Kawiri kawiri ali ndi zaka makumi asanu, amai amafuna ntchito pa zifukwa zambiri. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna amapeza pang'ono, amadula, ana amakula ndikuyamba kukhala okhaokha, zomwe zinayambitsa nthawi yaulere, kuchoka pakhomopo komanso kukhumudwa kapena moyo wopambana. Pitirizani mndandanda uwu wopanda malire, koma mfundo siyikomwe, koma momwe mungafunire ntchito, ngati muli oposa makumi asanu. Ndipo momwemo zonsezi ziyenera kuchitidwa bwino. Pambuyo pazaka zino ndi zovuta kupeza malo abwino ogwirira ntchito.
Ndipo pano inu, mwazifukwa zina, munaganiza kuti ntchito ndi chinthu chokha chomwe chidzakupangitsani kuti mukhale ndi zaka makumi asanu, ndipo popanda zomwe mumakhala nazo ndi zosasangalatsa. Iwe ndithudi unapita kwa iye kufufuza. Chinthu choyamba chimene inu munachita chinali, monga lamulo, kukhala pansi pa foni ndikuganiza zosokoneza ndi kugwirizana kwanu ndi achikulire anu. Ndipo kotero, inu munapezebe malo omasuka mu bungwe. Pambuyo paitanidwe, chinthu choyamba chimene munachita chinali kupereka nthawi ina yofunsana. Inu, ndithudi, pa nthawi ino kale monga bayonet anaimirira pakhomo la nduna, mukuyembekeza kuti muli ndi mwayi. Koma mwamuna wa msinkhu wanu (kapena mwinamwake wamng'ono) mu suti yeniyeni anapereka mwayi ndi malipiro awa, omwe simunafunikire kuganizira. Ndipo lingaliro loyamba limene linagwera pamutu panga: "Zoonadi pa ntchito yonyansa yoteroyo ndidzakhala ndi vuto loopsya ngati limeneli? ". Ndipo ngati mukuganiziranso za ntchito yanu, pano padzakhala chonyoza. Ndipo pazifukwa zanu zonse kuti ndinu katswiri wodziwa bwino, mumangotchula chiwerengero chofunikila pakati pa achinyamata omwe akufuna kulandira mwayi umenewu. Pambuyo pa zokambirana zambiri, ndiye kuti mwazindikira nokha zinthu zofunika. Kuwerengera pa ntchito kwa makumi asanu, komanso mochulukirapo pa malo omwe mukufuna, kuli ngati kulota za "zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu". Ndipo mfundo yachiwiri, yomwe inanena kuti olemba onse, opatsidwa zaka, amakhulupirira kuti ngati muli ndi zaka zoposa makumi asanu ndi zisanu, zikutanthauza kuti simudzakhala wolimbika kuposa, mwachitsanzo, msungwana wazaka 25 omwe angamagwire ntchito. Pano pali chithunzi chowonekera cha zomwe amai ambiri a m'badwo uno akuyang'anitsitsa, kuyesera kupeza ntchito.
Kuwonjezera pa zonsezi, abwana ali ndi chidaliro kuti mkazi wa msinkhu uno adzakhala wovuta kwambiri kuti adziwe zamakono zamakono, sangathe kusinthana ndikuyankha mwamsanga njira zatsopano zamsika wamakono. Ndi chifukwa cha izi komanso ntchito zonse zomwe zimaperekedwa nthawi zambiri zimangokhala zolembera zopanda malire komanso malipiro ochepa.
Mwa njira, tsopano, mochititsa chidwi, tsiku la kubadwa kwa wogwira ntchitoyo ndi chimodzi mwa mfundo zazikulu zowonjezera. Ndipo pa zokambirana zilizonse mumafunsidwa zaka zanu, osati zonse zomwe mumachita ndi ntchito zamaluso. Kapena chinthu choyamba chimene mungathe kuchiwona pafupi ndi ntchito iliyonse yachiwiri ndi chakuti achinyamata, omwe ali ndi zaka 20 mpaka 40 akufunikira. Pano pali zochitika za anthu amakono komanso msika wogwira ntchito.
Ngati muli ndi zaka zapuma pantchito, simuyenera kukwiyitsa ndi kuvutika maganizo chifukwa simungapeze ntchito yabwino. Nazi malingaliro omwe akuyenera kukuthandizani kupeza njira yothetsera vutoli.
1. Ngati bwana akukuuzani kuti ndinu wolimbika kwambiri kusiyana ndi wazaka makumi awiri (20) amene angabwere kumalo anu, yesetsani kumusulira phindu lonse la msinkhu wanu. Tikagogomezera ponena kuti muli plodding, dongosolo lanu la mitsempha kwa zaka zonse limapsa mtima, makamaka muzipadera zanu. Mu mawu, mu bizinesi yanu, palibe kapena palibe chomwe chingakulepheretseni. Komanso, zonse zimachokera kwa inu, chitsimikiziro chathunthu kuti simungatenge mimba ndipo musapite ku chigamulo, kapena simungatenge nthawi yodwala yodwala kuti musamalire mwana wamng'ono yemwe wagwa mwadzidzidzi. Dziwonetseni nokha ndi zaka zanu ndi mbali yosiyana ndi yoyenera.
2. Sankhani zomwe mukuzifuna zomwe mukuzifuna: ntchito yosangalatsa ndi yosangalatsa, malipiro apamwamba, kukula kwa ntchito kapena chinachake chimene mungathe kudzisunga nokha kapena chimene mungathe kumasuka kwanu. Kudziwa nokha zomwe mukuyang'ana, mudzaona kuti n'zosavuta kuti mudziwe nokha ku msika wogwira ntchito.
3. Kulankhulana ndi abwana, nthawi zonse momveka bwino komanso momveka bwino kutsutsana ndi zofuna zawo, zokhudzana ndi udindo ndi malipiro (simukufuna kupeza ntchito ya ruble makumi asanu, ngakhale woyang'anira). Bweretsani zotsutsana zambiri ndi zitsanzo za ntchito yanu ndi zochitika za ntchito momwe mungathere.
4. Yesani kudabwa ndi abwana. Pewani kusemphana ndikumuuza za zovuta komanso zovuta kwambiri pamoyo wanu. Muwonetseni iye kuti ndinu munthu wokhutira ndi wokondwa yemwe, ngakhale adakali msinkhu wa zaka, amangotulutsa mphamvu zambiri. Yesetsani kukhala anzeru, ocheza nawo. Onetsetsani kuti ndinu munthu amene angathe kupanga chisankho choyenera nthawi zonse.
5. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri pakupeza ntchito ndizochita zanu osati kungosonyeza, koma kutsimikizira kwa bwana wanu chikhumbo chanu ndi chilakolako chofuna kudziwa chinachake chatsopano mu dziko luso luso ndi mapulogalamu osiyanasiyana. Yesetsani ngakhale maphunziro apadera kuti muphunzire zipangizo zamakono. Izi zidzakuthandizani, ndi zochitika zanu, kuphatikizapo chidziwitso cha zamakono zamakono, ndiye abwana aliyense sangayime. Komanso, mukhoza kupita ku maphunziro apamwamba kapena maphunziro apadera. Mwa njira, yonjezerani mawu anu ndi zilembo ndi dipatimenti ku maphunziro awa. Kumbukirani kuti sikuchedwa kwambiri kuphunzira, ndipo ndalama zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pazimenezo zimabwereranso kwa inu ngati ntchito yabwino kwambiri.
Ndipo otsiriza, kumbukirani, yemwe akufuna, iye amapeza nthawizonse. Choncho, ngati mwakana, musawopsyeze, koma pitirizani kufunafuna ntchito. Chinthu chachikulu, kulemekeza ndi kudziyamikira nokha, ndiye kuti mudzayamikiridwa mu ulemu.