Mgwirizano watsopano, tikuyesera kuzindikira kuti "nkhope zathu" ndizo zathu, zomwe zimakhala zabwino, zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa. Ubwenzi kuntchito umakhala chinthu chokhulupirika kwa abwana kapena ... chifukwa chochotsedwa.
ZOKHUDZA IFEYO
"Kupanga" ubwenzi ndizovuta kwambiri, akatswiri a maganizo a maganizo amati. Ndi zofanana zonse ndi "ubale wa anthu wamba", uli ndi zozizwitsa zingapo. Pano, kuwonjezera pa khalidwe, malo osungira umunthu ndi zofuna, zolinga, zofuna za ntchito, ndipo nthawi zambiri, nsanje yapamwamba imalowa mu masewero. Ubale wotero uli ndi chikhalidwe cholimba ndipo umakhala pansi pa malamulo osalembedwera.
"Mabwenzi nthaŵi zambiri anthu amene takhala tikudziŵa kwa nthaŵi yaitali, osati chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri, zimatenga nthawi kuti tikhale paubwenzi," anatero katswiri wa zamaganizo Maria Fedorova. - Amzanga amatidziwa mosiyana - onse oipa ndi abwino, nthawi zina amatikhululukira chifukwa cha zochita zoipa kwambiri ndipo amavomereza ife monga momwe tilili. Kuntchito, izi ndi zosiyana: apa tikuyesera kuti tisonyeze dziko lapansi munthu wina ndipo nthawi zonse sitikufuna anzathu kuti timuone "mbali yolakwika". Kugwirizana pakati pa ntchito kumagwirizanitsa, ndipo monga lamulo, si funso la ubwenzi, ndizo mabwenzi abwino okha. "
SOUL DREAM
Natasha anati: "Zaka 8 zapitazo, ndinapita kuntchito yatsopano, kenako tinatsegula magazini pogwiritsa ntchito masewera olimbitsa thupi. Mgwirizano unakhazikitsidwa kuyambira pachiyambi. Poyamba, aliyense amayang'anirana, ndipo miyambo yathu inayamba kusintha, tinayamba kukondwerera maholide, masiku okumbukira pamodzi. Kawirikawiri, anthu anayamba kukhala ofanana kwambiri ndi mzimu, ndipo, posintha ntchito kale, ndimayambirananso ndi anthu ena omwe kale ndinkagwira nawo ntchito. " Ichi ndi chitsanzo pamene maubwenzi abwino amakhazikitsidwa ngati anthu ali ogwirizana ndi chilengedwe. "Chifukwa cha mask masewera, munthu amawonekera pa ntchito imeneyi," akutero Maria Fedorova. - Chilengedwe chimaphatikizapo kuyankhulana kwamtima, komwe kumatchedwa popanda chipewa. "
Komabe, zochitika za ubale weniweni sizimakhala zosavuta nthawi zonse: nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti machitidwe osagwirizana pa ntchito akuwononga moyo. Lika ali ndi zaka 25, ndipo miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yapitayo adayenera kusintha ntchito. Chifukwa chake ndi "ubwenzi" womwewo. "Ndili ndi ntchito ngati logisticist kwa kampani yomwe timu yomwe idakondwera nayo - Ndinkafuna kupeza mabwenzi ndi aliyense. Kwa ine, kulankhulana kumawonekera momasuka, komanso pambali, mwina ndikungoyamba chabe - sindingathe kusunga chilichonse mwa ine ndekha. Mwachidule, posachedwa ofesi yonse idadziwa za zokondweretsa ndi zochitika zanga ... Pafupi ndi ine ndinayamba kunong'oneza, gulu lachimuna lija linayamba kuseketsa nthabwala zosangalatsa, ndipo ena anayamba kunyalanyaza. Ndinayenera kusiya, chifukwa kukhalapo m'ofesiyi kunasintha. "
ERROR # 1 Chikhumbo chokhala "ake omwe mu gululo." Kodi mukufuna kukondweretsa, dzifunseni nokha ndipo musapeze kanthu kabwino kuposa kuuza aliyense za bwenzi lanu lomaliza? Musaiwale: Sikuti aliyense ali ndi chidwi cholowerera m'maganizo mwa anthu omwe sali achizolowezi, ambirife timakhala ndi zokwanira zathu.
Komabe, zinsinsi za anthu ena zimagwirizana ndi kuyankha mwachindunji - kunena moona mtima. Zomalizirazi nthawi zambiri zimawoneka ngati osamvetsetseka ndi kudutsa malire osaloledwa.
Lingaliro la akatswiri
IRINA ZHELANOVA , katswiri wa zamaganizo, mbuye wa NLP:
Ubale mkati mwa timagulu kawirikawiri umadalira malamulo ndi ndondomeko ya utsogoleri. Mu gulu limene chikhalidwe cha chigwirizano chimaphatikizapo ubale weniweni, ndipo abwana amanyalanyaza za kuswa kwa ndudu komanso tiyi, ubwenzi ndiwotchulidwa. Ngati kampaniyi ikuyesa kugwirizanitsa anthu osati odziwa ntchito, kumanga nyumba yomanga nthawi zonse, kupuma mokwanira ndi zochitika zina, ndiye kuti pangakhale kuyanjana kwachiyanjano. Monga lamulo, zovuta zowonjezereka zokhudzana ndi chikhalidwe ndi ntchito yowonjezera mu gulu, mwayi wochepa wa kukhala nawo paubwenzi, komanso mosiyana. Zambiri zimadalira momwe anthu amasankhidwira. Atsogoleri abwino a HR amadziwa kuti ntchito yabwino, osati katswiri wapamwamba kwambiri, komanso mawonekedwe a antchito.
ZOKHUDZA DZIKO ...
Kuphatikiza pa chikhumbo cholankhulana, ubale kuntchito nthawi zambiri umachokera ku zolinga zathu ndi zofuna zathu. Ena amakhulupirira kuti kupanga bwenzi ndi bwana ndikobwino kuposa kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi iye. Kodi ndi choncho?
Tatyana, wolemba mabuku wa bungwe la malonda: "Ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito ku bungwe la chaka chachitatu ndipo posachedwa ndakhala ndikuganiza za kusintha ntchito yanga. Ndine bwenzi ndi bwana wanga - Galya ndi msinkhu wanga womwewo. Ife timakondana wina ndi mzake mwakamodzi: zonse zogwirizana, timakonda mpumulo wogwira ntchito, timapita kuchipatala chomwecho. Poyamba zinkawoneka kuti ndinali ndi tikiti yachangu: Ndinalota ntchito yowonjezera, ndikugwira nawo ntchito zabwino. Koma zonse zinasintha mosiyana. Pasanapite nthawi Galina anayamba kundipatsa ntchito yowonjezera, kuphatikizapo osati mwachindunji ndi ine. Iye akuti: "Ndimangokukhulupirirani, ndikukhulupirira kuti simudzatha." Ndangokhala ndi maudindo ambiri, ndipo panalibe chiyembekezo chowala, kapena ayi. "
ERROR # 2 Yembekezerani kuti mabwenzi apindule. Kusintha kwa mau otsogolera "abwana-subordinate" nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa zotsatira zosangalatsa kwambiri. Choyamba, pokhala paubwenzi ndi akuluakulu anu muli otsimikizika ndi nsanje ndi zonyansa pakati pa ofesi. Koma ichi si chinthu chachikulu. Izi zidzakulitsa katundu wamaganizo ndi thupi. Ngati poyamba munayenera kuchita chikumbumtima, tsopano chinthu chachikulu ndi "kusalekerera" ndi "kuthandizira bwenzi" mu nthawi yovuta.
Lingaliro la akatswiri
MARIA FEDOROVA , katswiri wa zamaganizo (Institute of Group and Family Psychology and Psychotherapy):
Mwatsoka, sikuti aliyense amadziwa kukhala bwenzi, ndipo izi sizidalira malo omwe munthuyo amagwira ntchito. M'masiku athu ano, ambiri amayang'ana pazochita zawo, pa ntchito yomangika mwamsanga, ndipo ubwino wa ubwenzi umenewu umachepa. Kupambana kwa ubale kuntchito kumadalira makamaka zomwe munthu mwiniwakeyo akuyembekezera kuchokera pachibwenzi ichi.
Ngati mukufuna kuvomerezedwa kumalo anu atsopano, yesetsani kufanana ndi kavalidwe ka zovala ndi khalidwe lomwe limagwiritsidwa ntchito mu kampaniyo. Zambiri zimadalira chikhalidwe cha woyambitsa: ena mosavuta ndipo nthawi yomweyo amayamba kulankhulana, ena amatenga nthawi kuti ayang'ane pozungulira timu.
PANTHAWI yopuma kuchokera kupanga
Pamene akunena, samasankha anzawo - amayamba, kuphatikizapo anzawo. Ndipo kuti chiyanjano chotero chibweretse chimwemwe, osati chokhumudwitsa, muyenera kusunga malamulo ophweka ochepa:
KULEMBA №1
Kubwera ku gulu latsopano, yang'anani pozungulira, musamangoganizira mwamsanga. Kumvetsetsa ndani yemwe. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, gululi lidzakuyang'anirani: "Yang'anani ndi zovala," kuti muzindikire zizoloŵezi zanu ndi luso lanu luso.
KULEMBA №2
Musathamangire kuti mujowine mgwirizanowu ndi "mgwirizano". Maofesi omwe amachitira "chibwenzi ndi munthu" si zachilendo. Sikoyenera, osadziŵa zochitikazo, kuti mutenge nawo masewera otere: patapita kanthawi, mosayembekezereka kwa inu nokha, mungapeze kuti mwamatira kumbali yolakwika ya mtsinjewu ndipo muli mu gulu la otayika kwanuko.
KULEMBA №3
Lamulo la golide "Ndimalemekeza ena, ena amandilemekeza" amagwira ntchito nthawi zonse. Anthu okwiya kwambiri ndi anthu omwe sagwirizana nawo sakukondwera nawo palimodzi, mosasamala kanthu za kukula kwa ndalama za kampani ndizochita.
Ndipo otsiriza . Njira yabwino yopezera adani pamalo atsopano ndi kufotokoza mkwiyo wawo chifukwa cha lamulo losalembedwera la "nyumba ya amonke" yatsopano, zilizonse zomwe zingakhalepo: malingaliro onyansa kapena amphaka otsika mtengo pamakona oyendera ndi ofesi yonse. Izi ndizochitika pamene kuli kwanzeru kutsatira malamulo a masewera kusiyana ndi kuyesa kuyika udindo wa munthu.