi mafiriji. Muyenera kuyesa kuwoneratu zonse mpaka pamapeto, cholinga chanu sikuthamanga m'masitolo mu sabata yoyamba. Kuwonjezera pa mankhwala, taganizirani za zinthu, mankhwala ndi mankhwala kwa mwana, makamaka ngati sakukhala pakhomo, koma apite kumunda kapena agogo. Payenera kukhala chirichonse mu thumba la ana kuti "tuluke mu kuwala"! Onetsetsani kuti inu ndi mwanayo muli okonzeka kusintha, koma abambo a banja anazindikira kuti siteji yatsopano m'moyo wanu ikuyamba. Chabwino, ngati amutengera mwanayo kumunda kapena agogo - simudzachita manyazi, ndipo mukhoza kudziganizira nokha ...! Kwa masiku atatu, konzekerani ndi kufalitsa mbale zingapo: motero, choyamba, chovuta kwambiri, madzulo pamaso panu sipadzakhala funso losatha: "Kodi tili ndi chakudya chamadzulo chotani?". Tiyeneranso kusamalira zovala: Sambani ndi kupanga zovala kwa sabata lonse - osati zanu zokha, komanso mwana wanu! Musaiwale kuika zovala zambiri m'thumba. Kwa MASIKU awiri timawerengera: tikufufuza mu kukumbukira, kaya zonse zapangidwa? Nyumba yosasemphana? Kodi inkaperekedwa invoice? Pali nthawi yochulukirapo zolembazo! Lembani mafoni onse oyenera kuti muyankhulane ndi mwanayo ngati sakukhala. Lembani mndandanda wa mafoni okhudzana ndi makanda, komanso kulembera ulamuliro wa tsikulo, kudya zakudya za mwanayo, onetsetsani kuti mumalongosola zomwe akugwiritsira ntchito. Mukhoza kumuuza namwino mokweza nthawi zambiri, koma ndizosavuta kuzilemba. Kambiranani ndi namwino zomwe ayenera kuchita ngati mwanayo akuvulala, akudwala, - ambiri, atsatire mfundo yakuti "Ovuta kuphunzira - zosavuta kumenya." Kwa tsiku. Khalani ndi mpumulo! Patsiku lino, mwachidziwikire, sitiyenera kukhala ndi ntchito iliyonse yosasangalatsa. Timadalira namwino wathu wakhanda, ndipo timadzikonda tokha. Mukungoyenera kupuma. Musati mudzikane nokha chirichonse - kumayambiriro kwa "nkhondo" muyenera kukhala osangalala ndi kupumula!

Timayamba ndi kupambana!

Pokwiya kwambiri, kubwerera kuntchito kudzafanizidwa ndi mayeso ovuta. Koma, ngati tiyambanso kucheza ndi anzathu komanso / kapena ndi apamwamba kwambiri, ulendo woyamba wopita ku ofesi ukuyenda ndi nkhawa. Yesetsani kusonyeza zithunzi za mwanayo mobwerezabwereza - ngakhale ngati mukufunadi kudzitama pa "ntchito" yanu. Chilichonse chimadalira zomwe zikuchitika mu timuyi, koma nthawi zambiri akuluakulu amayembekezera ntchito zogwira ntchito, osasamala kwambiri mautumiki athu a amayi. Zithunzi zosonyeza kuti ana aamuna amajambula zithunzi zimakwiyitsa bwana ndipo zimatipangitsa kuganiza kuti sitinakonzekere ntchito yabwino. Kuletsa kumathandiza kwambiri poyamba, mpaka mutadziwonetsera nokha. Pa nthawi yomweyi palibe chomwe chimalepheretsa kuika chikwama china chokongola cha mwana - ngati wina mwadzidzidzi akufuna kuwayamikira! Ndipo, ndithudi, musatchule maminiti makumi atatu alionse namwino kapena mphunzitsi. Ndipotu, palibe chifukwa chodandaula, ndipo ngati pali mavuto, mudzakambirana.