Aliyense amadziwa kufunika kwabwino ndi anzako akugwira ntchito. Pambuyo pake, tikufuna kugwira ntchito mu malo abwino kwambiri aubwenzi, ndikufuna kubwera kuntchito ndikugwira ntchito pakati pa akatswiri omwe ali okonzeka kuwathandiza.
Ubale kuntchito pakati pa anzanu
Pamene maubwenzi ndi anzako ali opangidwa mwakhama, ntchitoyo imakhala zovuta, pamene aliyense amayesa kuwononga moyo wa zochitika pamodzi ndi zovuta. Pali makampani ena omwe mkati mwake amapanga chisangalalo. Koma nthawi zambiri izi zimakhala zabodza. Palikumenyana pakati pa apolisi ndi akuluakulu, omwe palibe otaika ndi otaika.
Simungathe kutenga nawo mbali pazokambirana ndi kusamvana ndikukhala munthu wodekha mwachibadwa, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti anthu onse oyandikana nawo amakhalanso nawo. Zimakhala zovuta kugwira ntchitoyi ngati aliyense akufuna kukoka bulangeti payekha.
Momwe mungapitirire ndi anzako ndi kumanga ubale ndi anzako?
Muyenera kulingalira ndi malingaliro a gulu lonse, chifukwa ndinu gawo la gululi. Muyenera kukhala ndi malingaliro anu, koma muyenera kumvetsera mnzanu ndikuyesera kumumvetsa.
Yesetsani kukhala achifundo, okondeka, osakondwera. Sikophweka nthawi zonse kumanga maubwenzi kuntchito, ndiyeno simukudziwa momwe mawa munthu amene mumaganiza kuti ndi mnzanu mawa ndiye kuti ubwenzi wanu ukhoza kutha. Gulu lonseli lidzadziŵa za moyo wanu, kuchokera kwa munthu yemwe munamupatsa mokoma mtima.
Khalani nokha. Khalani woona mtima, moona mtima, yesetsani kukhumudwa kwanu, munthu yemwe mulidi.
Musati mutenge ntchito yonse pamapewa anu ndipo musamapite nthawi zonse kuti mugwirizane, sizingatheke kuti muthe kukwaniritsa bwino ntchito. Akatswiri a zamaganizo a kumadzulo akufika pamfundoyi, ngati munthu amachita zonse kwa ena, amadzetsa zilakolako zake.
Ngati gulu la anthu likusokoneza miseche, musatenge mawu ndi munthuyu mozama. Osadandaula za anthu omwe sakusangalatsani. Khalani mabwenzi ndi kuyankhulana ndi anthu omwe amakuyamikirani inu ndi abwenzi anu.
Ndiwe yani?
Anthu ambiri amagwira ntchito ku ofesi. N'zosatheka kuchitanso ngakhale chimodzi, chimakhalabe kugwira ntchito pawekha. Pali mitundu yambiri ya antchito, amachititsa "mavuto" mu timuyi. Ngati mwadzidzidzi mumadzipeza nokha, muyenera kumvera malangizo.
Zovuta
Msungwanayo ndi wabwino, koma amatsutsa. Pokhala ndi mdima wamdima ndi mantha, samalola anzake ogwira nawo ntchito kuti: "Sitingathe kudutsa ntchito nthawi." Kukayikira kwakukulu kumapweteka maganizo ake ndipo kumawonjezera mantha mu timu.
Tip: phunzirani kusunga. Sikofunika kufotokoza mantha anu mokweza. Ndi bwino kumanga ntchito kuti pasakhale chifukwa chodandaula ndipo panalibe ntchito.
Zodalilika
Mkazi woteroyo nthawi zambiri amanena kuti simungavutike. Zoona, iwo amagwiritsa ntchito izi ndipo nthawi zina amayesa kuwombera ntchito yake. Mgwirizanowu umatanthauzira mawuwo mwano, ngakhale kuti umagwira ntchito kwambiri.
Council. Anthu opanda vuto amafunika kusiyanitsa pakati pa zomwe maudindo anu amathera ndi mavuto a anthu ena ayamba. Yesetsani kunena "ayi."
Zosathandiza
Ponena za anthu awa amanena kuti manja awo samakula kuchokera kumeneko. Ngakhale lamulo lophweka limasanduka nkhani yovuta. Mtsikanayo nthawi zonse "akuwombera" anzake, akufunsa mafunso, momwe angachitire.
Langizo: mwanayo sangayende yekha, ngati atasunga zovala za mayi ake nthawi zonse.
Kutseka
Ngati akuwonekera pambali, ndiye kuti aliyense akulakwitsa ntchito. Tsopano zokambirana ziyamba, kuti chirichonse chiri choipa, kuti chirichonse chikuvulaza. Pang'onopang'ono, anzako amadziwa kuti kulankhulana bwino ndi mtsikanayo sikungayankhulane naye.
Council. Musamve ngati Lisa wosauka, musakambirane mavuto anu ndi thanzi lanu kuntchito. Izi zidzakuthandizani kukhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi anzako.
Khalani okoma, musalole ubale wapamtima. Sinthani maganizo. Ubale uyenera kukhala wokonda malonda. Musaiwale za ubwino ndi kudzipereka. Musayese kulira bwino kuposa inu.