Kuti adziteteze okha ndi kuphunzira momwe angachitire, ngati pali anthu achisoni ogwira ntchito, ndikofunikira kudziŵa zifukwa za khalidwe lawo ndi zipsyinjo za anthu oterewa. Choyamba, nkoyenera kukumbukira kuti anthu, mwa chikhalidwe chawo, amachitira nsanje. Inu mumasirira munthu wina, musati muzinene izo, kapena inu yesetsani kuthetsa kumverera uku. Makhalidwe amenewa ndi oyamikirika, komanso pamene muwona kuti wina akukudani, koma samayesa kupweteka, koma, mosiyana, amatenga chitsanzo kuchokera kwa inu ndipo akufuna kuti akhale bwino. Koma, chinthu china, ngati anthu sangathe kuyang'ana kuti muli ndi banja labwino, nyumba, galimoto ndipo mukukwaniritsa chinachake kuntchito. Anthu oterewa ali mu gulu, ayenera kutetezedwa. Inde, pokhala kuntchito, simungathe kudzipatula nokha kwa anthu oterewa, chifukwa mukufunikirabe kusinthasintha. Koma, ngakhale zili choncho, mukhoza kuphunzira kuchita zinthu motero kuti ali ndi mwayi wambiri wokunyozani, kukukhumudwitsa ndi kukuvulazani.
Pali malamulo angapo omwe akufotokozera momwe angakhalire ndi anthu oterewa. Choncho, choyamba, phunzirani kukhala osayankhula momveka bwino. Ngakhale mutakhala munthu wotseguka, muyenera kusamala ndi anthu oterowo ndikuganizira zomwe mukunena. Musalole kuti mulengeze poyera kuti bwana akukutamandani chifukwa cha ntchito yomwe mwachita kapena munalandira bonasi. Kawirikawiri, yesetsani kulankhula mochepa momwe mungathere nokha, kudzitama pa moyo wanu, maubwenzi ndi wokondedwa wanu. Kumbukirani kuti anthu achisoni amakwiya osati chifukwa cha zomwe mudachita kuntchito, komanso chifukwa chakuti ndinu munthu wokondwa. Ndiponso, ngati chinachake chikuchitika kapena chinachake sichikuyenda bwino, musalole kuti mudandaule kwa aliyense. Kumbukirani kuti anthu achisoni angathe kugwiritsa ntchito izi motsutsana nanu. Koma, panthawi imodzimodziyo, simuyenera kukhala imvi ndi zosawerengeka, malinga ngati palibe wina akukudani. Mfundo yakuti pali anthu oipa pafupi ndi inu sikuti muyenera kudziyang'anira nokha, kuyenda muzinyumba ndi kukwera tram, mukakhala ndi mwayi wogula zovala zapamwamba, pitani kwa okongola ndikubwera ku ofesi pa galimoto yamtengo wapatali. Ndizomwe simukufunikira kuchita chinachake kupyolera muyeso. Ngati nthawi zonse mumadzikuza pazinthu zatsopano kwa antchito omwe sangakwanitse, ndipo amanyoza umphawi wawo, ndiye kuti palibe choipa chifukwa amasirira ndi kukwiya. Ndikofunika kuti nthawizonse tikhale munthu wabwino komanso wokwanira amene amadzilemekeza yekha, koma samayiwala za ena. Ngati muwona kuti wina wogwira ntchito wagwira ntchito yabwino, ndipo wothandizana naye adapeza kavalidwe ka chic - onetsetsani kutamanda ndi kuyamika. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mawu anu ndi oona mtima. Ngati anthu akunyengerera nokha, adzakwiya, amakwiyidwa komanso akuchitira nsanje kwambiri. Powona kuti ndinu wopambana komanso wokondwa kuposa wina, palibe choipa ndi choopsa. Ndizoipa mukamaziyika nthawi zonse ndikuwonekera pamaso pa iwo omwe, mwazifukwa zina, samatero.
Komanso, antchito ena amaganiza kuti mwakwaniritsa chinachake chifukwa cha maonekedwe okongola kapena kugwirizana. Mwachibadwa, amayamba kukukukwiyirani ndi kukwiya, chifukwa alibe mwayi wopindula chimodzimodzi, chifukwa maonekedwe amawoneka choncho ndikulankhulana kulibe. Ngati izi siziri zoona, anthu sayenera kuloledwa kukunyodola. Mwapindula zonse ndi ntchito yanu ndipo muli ndi ufulu wokolola. Choncho musachite mantha kunena zoona. Adziwitseni kuti mwakwanitsa kuti mukhale ndi galimoto, chifukwa chosavuta, mwachitsanzo, chifukwa mwakhala mukugwira ntchito kuyambira zaka khumi ndi zinayi. Ndipo malipiro ndi kutamandidwa kwa bwana yemwe mumapezeranso sikuti mwangozi osati kwa maso okongola. Ndizomwezo pamene abwenzi anu akuyenda ndikupumula, mumakhala m'mabuku, ndipo mwamaliza mwapadera awiri panthawi yomweyo. Lolani aliyense adziwe kuti simuli mwayi ngati iwo akuganiza. Chokha, onetsetsani kuti kufotokoza kwanu sikusandutsa chokhumudwitsa. Musamachite monga momwe mumadzimvera mlandu chifukwa cha zomwe muli nazo. Musadzidzichepetse nokha monga momwe anthu ena akuonera, komanso nokha. Inu simunayese pachabe ndipo mukuyesera kuti mupitirize. Ndipo, ngati anthu awa sakanakhoza ndipo sakufuna kuti achite chinachake, ndiye izi ndi zolakwika zawo zokha. Ndipo panjira, akhoza kukonza chirichonse ngati akufunadi.
Ndipotu munthu wabwino ndi wokoma mtima akhoza kumangidwa ndi nsanje. Inde, wina adzalinso akumuyang'anitsitsa, koma ambiri, ngati ali ndi kaduka, ali woyera. Chowonadi ndi chakuti abwenzi anu ndi mabwenzi anu adziwa nthawi zonse kuti mwakwanitsa zinthu zonse nokha, musadzitamande chifukwa cha zomwe muli nazo, nthawi zonse okonzeka kuthandizira ndikugawana nawo. Anthu oterewa adzakuthandizani nthawi zonse, kukuthandizani ndikukutetezani kwa anthu achisoni. Choncho, yesetsani kukhala ndi chiyembekezo, musadzilole kuti mukambirane ndi kunong'oneza bondo. Ndipo komatu - musachirire wina ndi nsanje yakuda. Pachifukwa ichi, pafupi ndi inu padzakhala anthu ambiri abwino omwe amangomusiya anthu ake achinyengo ndi odzikweza akuwononga moyo wanu.